Vickie Champion

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Consequences of Having a Twin Flame

At first, it might seem that the purpose of the twin flame journey is all about getting and staying in our twin flame’s arms. It’s way more than that! There are constant ups, downs, twists, and turns to this wild journey. By the time we’re well into our twin flame journey, our whole life has been turned inside out.

Here’s Some of the Consequences We Might Experience as a Result of Having a Twin Flame…

We Tend to…

 1   BECOME MORE ISOLATED AND DISTANT-

It’s like God or a Higher Power is taking away all the distractions to make us concentrate on our twin flame mission. We need more time for solitude.

2   MAKE MAJOR CHANGES IN OUR LIVES-

There will be lots of changes. Among them we might move long distances, drop our religion, change our career, and even stop addictions or bad habits. We find ourselves willing to do anything and everything.

3   CHANGE FRIENDS-

Because our whole life begins to center around our twin flame, we have less and less in common with others who are not experiencing the same phenomenon, or at least, supporting our roller-coaster twin flame relationship.

4   DISTANCE OURSELVES FROM DIFFICULT FAMILY MEMBERS-

If we don’t cut ties completely, we will drastically limit our time with those who are heavily into control, rigid rules, obligations, and traditions of the 3rd dimension mindset. Being around them can make us feel guilty or judged.

5   SLOW DOWN, AND NOT BE SO CRAZY BUSY-

We stop living life like it’s a race, always running from one thing to another.

6   BECOME REALLY SPIRITUAL-

Not only do we embrace God, Higher Power, Universe, Spirit, Divine, or any other way you want to identify that higher source that knows more than we do, but we learn to count on that inner guidance or intuition in our relationship and with everything else in our lives.

7   DEVELOP LESS TOLERANCE TOWARDS 3rd DIMENSION ATTITUDES AND BEHAVIORS-

It might get difficult to watch the news or be involved in or around pessimistic drama.

8   BECOME MORE SENSITIVE-

This goes along with the previous point. Not only do we become less tolerant to others’ negative energy, we become more sensitive to sounds, chemicals, perfumes, and certain foods. For example, it might become unpleasant to listen to white noise, and we might be drawn to listening to brown noise instead.

9   BECOME MORE CREATIVE-

The key is to do more things that are unconventional (similar to the unconventional twin flame relationship), imaginative (being open to new ideas), and that are inspired (to utilize our inner guide or intuition).

There are hundreds of ways this will play out in our lives. It could be as subtle as being more creative with every-day problem-solving, or as obvious as changing your career to be an artist.

10   IMPROVE OUR SUPERNATURAL ABILITIES-

We acquire a desire and the ability to communicate with our twin flame the 4th dimension way through psychic abilities, such as telepathy and astral projection. Maybe that’s why we get so many psychic readings, because we are learning to get better at the skill ourselves.

Inside Out

As I said before, our whole life will be turned inside out. The twin flame journey drives us inward, pushing us to find our true selves, feel connected to a Higher Source, and achieve twin flame union.

Are You Ready to Turn Your Life Inward?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

 

INFJs: 9 Reasons Meaningful Conversations Are Important

INFJ personality types (according to the MBTI test) love to get lost in their own thoughts and do well with very little social interaction. But there is one thing they don’t do well with—not having heart-to-heart discussions. Below are some reasons why connecting with others at a deep level is significant for the well-being of INFJs.

Meaningful Conversations help INFJs…

1   FEEL CONNECTED TO OTHERS-

Shallow and menial conversations of everyday life can confuse and frustrate INFJs, making them feel disconnected. But, connecting with others at a deep level does just the opposite.

2   SHARE WITH OTHERS-

INFJs have a strong desire to teach, advise, and instruct others. Usually when INFJs speak—people listen.

3   GET CONFIRMATION-

INFJs have a tendency to be tough on themselves and have lots of self-doubt. They often find support in talking to other people they trust or respect.

4   FIND PIECES TO PUZZLES-

Often deep conversations add missing pieces to INFJ’s theories to help them see the bigger picture.  They can often experience “aha” moments and get hunches during discussions.

5   KNOW OTHERS-

INFJs have a strong desire to know others at the deepest and sincerest level possible. The results are therapy-like conversations.

6   SEE EVIDENCE-

INFJs are highly intuitive and often can know things before they happen. Heart-to-heart talks can reveal proof of their insights. This helps them to stop second-guessing themselves and build trust in their inner guide.

7   AVOID INSOLATION DISEASE –

Even though INFJs can be hermit-like, they need social interactions to stay fulfilled. Because they thrive on deep connections, too much time alone can leave them feeling fearful, lost, and depressed.

