Vickie Champion

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About Twin Flame Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine Energy

There are a lot of different beliefs out there about twin flame relationships, with divine masculine and divine feminine energy being one of them. The key is to find those beliefs that resonate with you and will help you in your journey to union. Some beliefs can make you feel better and hopeful, while others can make you feel worse and discouraged. Only you will know the difference.

If you feel better when you believe in divine masculine and divine feminine energy, go with it! There is no need to read the rest of this blog. But, if you feel worse, confused, or have questions about the concept, read on.

The Big Disadvantage of Believing in Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine Energy…

Believing in divine masculine and divine feminine energy can easily keep us locked into the 3rd dimension mindset, thinking that there is a difference in the two individuals and that they operate separate from each other. The 3rd dimension enforces separation by establishing clear definitions of what masculine energy is and what feminine energy is, which can drive a wedge in believing in twin flame oneness. Here are some ways divine masculine and divine feminine can differ in this mindset.

1  The divine masculine energy is usually thought of as insensitive, relying on reason, logic, and analysis.  Whereas divine feminine energy is usually defined as emotional, sensitive, and quite intuitive.

2   Divine masculine energy is usually defined as the leader in the relationship, and expected to be action oriented. Divine feminine energy is usually the follower, passive, and supposed to be patient.

3   Divine masculine energy is usually defined as strong, and the protector of the two. Divine feminine is defined to be weaker, and more dependent.

4   Divine masculine energy is usually thought of as certain and confident.  Divine feminine is defined to be more confused and flexible.

The Problem

With the 3rd dimension mindset, there can be a tendency to let the differences set limits on yourself, your twin flame, and on the relationship itself. It’s easy to make excuses and start blaming one or both of you for the separation.

Are You Ready to Feel Unlimited on Your Twin Flame Journey?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

 

 

Why INFP Personality Types Can Doubt the Twin Flame Concept

This blog wasn’t written to try to get INFP personality types (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) to buy into the idea of twin flames. It was written mostly for all of you who have INFP twin flames, who need to understand where they might be coming from.

Why INFPs Can Have a Hard Time Believing in the Idea of Twin Flames…

INFPs are usually…

1   NONCONFORMERS-

They often fight putting anything into a category and labeling it, including labeling themselves as INFPs.  Therefore, it is highly unlikely they would want to throw their extraordinary, out-of-this-world relationship into a category with others.

2   TAKE TIME TO EXAMINE-

When INFPs are faced with a new concept that they have no previous experience with, like twin flames, they will need a lot of time (sometimes years) to evaluate their belief in it. INFPs need to explore all the different twin flame definitions out there, which makes it extremely difficult for them to draw any conclusions.

3   DOUBT THEMSELVES-

Even if they do get close to believing in the twin flame concept, they will often second-guess themselves until any certainty fades away. Their self-doubt makes them slow to endorse something as the absolute truth.

Get This Straight!

It’s not important for your INFP twin flame to believe in the concept to be in a twin flame relationship! Nor will it impact your outcome in any way.

The twin flame concept is just something some personality types need to understand about this extremely rare relationship. INFPs are not one of them.

 Are You Ready for an Amazing Mind-blowing Twin Flame Journey?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

13 Signs You’re in a False Twin Flame or Karmic Relationship

When we first meet someone who whips us off our feet and we have out-of-this world chemistry, it’s easy to believe we have finally found our twin flame. But often we are obsessed with a false twin flame or someone who we are in a karmic relationship with. It can be very difficult to tell the true twin flame apart from a false or karmic relationship, especially in the beginning of the relationship.

Here’s 13 Signs You Probably Have a False Twin Flame or Karmic Relationship…

When…

1   We notice that within a short time (days, weeks, or months) the strong interest in our special person begins to gradually decrease. Over time we almost always will feel less passion and less connected.

2   The conversations with our special person are short, limited, or stay on the surface. There are few discussions, if any, that are lengthy, cover practically every subject possible, and dive deep—sharing experiences and feelings freely.

3   We catch ourselves defending—justifying, explaining, or making excuses for—our relationship. That’s when we try to convince others, or more importantly, ourselves, that we are NOT in a false twin flame or karmic relationship. It’s like we are ashamed or feel it’s wrong not to find our true love yet. It’s NOT! Probably, all of our heart-felt relationships are karmic (having at least one lifetime with that person not ending with unconditional love), including a true twin flame relationship.

