Vickie Champion

"I inspire and strengthen lives one thought at a time."

Do Twin Flames Have Children Together?

The answer to whether twin flames have children together lies in your definition of a twin flame relationship. One definition is “mostly normal” with a strong attraction for each other. The other definition is “not normal” with an intense, all-consuming attraction that never ends.

“Mostly Normal” Definition of a Twin Flame Relationship

With this version, you can have a strong attraction for each other, like you were meant to be together in this lifetime. You might even have a lot of the twin flame signs, such as experiencing that deep love everyone talks about, recalling past lives together, and becoming aware that you are telepathically connected. But as the months or years pass, that strong attraction you once had starts to diminish and may even fade away.

There is also a tendency to want to set up house, marry, and have children, just like any other “normal” relationship. With this definition, the answer is YES, you are likely to have children together—mainly because that’s what you desire.

“Not Normal” Definition of a Twin Flame Relationship

The “not normal” definition of a twin flame relationship is an extremely intense attraction that is ongoing, whether you are physically with them or not. That person is on your mind day in day out, accompanied with a drive to grow closer and closer until you are eternally “one.”

The relationship is far from  “normal” with all the ups, downs, twists, and turns involved in releasing the ego or 3rd dimension mindset. It takes a lot of inner work!

With this type of relationship, it seems that children (especially under 12) would get the raw end of the deal having parents preoccupied with each other. So, the answer is NO, you are not likely to have children together. The twin flame journey is hard enough without feeling guilty for not paying attention to your children.

Are You Ready to Start Your Twin Flame Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

 

INFJ Intuition QUIZ

Announcing a New Test for INFJ Personality Types

The Connectivity Seeker

We are in a time when maximizing the use of our intuition or inner guidance, would be very beneficial. If you identify as an INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type, you probably utilize your intuition often, but do you take full advantage of it? Are you trusting and following it no matter how unreasonable and absurd it seems?

Even though INFJs are more inclined to use their intuitive skills than any of the other Myers-Briggs personality types, there is almost always room to trust and follow it even more often.

Take this INFJ Intuition QUIZ to find out if you are taking full advantage of your intuition or inner guidance.

Also check out the INFJ blogs on my website and the INFJ Intuition eBook.

If you need help with learning to know for sure if it’s your intuition, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

 

INFP Intuition QUIZ

Announcing a New Test for INFP Personality Types

The Nonconforming Dreamer

We are in a time when maximizing the use of our intuition or inner guidance, would be very beneficial. If you identify as an INFP Myers-Briggs personality type, you probably utilize your intuition often, but do you take full advantage of it?

Even though INFPs are on a spiritual quest and more inclined to use their intuitive skills than most Myers-Briggs personality types, there is almost always room to use it even more often. Many times, INFPs pick up intuitive insights, but let their self-criticism convince them to not follow through on them.

Take this INFP Intuition QUIZ to find out if you are taking full advantage of your intuition or inner guidance.

Also check out the INFP blogs on my website and the INFP Intuition eBook.

If you need help with learning to know for sure if it’s your intuition, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

ISFJ Intuition QUIZ

Announcing a New Test for ISFJ Personality Types

The Reliable Caretaker

We are in a time when it would be very beneficial to maximize the use of our intuition or inner guidance. It definitely stops a lot of worrying. If you identify as an ISFJ Myers-Briggs personality type, you probably don’t use your intuition very often at all or maybe you are not clear how to recognize intuitive insights.

Take this ISFJ Intuition QUIZ to find out if you are taking full advantage of your intuition or inner guidance.

Also check out the ISFJ blogs on my website and the ISFJ Intuition eBook.

If you need help with learning to know for sure if it’s your intuition, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

 

27 Signs You Might Have an INFJ Personality Type

If you take the time to figure out which of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types you lean towards the most, it will give you clues to unlocking who you are and your preferences. It’s like having a basic compass that provides you a direction, leaving out each individual’s variations.

Of course, taking the actual MBTI is the best way to find out for sure what type you lean towards. But if you want to try to find out on your own, this might help you.

I divided this list into two separate parts, the main signs and the not-so-obvious signs. If you don’t identify with the main ones, you probably lean towards another personality type.

7 Main Signs That You Might Have an INFJ Personality Type…

INFJs tend to…

1   Believe everything is connected and are almost always looking to see how the pieces join together.

2   Naturally operate from intuition or inner guidance. When they try to disconnect from it, their whole lives go haywire.

3   Be deep thinkers and thrive on understanding complex ideas.

4   Desire emotional intimacy. They want to develop deep, authentic, one-on-one relationships.

5   Have an eerie ability to forecast the future—being able to foresee social trends or disasters before they happen.

6   Be wired with an “all or nothing” attitude. They are usually obsessed with things or they want nothing to do with them.