8   LEARN-

INFJs have a drive to progress, grow, and better themselves. They need to take on new challenges to their thinking regularly, and meaningful conversations are part of that.

9   COME ALIVE-

Let’s face it, finding connections and having deep relationships mean everything to an INFJ. Without them, they tend to lose their life’s purpose and feel unworthy.

Are You an INFJ who is Ready to Really Feel Worthy?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to end the need to doubt yourself and finally feel worthy.  For more details.

Also, check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help feeling worthy, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

Why A Course in Miracles Can Help INFJ Personality Types

I recently came across a book on MBTI Personality Types where the author suggested that Jesus might have been an INFJ. When I read the word Jesus, I got a mini “aha.” I knew it was something I needed to consider and that it was possibly another piece to connect in my own enlightenment journey.

I am an INFJ, and for over 30 years, I have been passionate about A Course of Miracles (ACIM), which was channeled from Jesus.

Here’s Why I Think “A Course in Miracles” Can Help INFJ Personality Types…  

INFJs…

1   Think a Lot- ACIM is a course in mind-training. It’s perfect for someone who spends so much time in thought.

2   Are Prone to Analyze and Play Devil’s Advocate- ACIM takes one concept, “all there is, is love,” and approaches it from 100s of different angles.

3   Get Energy in Solitude- ACIM is a self-study course that offers that much needed time alone for reflection and gives us plenty of “ahas” with it.

4   Need a Cause- There probably isn’t a cause much higher than getting rid of the ego and learning how to be Jesus-like.

5   Are Eager to Do Their Inner Work- ACIM provides plenty of that. On top of the 365 workbook lessons, there are 100s of concepts to help us retrain our thoughts and perceptions about ourselves, others, God, and the world around us. The best part is observing ourselves changing as we implement the concepts—letting go of our fears and accepting the love.

6   Want to Have Deep, Meaningful Relationships- ACIM provides a mindset to take every relationship to the highest level possible, to love without any conditions.

7   Are Called “the Counselors” and are Fond of Teaching, Advising, and Guiding- There are several places throughout ACIM that suggest the idea of teaching. It even has a section called “Manual for Teachers.”

 

If you are one of the few INFJs that haven’t heard of A Course in Miracles, you might want to check it out.

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Are You in a Twin Flame Relationship or Just Infatuated or Obsessed?

It seems more and more people are having really intense attractions for a special person. Even though you can’t get that person out of your mind and want to be with them so bad you can’t see straight, that is not a reason to automatically assume you have found your twin flame.

Here’s the Difference Between Having a Twin Flame and Being Infatuated or Obsessed…

1   THE LENGTH OF TIME-

Being Infatuated or Obsessed…

When we are infatuated or obsessed, the attraction weakens with time. What was once terribly exciting gradually dwindles as the months pass by.

Having a Twin Flame…

When we have a twin flame, the attraction is still there years and even decades later. If we are doing our inner work, the attraction actually grows. Love usually takes time to develop, mature, and expand.

2   DREAMWORLD-

Being Infatuated or Obsessed…

When we are infatuated or obsessed we get caught up in daydreaming and imagining how we want the relationship to play out and what we want our twin flame to say and do.

Having a Twin Flame…

When we have a twin flame, the loving energy is often so intense it keeps us focused on the feeling. Our dreamworld mainly consists of wanting to experience that amazing mind-blowing feeling more.

3   FOCUS OUR ATTENTION ON-

Being Infatuated or Obsessed …

When we are infatuated or obsessed, we focus our attention on the physical world, which is what we can see, hear, and touch. Having physical contact with our special person is extremely important, if not everything. Often the attraction fades when we can’t see, hear, or touch our special person.

Having a Twin Flame…

When we have a twin flame, we focus our attention mostly on the feeling.

The love, appreciation, and connection outweighs what is physically seen, heard, or touched, ten to one.

5   PERFECTION-

Being Infatuated or Obsessed …

When we are infatuated or obsessed, we think our special person is perfect, and especially perfect for us. We think everything about them is perfect—the way they show affection, how they look, what they say, their personality, and how they behave.

One of the sure signs we are infatuated or obsessed is that we can’t stop talking about our special person.

Having a Twin Flame…

When we have a twin flame, it’s not about their perfections or even seeing their imperfections, but how the connection and love feels.

6   EXPECTATIONS-

Being Infatuated or Obsessed …

When we are infatuated or obsessed, we tend to place a lot of responsibility on our special person. We usually expect our special person to make us feel better by fulfilling our needs. This could be sexual, companionship, safety, financially, to build our self-esteem, or anything else we think we are lacking.  If those needs are not met, we quickly lose interest in our special person.