4   We feel uncomfortable in our special person’s presence. Being around them might make us feel tense, frustrated, or unworthy in some way.

5   Things feel off. Maybe we notice a lot of red flags.

6   We find ourselves not willing to be fully honest with our special person. For some reason we feel guarded and hesitant to reveal our true selves.

7    There is difficulty in communicating and lots of misunderstandings between us and our special person. No matter how much we try to make things right, it always seems to come short.

8   We aren’t watching ourselves grow and change. Instead, the relationship often feels stuck in a dysfunctional cycle and brings out the worst in us. We can easily become someone we don’t recognize or even like, let alone admire.

9   We recognize unhealthy and hurtful patterns, such as badmouthing and naming calling, or as toxic as physical violence or mental belittling. Anytime we have a hurtful pattern to make ourself or our special person feel guilty and be punished for some recurring behavior, there’s a good chance we’re in a false twin flame or karmic relationship.

10   There is a lot of drama, full of intensity and arguments. We notice there are more unpleasant days then pleasant days in the relationship.

11   We haven’t experienced feel good and inviting intuitive insights associated with our special person, such as paranormal events like undeniable signs from the universe, telepathy, visions, lucid dreams, and astral projections. We can get those with false twin flames and karmic relationship too, but they are not feel good and inviting. They come in the form of warning signs.

12   We have tried to convince them why they should love us or, at least stay with us.

13   There are lots of past hurts we don’t want to let go of, whether we, our special person, or both caused them. Rather than forgiving and overcoming past hurts, our focus is turned towards getting justice. We want the guilty party(s) to feel bad and be punished in some way.

Important to Know!

There is a very fine line between a true twin flame and false twin flame or a karmic relationship. In fact, a true twin relationship is probably a combination of a soulmate and a karmic relationship. True twin flames tend to have had several lifetimes together, during which they just couldn’t get it together and unconditionally love themselves and each other.

Both kinds of relationships are beneficial and instrumental in learning how to unconditionally love—and both kinds are extremely hard to end or get rid of unless this is learned.

Are You Ready to Learn How to Unconditionally Love Your Twin Flame?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

9 Signs You Are NOT in a Twin Flame Relationship

It is extremely hard, especially at first, to know for sure if we have found our twin flame or not. Both the twin flame and the karmic (false twin flame) relationship can begin with the same intensity and attraction, but with time the difference becomes clearer.

Here’s Some Signs We Are NOT in a Twin Flame Relationship…

When We…

1   GRADUALLY LOSE INTEREST IN OUR SPECIAL PERSON-

The “I want to be with you soooo much” attraction may only last a few weeks or months before you begin to noticing that it is starting to dwindle.

2   NOTICE SIGNS FROM THE UNIVERSE-

If we are in a twin flame relationship, we are usually bombarded with all sorts of positive signs from the universe and synchronicities that are encouraging us along the journey. If we are in karmic relationships, we usually experience signs from the universe in the form of red flags.

3   ARE NOT THAT INTRIGUED-

In a karmic relationship, we progressively lose our interest in really knowing our special person—physically, mentally, and spiritually. We can often notice the relationship hovering around one thing, such as sex, with very little fascination on any other aspects.

In a twin flame relationship, we are curious to know our special person deeply from every angle and want to learn to unconditional love every part of them.

4   ARE DEFENSIVE-

Being defensive is when we justify, explain, or make excuses trying really hard to convince someone or, more importantly, to convince ourselves we are in a twin flame relationship.

5   LET OUR SPECIAL PERSON HARM US-

Physical violence or mental belittling can be associated with some karmic relationships, but hardly ever with twin flame relationships. We probably wouldn’t be able to even attract our “true love” if we had an unconscious desire to use the relationship to punish ourselves or hurt our special person.

6   HAVE RESORTED TO LASHING OUT-

Another thing that can be associated with some karmic relationships is badmouthing and name calling, such as calling them a narcissist. By the time we verbalize our negative thoughts, we have already judged, tried, and convicted our special person.