7   Function noticeably better when they have a cause, purpose, or point of focus.

 

20 Not-so-Obvious Signs You Might Have an INFJ Personality Type…

INFJs tend to…

1   Need plenty of alone time to reflect and recharge.

2   Have a built-in curiosity and seem to be always asking why.

3   Have a hard time enjoying the moment. They are mostly future oriented.

4   Be concerned with the “BIG picture,” trying to connect the dots.

4   Spend lots of time on reflection before they act.

5   Look and find their twin flame. 

6   Have the power to motivate others, being the most persuasive of all the personality types.

7   Need order and structure with things in their external world. That means they plan and organize a lot.

8   Dislike small talk, but thoroughly enjoy having deep conversations with others.

9   Have a strong desire to progress, grow, and improve themselves.

10   Reflect on the past only to put the pieces together in hindsight and to get clues about what will happen in the future.

11   Hate conflict.

12   Be more attracted to the mental and spiritual than the material and concrete.

14   Have excellent listening skills.

15   Place a high value on honesty and telling the truth.

16   Have an intense laser-like focus with things they are passionate about.

17   Be perfectionists, causing them to not give themselves enough credit.

18   Doubt themselves.

19   Be great at sharing their insights by teaching, advising, counseling, or through their writing.

20   Be highly sensitive to other’s moods, emotions, and even their thoughts.

If you identify with all of the main signs and most of the not-so-obvious signs, you are probably an INFJ personality type. It’s estimated that less than 2% of the population are INFJs. No wonder so many feel that no one understands them.

Are You an INFJ Who is Ready to Optimize Your Intuition?

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this self-study eBook can help you hone your already natural intuition or inner guidance. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help fine-tuning your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

Are You an INFP Looking for Your Twin Flame?

Are you on a quest to find the ultimate match, your twin flame? Have you had relationships where you thought you found your true love and then the flame fizzled out? Maybe you feel your twin flame’s energy, but haven’t physically met them yet?

If you identify with the INFP Myers-Briggs personality type, seeking and finding your twin flame happens often.

Here’s Signs You Are Looking for Your Twin Flame…

When you…

  • Can’t settle for a “normal” relationship for long. Out of all the personality types, INFPs are the most
  • Dream about emotional intimacy with “the one.” More than anything, INFPs tend to want a deep, authentic, amazing, mind-blowing relationship.
  • Want to experience the 5th dimension intimacy or the feeling of “being one” with your true love.
  • Are willing to do any inner work that is required to attract and keep your twin flame. INFPs tend to be on a constant adventure of self-discovery and personal growth.
  • Judge yourself for wanting a relationship that is so rare and the highest connection humanly possible.
  • Quickly avoid people who want to keep secrets and not tell the truth. INFPs tend to want honesty and authenticity—something that is required with a twin flame relationship.
  • Don’t want a lot of friends that could possibly pull you away and distract you from looking for your twin flame.
  • Enjoy the process of looking for a needle in a haystack. INFPs tend to love exploring, especially for their twin flame—constantly looking for clues and signs from the universe that connect the dots.
  • Seem to be intuitive, even when you try to dumb it down or shut it off. INFPs are extremely spiritual and naturally tend to use their intuition or inner guidance.

Are You an INFP Who is Ready to Optimize Your Intuition to Find Your Twin Flame?

If you identify with the INFP personality type, this eBook can help you hone your intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Or check out the INFP Personality Type section on my website or take the INFP Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help fine-tuning your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

When is it Time to Stop Chasing Your Twin Flame?

Most twin flame relationships have experienced the runner/chaser pattern to some extent. Some chasers try to reach out to their twin flame two or three times a day, or at the least, on a steady basis. Then there are some who hardly ever try to contact their twin flame.

There is nothing wrong with the runner/chaser pattern! For many twin flame couples, it is part of the process to learn how to unconditionally love each other. But there comes a time when the pattern becomes a habit and is not as beneficial in bringing about the twin flame union. Let’s take a look at when it could be time to put an end to the pattern.

It’s Time to Stop Chasing Your Twin Flame…

When you…

1   Are first and foremost, trying to prove to yourself and to others that you have found your twin flame. In other words, you are primarily focused on being RIGHT. You know what this means, don’t you? You were probably obsessed with someone who you thought would fill your needs, so you started chasing them.

2   Become aware that using 3rd dimension forms of reaching out (what you can see, hear, and touch) isn’t working very well. That’s how most people in normal relationships try to communicate, whether it’s visual, verbal, written, or being in physical proximity.