Having a Twin Flame…

When we have a twin flame, we see the relationship from a different perspective, taking full responsibility to make ourselves feel better. Instead of waiting to get our needs met, we focus on feeling better anyway. This different perspective makes our unmet needs not so crucial and frees up our relationship.

7   DRAMATIC-

Being Infatuated or Obsessed …

When we are infatuated or obsessed, we tend to have more drama by having frequent quarrels and misunderstandings. Each flare-up has the underlying aim of making our special person or ourselves feel guilty for doing something wrong.

This is usually caused by holding a lot of high expectations (#6) over our special person’s head or holding a lot of high expectations over our own head.

Having a Twin Flame…

When we have a twin flame, we quickly learn making someone feel bad about themselves or what they have done makes the relationship an absolutely horrible experience.

The Good Part

Whether we are infatuated or obsessed, or have a twin flame, the purpose of the relationship is the same—learn how to unconditionally love. The good part is if you are infatuated or obsessed and you learn to unconditionally love that special person, it becomes a worthwhile, amazing experience.

Are You Ready to Learn How to Unconditionally Love Your Twin Flame?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

Adapt a Jesus-Like Mindset if You are Unsure About Your Twin Flame

So many of us spend so much time being unsure. We get so worried about whether that special person we keep thinking about is our twin flame or not. Is it really that important to know if you have found the one? To help you get some clarity and perspective, try adapting a Jesus-like mindset.

Ask Yourself These Questions:

1   Would Jesus wonder if he was wasting time on the wrong person?

2   Would Jesus not ask God for guidance with this relationship?

3   Would Jesus get worried when something changes in the relationship?

4   Would Jesus let that special person hurt his feelings?

5   Would Jesus claim his doesn’t know how to listen to God’s voice, his inner guidance, or intuition?

6   Would Jesus focus on his own or that special person’s wrong doings, faults, or differences?

7   Would Jesus try to make that special person feel guilty for what they did or didn’t do?

8   Would Jesus lack the willingness to forgive both himself and that special person?

9   Would Jesus stop having faith if he couldn’t see evidence of the relationship?

10   Would Jesus not trust that God’s got a plan for this relationship that will benefit everyone?

11   Would Jesus question his worth or feel not good enough to do what God asks for this relationship?

Some of those questions you might answer with a YES because of your religious beliefs, but with the majority of those questions you would probably answer with a NO.

Would all our doubts and fear about that special person we keep thinking about fade away if we just followed Jesus’s example?

If you want a good book on how to adapt a Jesus-like mindset, A Course in Miracles was supposed to have been channeled from Jesus.

“If you want to be like me I will help you, knowing that we are alike. If you want to be different, I will wait until you change your mind.”

A Course in Miracles, Chapter 8, Section IV, Paragraph 6

Are You Ready to Have a Happy Outcome with that Special Person?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome, whether you have found your twin flame or not. For more Details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

Are Most Twin Flames More Introverted?

The more I talk to people questioning whether they have met their twin flame, the more I am finding a pattern. Most of them who have contacted me tend to be more introverted than extroverted.

Here’s Some Reasons Twin Flames Might Tend to Lean Towards Being More Introverted…

1   TOTAL COMMITMENT-

Those who lean towards being more extroverted usually enjoy a lot of different activities and have a wide range of friends. Therefore, it might be difficult to completely commit to one major relationship with the single goal of learning how to unconditionally love that person.

Those who lean towards being more introverted usually have no problem making one relationship with one gigantic goal their top priority. They tend to have very few loved ones, but they are deep  meaningful relationships.

2   TAKING ACTION-

Those who lean towards being more extroverted usually like moving into action and making things happen. That could make it hard to stop doing something long enough for God or a Higher Power to take the lead.

Those who lean towards being more introverted usually can stop trying to make it happen, and let the relationship unfold with God or a Higher Power’s guidance.

3   FOR VALIDATION-

Those who lean towards being more extroverted usually rely on the world around them or their twin flame for confirmation of their efforts. However, the twin flame journey is often about learning how to believe in something before seeing evidence of it, which can take a hefty mind shift for extroverts.

Those who lean towards being more introverted usually get their proof of relationships internally, by how they feel. This really helps during those times when their twin flame is not physically in contact with them.

4   MAKE CHANGES-

Those who lean towards being more extroverted usually make outer changes, by doing something that can be seen, heard, or touched. That, along with the fact that extroverts often jump into action before they think it over can cause them to push their twin flame further away.