7   ARE UNABLE TO BE HONEST WITH OUR SPECIAL PERSON-

One of the key elements of being in a twin flame relationship is feeling so comfortable and safe that we want to be sincere. Karmic relationships can often make us guarded and hesitant to reveal the truth.

8   ARE RELUCTANT TO FORGIVE-

If we are in a karmic relationship, there is a strong tendency to hold onto past hurts whether we, our special person, or both initiated them. Rather than forgiving, the focus is turned towards someone being guilty and punished for it.  If we are in a twin flame relationship, there is greater pull to forgive and overcome past hurts.

9   RESIST LEARNING HOW TO UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE-

Not willing to go the extra mile is common with karmic relationships. We think if we can just fix the problem, we won’t need to unconditionally love ourselves or our special person.

When we are in a twin flame relationship, we are a lot less reluctant to go that extra mile.

What Now!

If you have all or most of these signs, you are probably in a karmic relationship. But, that’s NOT a BAD thing! Even in a karmic relationship, there is a lot of love underneath the hurt and pain, but that doesn’t mean you will physically be together for eternity, or even talk to each other again.

There are two main ways to have peace and a happy outcome with your karmic relationship. One is to be willing to unconditionally love yourself and your special person, no matter what was said or not said, or done or not done. The other is listening and following your intuition or inner guide.

Are you Ready to Increase Your Ability to be Aware of Your Intuition?

Check out the  How to Feel Worthy self-study course. It can help you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you, which allows your intuition to surface. For more details.

I have also just added intuition eBooks for three of the Myers-Briggs personality types.   

Or there are several blogs in the Intuition section on my website that could help.

How Twin Flame & False Twin Flame Relationships are Similar

Many of us, at some point, find ourselves in a relationship that turns us upside down. When the attraction is so extreme, we want to be with the person every minute of the day and can’t keep our hands off them.

Most of the time it is very difficult to distinguish whether we are in the midst of a false twin flame (karmic) relationship or we have attracted the highest kind of relationship humanly possible, a twin flame.

Here’s What’s Similar in Both Kinds of Relationships…

1   INTENSE MAGNETIC FEELINGS-

This is the similarity that makes most of us swear up and down we have found our twin flame, at least for awhile. With false twin flames, the “Oh my God” feelings and strong pull begin to gradually die down over time.

2   IS REALLY CHALLENGING-

With both types there are higher than usual highs and lower than usual lows. It makes us feel like we are on a roller coaster. Some, not all, false twin flame relationships can get quite dramatic and explosive, like one party or both are pouring gasoline on the flame.

3   HAVE PAST LIFETIMES TOGETHER-

What causes such an intense feeling and magnetic pull is really unresolved issues. We have had at least one lifetime, if not several, together without completing our mission. With false twin flames (karmic) relationships, the mission is to break an unloving pattern between the two of you. With twin flame relationships, the mission is to entirely let go of the 3rd dimension mindset (ego).

4   THE PURPOSE IS THE SAME-

Whether we are in a twin flame or a false twin flame relationship, the purpose is identical—to learn how to unconditionally love ourselves and our special person. If we decline, there is always our next lifetime.

Are You Ready to Do Your Twin Flame Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

 

What Makes Twin Flames Feel Like They are Crazy?

In the twin flame relationship, probably everyone has experienced the feeling like they are crazy. In fact, if they haven’t, it’s highly unlikely that they have found their twin flame yet.

The twin flame relationship turns us upside down, bombarding us with soooo much self-doubt that we think we need to be locked up in a looney bin.

Reasons Why Twin Flames Can Feel Like They are Crazy…

1   No matter what we do, we cannot get our twin flame out of our minds (day after day, month after month, year after year).

2   It becomes an obsession, making everything thing else in our lives (other relationships, careers, hobbies, finances, and health) a lower priority, with some relationships or things falling off our radar completely.

3   Lots of our time is spent without proof or physical evidence that our twin flame feels the same as we do.

4   The relationship is an emotional roller coaster, letting us experience the highest of highs and the lowest of lows, sometimes within a few minutes.

5   The whole experience is not logical, and definitely not normal.

6   It forces us out of our comfort zone. What used to work in our lives and in our relationships, doesn’t work any longer.

7   The relationship brings up the worst in us. What we thought we had gotten control over and were keeping at bay surfaces, especially our feelings of unworthiness.