3   Are so tired of the predictable pattern that you start casting blame on your twin flame or yourself for the separation.

4   Feel like you are begging or feel worse about yourself when you pursue your twin flame. That could easily compound the feeling that you are unworthy of what you want.

5   Can feel that your twin flame is scared to death of you or the intense connection. Continuing the chase can easily increase their fear, which actually strengthens the runner/chaser pattern.

6   Realize that you can’t screw up the union. If you are supposed to have a relationship physically together that is lasting, then it will happen. If you are not, it won’t. Your chasing will not affect the outcome.

7   Ignore trying to utilize your intuitive skills to the maximum. For anything to become a habit, you have to put intuitive insights aside in order to stay in your chasing comfort zone.

Summing it Up

The runner/chaser pattern is meant to get you alone so you will be motivated to do the inner work needed for a lasting happy outcome, not to ingrain a painful pattern.

Are You Ready to Do Your Twin Flame Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

or

To read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

 

How 2020 (and Possibly 2021) is Like the Movie Groundhog Day

I loved the 1993 movie Groundhog Day and have probably watched it over a dozen times. Not only does the movie make me feel good, but it has a very spiritual plot that can apply to almost everyone, whether they believe in a higher source or not. The movie implies “there are no accidents” and somehow absolutely everything that happens in life is orchestrated with a greater purpose.

Here’s How 2020 (and Possibly 2021) is Like the Movie Groundhog Day…

1   TRAPPED-

In the movie, the main character, Phil Connors, is reliving the same day over and over as if he was stuck in time until he learns how to unconditionally love.

In 2020, it seems like our lives have not only been turned upside down but stuck in a never ending cycle—that goes on day after day, week after week, month after month. The happy ending will probably only occur when we learn how to unconditionally love everyone and everything. That means loving ourselves, especially others, and everything else we could imagine.

2   DOUBT-

At first, Phil Connors doubts himself and thinks he might be crazy, going to the doctor for a checkup and to a therapist.

In 2020 (and possibly into 2021), lots of us are struggling to stay sane watching all the external drama unfold, which causes us to start doubting everything. We also reach out for help to try to make sense of what’s happening, especially to the latest news, the experts, and of course, the government.

3   FIGHTS BACK-

Getting angry about his situation, Phil lashes out by criticizing and being downright cruel to others. Thinking the clock might be to blame, he finally throws it across the room, breaking it. But as he finds out the next day, his rage had no effects. The clock was in perfect condition and the alarm rang the next morning as usual.

In 2020, almost all of us have been swept up for a time and downright furious at someone or something—and this may continue into 2021. There has got to be someone, some group, or something to blame for this endless horrible experience. We lash out in any way we can. Sometimes it’s by social media, giving money to our cause, or simply by badmouthing others. We soon find out our lashing out and anger only increase others’ anger and lashing out. Therefore, it has no lasting effects in changing this bloody battlefield.

4   DESTRUCTIVE-

Phil even takes it to the extreme. He wants this day to end so bad he resorts to stealing a truck, kidnapping the groundhog, and running the truck off of a cliff. But again, it has no lasting effect.

In 2020-2021, we may resort to destructive behaviors, such as trying all sorts of ways to gain at someone else’s expense. We could also turn those destructive behaviors inward, to numb or hurt ourselves, like beginning or continuing bad habits or addictions—anything just to stop this ongoing nightmare.

5   TURNING POINT-

Phil keeps trying to push and rush a romance with Rita, hoping to get some relief by forcing her into a relationship. Finally, Rita slaps him and declares, “You will never love anyone but yourself.” Phil replies, “That’s not true. I don’t even like myself.” With that one statement, a lightbulb turns on in Phil. He was really honest with himself, and the movie takes a turn from then on.

We often think as soon as things calm down and return to “normal,” it will give us the relief we so desperately want. Yet, until we include learning to love ourselves and get to the point we feel like we deserve something better, we cannot fully experience it.

6   FOCUS-

With Phil’s realization and new outlook on his predicament, he begins by learning to focus—not in a controlling, self-centered, and wanting something in return way. He starts by simply trying to throw cards into a hat, by training his mind and concentrating on it.

If nothing else, in 2020-2021 we are learning how to train our minds away from the external drama that we can’t hardly ever control, to something we can control, how we want to feel. We are learning the power of our thoughts like Phil did.

7   ACTS OF KINDNESS-

Phil then gives love to others with small acts of kindness, like caring for a homeless guy and surprisingly, providing coffee to his co-workers. The more he genuinely cares for others, the better he feels about himself. Phil’s courage and ability to care continue to build as he catches a boy falling from a tree and saves a man from choking.