Those who lean towards being more introverted usually make inner changes. It’s less about seeing evidence and more about feeling themselves change. That includes feeling more love, worthiness, forgiveness, and gratitude towards themselves and their twin flame.

5   SEEK COMPANIONSHIP-

Those who lean towards being more extroverted usually prefer physically being in someone’s presence. This makes it difficult not to move on and date others when experiencing a runner/chaser pattern with their twin flame.

Those who lean towards being more introverted are comfortable spending time alone and there is less of an urge to date others when their twin flame is not physically with them.

6   COMMUNICATION-

Those who lean towards being more extroverted usually like to communicate by doing something they can see, hear, or touch—preferably in person. Part of the twin flame journey is to learn a new way to communicate, operating from the 4th dimension mindset with thoughts, and feelings. That can be difficult for an extrovert to adapt to.

Those who lean towards being more introverted can easily communicate with others through their thoughts and feelings. This inclination allows them to experience telepathic thoughts and astral travel easily with their twin flame.

7   SIGNS FROM THE UNIVERSE-

Those who lean towards being more extroverted usually move at a quicker pace. They are used to doing lots of activities in a shorter timeframe—not spending much time observing. Therefore, there are probably hundreds of signs from the universe about their twin flame and their journey that extroverts have a hard time being aware of.

Those who lean towards being more introverted tend to take time to watch and examine behaviors and situations. This often helps them pick up on signs from the universe quickly, helping them great make sense of the twin flame journey.

Don’t Get Me Wrong!

This does not mean those who lean towards being more extroverted cannot have a twin flame! It means the more extroverted you are, the more difficult it may be to navigate the twin flame journey for a happy outcome.

Are You Ready to Have a Happy Outcome with Your Twin Flame?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

 

Does Everyone Have a Twin Flame?

The answer to that question can have two different answers depending on our definition of twin flame relationship.

ONE ANSWER

If we define  twin flame as a special relationship with one special person that will be so intense and magnifying that we will do anything, including giving up our ego (3rd dimension) for it, then the answer is NO. There are very few who want to lose their self-image to melt into the oneness (5th dimension) with another person.

If a person is an ISTP, ISTJ, ESTP, or ESTJ according to the Myers-Briggs Personality Test, probably the last thing they want in life is a deep, out-of-this-world relationship with anyone. According to Myers-Briggs, that’s approximately 30% of the population.

ANOTHER ANSWER

But if we ease up on the twin flame definition and consider it to be more of a relationship with another person that we are to learn how to unconditionally love and feel a connection with, the answer is YES.

In fact, we’re ALL here on earth to learn how to love ourselves, others, and everything else.

If you are unsure whether or not you have found your twin flame, try easing up on your twin flame definition. It would probably make it simpler for you to just go ahead and learn how to unconditionally love the person you keep thinking about. There are no real benefits in waiting to love anyone who comes into your life.

Are You Ready to Stop Waiting and Learn How to Love the Person You Keep Thinking About?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

 

The Main Obstacles in the Twin Flame Journey

Before we have the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible on a long-term basis, there are some obstacles we have to overcome.

The Main Obstacles in the Twin Flame Journey are that….

1   WE WILL WANT TO GET OUT OF IT-

No matter how much we pray, how hard we try, or what we do, we cannot quit. There might be a day or two when we think we have finally let our twin flame go, then something happens to bring our twin flame back into our minds.

2   WE WILL THINK IT’S WRONG TO BE THIS OBSESSED-

We may have had an all or nothing attitude before, but this relationship will take it to the extreme. Absolutely everything else that we care about will take a lower priority and even go off our radar. The challenge is that we and others will think it is wrong, but it’s not.

3   WE FIGHT OURSELVES-

We often have knockout battles between our mind and our heart. At times we are so sure we want nothing to do with our twin flame and then completely turn around the next moment and want to be with her/him so bad we can’t see straight.

4   WE WILL HAVE TO FORGET ABOUT HAVING A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP-

It’s very difficult to get our minds wrapped around the fact that there is no way that our twin flame relationship will even resemble being like everyone else’s.

5   WE WILL EXPERIENCE DREADFUL LOWS-

Because the twin flame relationship is about getting rid of the 3rd dimension (ego) in both individuals at the same time, the lows can get extreme. One minute we can be fine and the next minute we’ll be in the deepest, darkest place we have ever felt. The challenge is to learn how to diminish the intensity and frequency of the lows. By the way, these bouts can actually disappear if even one of the twin flames does their inner work on a consistent basis.