8   We probably won’t have much outside help in gaining our sanity. Other than the Internet and the very few twin flamers who are actually in twin flame relationships, there probably won’t be anyone else that can truly understand what we are going through. Nor can anyone else wave a magic wand to turn us right side up and release us from the loony bin.

This factor alone forces us to become more and more spiritual, relying on our own inner guidance (God, Divine, Higher Power, Guides, Spirit, Source, Universe, or any other term you want to call it).

Are You Ready to Start Your Twin Flame Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to gain your sanity, shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

 

8 Possible Reasons INFJ Personality Types Doubt Themselves

Do you identify as an INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type? Do you seem to have a problem with being uncertain or doubting yourself? Maybe you are afraid of making mistakes?

Here’s 8 Possible Reasons INFJ Personality Types Doubt Themselves…

INFJs…

1   ARE THE RAREST PERSONALITY TYPE-

Of the 16 personality types, INFJs are the rarest, so it might be easy to fall into doubting themselves. They operate differently than 98% of the population.

2   CAN FORECAST THE FUTURE-

INFJs usually have the uncanny ability to predict future events—and sometimes months or years before they actually occur. In fact, many INFJs can feel the energy of their twin flame way before knowing who they are. No wonder they question themselves.

3   ARE TELEPATHIC-

INFJs tend to pick up others’ unexpressed thoughts and feelings. That means they can often detect even the slightest dishonesty hidden under niceness or if something about someone doesn’t feel right. Until INFJs see actual evidence of it, they might doubt themselves.

4   WANT TO KEEP THE PEACE-

INFJs usually hate conflict. They will do practically anything to keep the peace, even throw themselves under the bus and give others the benefit of the doubt.

5   ARE HARD ON THEMSELVES-

INFJs tend to strive to be perfect, always looking for things they have done wrong or that need improving. Nothing is ever quite good enough. That can cause anyone to doubt themselves.

Then if an INFJ hasn’t forgiven themselves for their imperfections, the doubting increases. This in turn causes them to feel undeserving or unworthy.

6   NATURALLY ANALYZE EVERYTHING-

INFJs tend to reflect and look at things from all angles before they act. Nothing wrong with that! Doubting themselves appears when they get afraid of making a mistake or not being perfect.

7   EXPRESS THEIR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS-

INFJs usually need to share their thoughts and feelings, most often with a close friend or by writing. If the INFJ holds in those thoughts and feelings, they can easily spiral down into not only doubting themselves but to the point where they are in a deep depression.

8   ARE EXTREMELY INTUITIVE-

If an INFJ tries to be normal and dumbs down their intuitive ability, they are attempting to cut off their main life’s purpose. As with anyone, there is a tremendous amount of doubt in trying to be someone you are not meant to be.

Are You an INFJ Who is Ready to Hone Your Intuitive Ability?

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this simple eBook can help you use your intuition or inner guidance more often—without having to change who you are. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

4 Reasons Why Most Are NOT Aware of Their Intuition

1   THE DEFINITION OF INTUITION-

How we define intuition can make a big difference in whether we are aware of it. Analytical people might call intuition gut instincts, a knowing, an insight, or a hunch. Religious people might call it God’s guidance, God’s voice, or Holy Spirit. Spiritual people might call it Universe, Spirit, Guides, Divine, or inner guidance.

Intuition is the generic term that encompasses all of those and any other term we want to call it—and that knows how to guide us out of any jam, or solve any problem so that everyone wins in the long run.

2   WE HAVE ADDICTIONS AND HABITS-

Before you pass this reason by, thinking it doesn’t apply to you, read on. Almost every one of us does or has done this to some extent!

Addictions and even just ordinary habits are often used to numb or cut ourselves off from feeling, which is a main way intuition comes to us. When we use something to numb our bad or good feelings, it numbs everything, including our awareness of our intuition.

It could be food, pills, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, caffeine, impulse buying, keeping crazy busy, socializing, binge watching, overworking, texting, or any of the hundreds of other things we use to diminish our ability to feel and be aware of our intuition. For instance, we often overeat and drink to an excess to celebrate something good.