The more we genuinely care for others and unconditionally love them no matter what they think, say, or how they behave—the better we feel about ourselves and the easier the future will get.

8   BEING INSPIRED-

Phil evolves into letting go of the “mediocre” and instead, having a deep desire to be inspired and excited about what he does. This is shown by him taking up ice sculpting and playing the piano with feeling.

For most of us in 2020-2021, the “mediocre” is becoming less tolerable, especially with our work. There were hundreds of thousands of us stuck in a rut and doing work that was not that satisfying. Something had to push us out of our comfort zones and give us the courage to look for something better.

9   COMING TOGETHER-

By taking time to become a person Phil could actually admire and love, he attracted others who admired and loved him too. Everyone at the dance thought highly of Phil and voiced their appreciation of him.

Now is the time to stop playing small and have the courage to become someone we would admire. We have let other things in our lives become the priority, such as money, status, and being right. But when it comes down to it, our ability to unconditionally love is the highest priority there is.

10   THE ENDING-

Phil wakes up with Rita in his arms, pinches her to see if it is real, and says, “Something is different. Anything different is good. But this could be real good.”

Finally, getting a new way of living is going to be wonderful, but it could get real good—beyond what we can possibly imagine!

Are You Ready to Unconditionally Love Yourself?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset that you have about yourself and the world around you. You will finally feel you deserve your new life on a steady basis. For more details.

Check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

 

Why INFPs Have a Hard Time with Romantic Relationships

Are you an INFP Myers-Briggs personality type who is having a difficult time with romantic relationships?  Do your relationships fall short after a few years, or even after a few months? Have you found it difficult for your partners to be honest with you? Maybe the relationship has become ho-hum and stuck in everyday routines? That’s a common occurrence for INFPs.

Why are Romantic Relationships so Hard for INFPs?

INFPs….

1   SET THE BAR EXTREMELY HIGH-

INFPs are usually on the hunt for “the one.” INFPs are one of the personality types who seek and often find their twin flame. They crave the deepest connection they can have with one person at all levels—physical, mental, and especially spiritual.

That narrows the field. Most people want a “normal” romantic relationship, not something that is miraculous and awe-inspiring for eternity.

2   ARE DREAMERS-  

INFPs tend to spend a lot of their time thinking about what they want in a relationship. If they are dreaming in the 3rd dimension (what they can see, hear, touch, taste, and smell) then it is extremely hard for anyone to live up to their expectations and behave like the INFP wants them to.

But, once the INFP learns the only way to be content is to dream at a higher level in the 4th dimension (related to our thoughts and feelings). By dreaming about freedom, flexibility, happiness, respect, kindness, honesty, appreciation, or any positive feelings, then relationships substantially improve.

3   ARE HIGHLY INTUITIVE–

INFPs are wired to function from their intuition or inner guidance. When they stray away from that by judging themselves, people pleasing, or by having painful patterns, it makes it hard on their relationships.

4   ARE ALWAYS ON A QUEST-

INFPs tend to be on a never-ending spiritual and personal growth quest. If their partner doesn’t have that same desire, it can put a strain on having a deep connection with them.

5   WILL AVOID CONFLICT-

INFPs tend to do everything and anything to avoid relationship conflict, even caving in. Avoiding can alleviate the current relationship conflict, but requires them to go against their intuition or inner guidance, which causes enormous inner conflict for an INFP.  In the long run, it doesn’t make the relationship easier.

6   JUDGE THEMSELVES-

INFPs tend to not judge their partner, but they usually judge themselves terribly. Maybe it’s because they are trying so hard to be perfect. When they fail to live up to their expectations, INFPs have a tendency to punish themselves or even lash out, trying to sabotage the relationship.

Summing it Up

These 6 reasons why INFPs have a hard time with romantic relationships, usually involves them not using their intuition or inner guidance to its fullest capacity.

Are You an INFP who is Ready to Hone Your Intuition or Inner Guidance?

If you identify with the INFP personality type, this self-study eBook can help you fine-tune your intuition or inner guidance—without having to change who you are. For more details.

Take the INFP Intuition QUIZ.

Also, check out the INFP Personality Type section on my website.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

 

 

About the Twin Flame Runner Chaser Pattern

There is all sorts of information out there about the runner/chaser pattern and what to do about it. Some come to think it is a necessary step for twin flame union, while others deny the pattern even exists. Some information could make you feel bad about yourself and your behaviors. Some could make you want to blame your twin flame for the separation.