6   WE WILL HAVE TO BECOME SPIRITUAL-

There is no way of getting around it, we will become extremely spiritual. In order to fit in, many twin flames have denied, ignored, and even fought their spiritual side. Between all the paranormal events, signs from the universe, telepathy, visions, dreams, and psychic abilities, it will make our spiritual side unshakable. In fact, it becomes so unrelenting that all our pre-programed religious beliefs about what is right and what is wrong will become irrelevant.

7   WE WILL STRUGGLE WITH THE NEED FOR MORE QUIET TIME-

Our desire to be social and have casual conversations will fade and at times almost vanish.  We’ll become more interested in solitude, creativity, and spiritual undertakings.  The twin flame journey drives us inward.

8   WE WILL BATTLE TO KEEP THE IDEA OF FREE WILL-

Almost everybody defines free will as having freedom to make choices as separate individuals, without these choices being predestined by fate or divine will. But the more we get into the twin flame journey and become more spiritual, the more we question and want to redefine that definition. Why, the whole twin flame concept is based on believing wholeheartedly in a predestined fate.

9   WE WILL LET GO OF FRIENDS-

There will be a tendency to try to hang onto old friends. Because our focus centers around our twin flame, we have less and less in common with others who are not experiencing the same phenomenon. We might have a couple of friends left who support our roller coaster relationship and all of our changes, but no matter how hard they try they can’t quite understand our twin flame attraction.

10   WE WILL RESIST CHANGE-

In the end we will find ourselves doing things we never ever thought we would do. Because the magnetic pull to be with our twin flame is so strong, we’ll find ourselves doing anything and everything to get to get her/him in our arms. We’ll change jobs or move hundreds of miles just to be physically closer to our twin flame. We’ll try all types of spiritual practices just to feel a deeper connection. We’ll even change every belief that is standing in the way of having a happy outcome with our twin flame.

Overcoming these 10 obstacles will push us out of our comfort zones, stretch us beyond what we think is possible, turn our whole lives inside out, and most of all, prepare us for our twin flame union. 

Are You Ready to Overcome the Obstacles in Your Twin Flame Journey?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

 

Why Is the Attraction to Our Twin Flame So Intense?

What keeps us wanting to be with our twin flame so bad we can’t see straight? You probably guessed that the answer has something to do with love. But, it’s not quite what you think.

The attraction is caused by the intense need to learn how to unconditionally love our twin flame.

We have probably had several lifetimes with our twin flame, stuck in the 3rd dimension mindset (conditional love). The same relationship (with different bodies and different roles) keeps repeating, lifetime after lifetime, until we change our mindset and learn how to love without conditions.

Conditional Love

This is about trying to CONTROL LOVE. The 3rd dimension mindset thinks love is the ability to control ourselves and our twin flame’s behaviors with making promises, having expectations, compromising, making sacrifices, and most of all, using guilt. We really think we can keep our twin flame from running/chasing by using these five methods.

Unconditional Love

This is about believing love is a FEELING that reveals itself when it is extended to our twin flame. People with this mindset think love is the ability to control the love they feel with their own loving thoughts, being grateful, forgiving, and using their inner guidance or intuition.

Good News!

It’s not necessary for both twin flames to raise their mindset to the 4th dimension (unconditional love). Only one of the two needs to love unconditionally, because twin flames are ONE. They are not separate.

Are You Ready Get Rid of the 3rd Dimension Mindset?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

 

Twin Flame: Worried the Relationship is One-sided?

Are you afraid your intense feelings towards someone are one-sided (unrequited love) and they don’t feel the same way about you? Do you think you might be wasting time with love that is not openly returned or rewarded?

This is a common doubt, especially for those who feel the intense energy, but have not met her/him in person yet. Or for those who were lucky enough to get a quick glance of that special person but haven’t seen her/him since.

How Can Love Not be Returned or Rewarded?

The answer is simple. If we are in a 3rd dimension mindset, love is often not returned or rewarded.

About 3rd Dimension Love

The 3rd dimension’s idea of love is doing something to GET something from that special person in return, which is really conditional love. With this mindset, we sure don’t want to waste our time on someone who won’t love us back.

About 4th Dimension Love

The 4th dimension’s idea of love is GIVING loving thoughts to that special person not expecting anything in return, which is unconditional love. With this mindset, we feel the benefits right away. The love in the relationship will increase. The more unconditionally loving thoughts we give to that special person, the better we feel. As long as we have a wonderful relationship with that person, who cares if they are our twin flame or not?

We GET what we GIVE.

 

Are You Ready to Learn How to Unconditionally Love That Special Person?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

 

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