3   WE WOULD RATHER FIGURE IT OUT OURSELVES-

This is when we think we know the answer and are not willing to accept anything else. This often occurs when we are trying to prove our worth or are trying to build our self-esteem by being right. For instance, being concerned with our reputation can easily camouflage our intuition from us.

4   WE DON’T WANT THE ANSWER-

This is a big one! There are times we flat out don’t want to be aware of our intuition. For instance, if the answer isn’t what WE want or when WE want it. Or when we want to keep blaming, criticizing, and punishing ourselves or others for their mistakes. Lack of money, poor health, difficult relationships, and having a dead-end career are often caused by not wanting the answer.

WRAP UP

Whether you can identify with one of these reasons or all four, life can be so much easier, more enjoyable, and downright amazing when you are tapped into your intuition and follow it.

Are you Ready to Increase Your Ability to be Aware of Your Intuition?

Check out the  How to Feel Worthy self-study course. It can help you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you, which allows your intuition to surface. For more details.

I have also just added intuition eBooks for three of the Myers-Briggs personality types.   

Or there are several blogs in the Intuition section on my website that could help.

Why Do INFJs Chase or Run From Their Twin Flame?

INFJs are connectivity seekers and are one of the few Myers-Briggs personality types who search and actually find their twin flames. Like so many twin flame relationships, INFJs often experience the runner/chaser pattern. Let’s take a look at some possible reasons INFJs would chase or run in their twin flame journey.

Why INFJs Would CHASE Their Twin Flame…

INFJs Tend to…

1   HAVE AN “ALL OR NOTHING ATTITUDE”-

INFJs usually get laser focused and driven towards what they are passionate about, which might cause them to pursue their twin flame.

2   PLAN AHEAD-

INFJs are usually future focused and strive to have structure and order with just about everything, including their relationships.

3   BE STUBBORN-

INFJs can often forecast the future, which might cause them to be determined, relentless, and often controlling. If their doubt of being wrong is strong, there is a tendency to want to take control of the whole process to make sure it happens, which brings on the need to chase.

Why INFJs Would RUN from Their Twin Flame…

INFJs Tend to…

1   DOUBT THEMSELVES-

Because INFJs are only 2% of the population, there might be a tendency to doubt themselves, as 98% of the population probably doesn’t understand their twin flame obsession. They could run while they get clarity.

2   BE CONVENTIONAL-

INFJs usually try to maintain social norms in order to create harmony. That means they might be tempted to put their own desires aside to appease their friends and loved ones, and run.

3   FEEL UNWORTHY OR NOT PERFECT ENOUGH-

INFJs can be perfectionists and are always working on improving themselves. Until they are perfect enough, they may feel undeserving of such an amazing relationship. To continue making themselves good enough, they may think they need to be alone.

Summing it Up

Of course, whether INFJs chase or run, it doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things. One is not better than the other. What really matters is to understand that there is a reason for everything, even in the runner/chaser pattern.

If you identify as an INFJ, take full advantage of the time apart from your twin flame! Really get into your inner work and learn how to optimize your intuition or inner guidance to the maximum. It will make the runner/chaser pattern bearable and shorten the timeline.

I have two products that help INFJs shorten their timeline:

How INFJs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you fine-tune your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome, even if you are in the runner/chaser pattern. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, you can benefit from this course no matter what part of the journey you are in. For more details.

Or if you need one-on-one help, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

14 Advantages of Being Yourself

Almost everyone, to some degree, has been afraid of being quirky and wide open. Those of us brave enough to dare this journey of being ourselves and authentic, have experienced the benefits.

We…

  • Start believing we are “good enough.”
  • Stop pretending to be something we are not.
  • Become a person we admire.
  • Are free from worry about what everyone else thinks.
  • Are open to forgiving ourselves and others.
  • Release loads of tension.
  • Understand the word “self-acceptance.”
  • Have deep, meaningful conversations with anyone.
  • Attract people who really “get us.”
  • Get internal validation.
  • Gain insights we wouldn’t have understood before.
  • Help others have the courage to be themselves too.
  • Finally feel worthy and deserving.
  • Live an amazing life.

As you can see, allowing yourself to be real and wide open is a gift you give yourself.

Did you know part of being yourself is feeling worthy and deserving?

Are You Ready to Be Yourself?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself. For more details.

Also, check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help feeling worthy, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

 

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