Before you take anything you read or hear as gospel, use your intuition or inner guidance.  Ask yourself how you feel when you read or hear it. Does it make you feel better or worse? Stick with what resonates with you and makes you feel better and forget the rest. Using your intuition or inner guidance could save you years of being stuck in the runner/chaser pattern.

Defining the Runner/Chaser Pattern

An easy way to define it is the following: the runner/chaser pattern is a period of time when one party runs away from the relationship and the other party chases after them.

What Causes the Runner/Chaser Pattern?

There are three main reasons for the runner/chaser pattern. Many times, it’s the combination of two or three of them that causes the separation.

1   REFUSE THE TWIN FLAME CONNECTION-

The runner/chaser pattern can occur when one or both parties tries to resist, avoid, deny, or essentially opt out of their twin flame connection. They try desperately to maintain or return back to the way their life used to be—normal, like others. They may NOT want to change their…

  • Current partners.
  • Habits or addictions.
  • Lifestyle.
  • Spiritual or intuitive awareness.
  • Thoughts, perceptions, and beliefs.

It seems soooo much easier to return or stay in their comfort zone and numb their feelings.

2   UNWORTHINESS-

The runner/chaser pattern can also occur when the amazing feeling of pure unconditional love gets too hard to handle on a consistent basis. One or both parties could feel they are NOT worthy or deserving of so much pure unconditional love, and proceed to sabotage it. Unworthiness is usually caused by…

  • Having plenty of regrets.
  • Being critical of yourself.
  • Feeling you have in the past or are currently doing something wrong.
  • Thinking you are flawed or defective in some way.
  • Lacking the willingness to forgive.
  • Believing you would be worthier if you looked, spoke, or acted differently.

3   CONTROL THE LOVE-

The runner/chaser pattern can also occur when one or both parties try to make a twin flame relationship a “normal” relationship, which takes all the spark out of it. It’s easy to slide into trying to CONTROL the LOVE by putting limitations on behaviors, which consists of…

  • Making compromises and sacrificing. 
  • Having obligations.
  • Making and trying to fulfill promises.
  • Trying to please your twin flame and expecting them to please you.
  • And most of all, making either or both parties feel guilty and wrong when they don’t control their behavior.

Twin flame relationships are not meant to be used to limit and put restrictions on your or your twin flame’s behaviors. It’s meant to redefine love by teaching you to love yourself and your twin flame no matter what is said or not said, or done or not done.

About the Twin Flame Runner

Because the runner is usually not as advanced, spiritual, or used to utilizing their intuition or inner guidance, they encounter tremendous amounts of fear with the incredible pull of the connection. Many times, especially if they have not physically met their twin flame yet, they can feel soooo alone and in the dark, not knowing where these feelings are coming from. If the runner does know where it’s coming from, they still don’t know what to do about it. They resort to trying to get away from the connection.

Almost all runners have not done enough inner work to know anything about the incredible connection and how to handle it. In fact, many have not even heard the term “twin flame,” or if they have, don’t really believe it’s possible.

All along God (Higher Power, Divine, Universe, Source, Spirit, or whatever term you want to call it) keeps gently nudging them in their twin flame’s direction. Everything, especially the twin flame relationship, is working towards union.

About the Twin Flame Chaser

Almost always the chaser is the most advanced, spiritual, and has done a great deal of inner work. They tend to pay attention and follow their intuition or inner guidance on a regular basis. So, when they feel the incredible pull of the twin flame connection, it doesn’t cause that much fear at all. In fact, it has the opposite effect—it’s usually an amazing feeling and extremely inviting. Chasers usually move towards what feels good and what they are interested in, which starts the chase often before they even meet their twin flame in person. Their deep desire to be with their twin flame often becomes all consuming, and they will do anything to be with them.

Because physically reaching out to their twin flame doesn’t get many results, or they are hit and miss at best, the chaser can often become needy and almost beg. At that point, the chaser can be more fearful than the runner—scared to death they will never be with their twin flame and complete their mission.

To Sum it Up

Whether you are the runner or the chaser, the only way to finally stop the runner/chaser pattern is to do more inner work to get out of the fear, and hone your ability to utilize your intuition or inner guidance to the fullest.

Good News!

Because you and your twin flame are connected, only one of you needs to spiritually hunker down to get results for both.

I have three products that can help you break the runner/chaser pattern:

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome, even if you are in the runner/chaser pattern. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, it doesn’t matter if you have met your twin flame yet or not. For more details.

 

 How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

This program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel deserving of an amazing mind-blowing relationship and be your true self. For more details.

 

How INFJs & INFPs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBooks

If you identify with either the INFJ or the INFP personality type, there is an eBook that can help you fine-tune your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

 

 

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