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The Way We Communicate or Interact with Others is Changing

Everything is changing so quickly now. How we communicate or interact with others is one of them. There are two main factors pushing this. One is the progress of AI and the other is “normalizing” lying and misleading others. Instead of totally relying on what most of us thought of as communicating with others, we are being pressed to move up and access a “higher” way to keep our sanity.

The Previous or “Normal” Way of Interacting

The previous or “normal” (3rd dimension mindset) way of interacting with others was relying ONLY on face-to-face interactions and written or spoken words.

Face-to-Face Interactions and Written or Spoken Words Can…

1   BE VERY LIMITING

The previous way of interacting was restricted to what we could physically see, hear, touch, taste, or smell (the 5 senses). We would usually trust what others voiced, their behaviors, their expressions, or what they wrote down in words.

Face-to-Face Interactions and Written or Spoken Words Can…

2   BE CONFUSING

Let’s continue discussing words. Not everyone defines a term or concept with the same meaning. Our culture, previous experiences, and current state of mind all impact our ability to understand what was said or written.

Face-to-Face Interactions and Written or Spoken Words Can…

3   BE VERY MANIPULATIVE

Here’s where AI and misleading others come in. In the last few years, it’s become almost “normal” to use in-the-flesh interactions or words for manipulation. Even in our closest relationships, they can do or say what we would like in order to “get” something from it.

Face-to-Face Interactions and Written or Spoken Words Can…

4   MAKE IT EASY FOR US TO LIE OR KEEP SECRETS

When we believe the ONLY way we communicate with others is by meeting in person, our expressions, and what is written or voiced, then it’s easy for us to not always be honest. Nowadays, it seems like not telling the truth has become common and even expected, especially when telling white lies or keeping some things private.

The problem is that being even slightly untruthful makes it hard to have a deep meaningful relationship with others. That kind of closeness needs to be built on honesty and disclosure.

Face-to-Face Interactions and Written or Spoken Words Can…

5   GIVE FALSE SECURITY

Previous (3rd dimension mindset) relationships encouraged us and our loved ones to say or write down promises of our future behaviors. Now, with the uncertainty and speed at which things are moving, those promises are extremely difficult to fulfill.

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The New or “Higher” Way of Interacting

The new or “higher” (4th dimension mindset) way of interacting with others moves us beyond just in-the-flesh interactions and the use of words—to include and give priority to our mental and spiritual abilities. That means we put our thoughts, feelings, and our ability to sense energy at the core focal point of our communication process.

Using Mental and Spiritual Interactions Can…

1   BE LIMITLESS

The “higher” way of interacting is unrestricted, not bound to the previous way (3rd dimension), and many times can go beyond what is describable with words. It can only be felt and experienced.

Using Mental and Spiritual Interactions Can…

2   BE CLARIFYING

Because the “higher” way of interacting is experienced in real-time,  it’s pure feelings—free of the complexity of 3rd dimensional filters.

Using Mental and Spiritual Interactions Can…

3   BE VERY GENUINE

The “higher” way of communication is honest and authentic, especially if we catch it before logic has seeped in to poo-poo it. With this there is no need to decode someone’s actions, what they wrote, or voiced.

Summary

Once we learn to rely primarily on our mental and spiritual ability, communication with others is more effective, eliminates being misled, and makes our relationships closer.

Here’s the Easy Part!

If we want to access the “higher” way more often, all we need to do is have the desire to use it. Our intuition or inner guidance hears our call and will guide us in that direction.

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I have a QUIZ that may help you understand your inner guidance or intuition…

How Often Do You Listen to Your Intuition?

Also, check out the Inner Work and Intuition sections on my website.

And, if you need an advisor to help you on your quest, contact Vickie Champion for a coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

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