I often tell my potential coaching clients that the twin flame journey gets a lot easier and can be downright pleasant when you do your inner work. They often question, “What is inner work?” Here’s my reply.

Doing Inner Work is Learning How to…

1   Rely on God (Higher Power, Source, Spirit, Universe, or whatever you want to call it).

2   Feel worthy.

3   End the need to doubt, worry, or be afraid.

4   Use your intuition or inner guide.

5   Release control of what happens.

6   Not cast blame, even towards yourself.

7   Be honest and tell the truth.

8   Communicate telepathically.

9   Make how you feel more important than what’s happening.

10   Forgive others and yourself.

11   Enjoy change.

12   End the habit of people pleasing.

13   Be grateful, even for the unpleasant situations.

14   Be aware of your thoughts, taking yourself off of auto-pilot.

Good News!

Whew! When you look at this list it can seem exhausting and overwhelming. But the good news is that if you only work on ONE of these, (especially #1), you’ll feel the difference right away. Then, the more inner work you do, the better you will feel about yourself and your twin flame journey.

Everywhere you turn there are methods and people to help with doing your inner work. Just use your inner guidance and dig in to what feels right. I offer two ways other than my blogs and videos…

 A Course for Twin Flames

This self-study program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40-minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). For more Details. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.  

With my coaching clients I am often asked, “How can I be more patient while I’m waiting to be with my twin flame?” A large part of the answer is to realize why we get so impatient.

Why Do We Get So Impatient?

1   PLACING RESPONSIBILITY

We have a tendency to blame our twin flame, their current partner, anyone or anything else for the separation. That makes it a waiting game—waiting for our twin flame to come to their senses, waiting for someone to get out of the way, or waiting for the circumstances to change. That way we have no responsibility for separation at all, except to learn to be patient.

2   THE END

We have a tendency to think being physically with our twin flame is the end goal. Once we are with our twin flame, we can finally set up house and go back to a normal way of living. We think the end product will be feeling better, more comfortable, and more secure we he/she is near us.

Thinking the relationship is a normal romance where we live happily ever after is misleading. Having a twin flame means we will learn to unconditionally love her/him no matter what they say or do, whether she/he is physically with us or not.

3   GOING INWARD

This is the most important reason why we are impatient. If we were doing our own inner work, we would feel the progress every single day.

We would be busy letting go of the ego’s 3rd dimension mindset and releasing feeling unworthy, afraid, guilty, limited, and yes, feeling impatient.

We would be learning and using 4th dimension mindset tools. Telepathy, astro projection visits, vivid dreams, and psychic abilities achieve a closer twin flame connection than we ever thought possible without physically seeing, hearing, and touching them.

We would be watching ourselves transform into the hero in our own lives—nothing to feel impatient about.

I can help you take responsibility for your part and go inward to make your twin flame journey extremely rewarding. Here’s how…

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40-minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). For more Details. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.  

Are you one of those who have read every blog and watched every video you can find on the signs of having a twin flame? Maybe you have most of the signs, but not all of them. That can get confusing! To top that off, one person might say one thing and another say something else. Who’s right? No wonder you might still have doubts whether you have found your twin flame or not!

Brace yourself!

The only way you will know for SURE is if you go inward.

Relying on someone outside of yourself to tell you what’s going on inside yourself can give you a starting point, but it can’t take you home. You have to do that yourself!

Take time to ask yourself (your higher self, your inner guide, or your intuition) the big question. Then, this is the hard part, have a willingness to hear the honest answer. Only you will know if she/he is the one.

If you need help going inward, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Visit the entire Twin Flame section.

Or check out the Twin Flame Course.

Have you noticed how music can affect your emotions? There is something about certain songs that have a direct line to our hearts.

That being said, be careful if you’re not currently together with your twin flame and you’re in the runner/chaser phase. Pay attention to how you feel when listening to your favorite love songs. Does it make you feel better or worse about your situation?

I bet you, most of the time you will feel worse. How do I know?

Because the majority of love songs are about love gone wrong. Love songs tend to be about missing a loved one terribly, how a loved one hurt the singer, or someone’s willingness to do absolutely anything to get their loved one back in their arms. Most love songs are probably written right after a breakup.

If you get into songs that make you feel worse, then it’s easier to start doubting yourself or your twin flame, feel sorry for yourself, and get downright depressed about the relationship.

But, if you get into songs that make you feel better, it gives you hope, and shortens the timeline for a happy outcome with your twin flame. (See my blog, Twin Flame Songs)

For more info, visit the entire twin flame section.  

To get some help with your relationship, I offer a self-study Course for Twin Flames or Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching.

Probably everyone has heard of “the law of attraction.” It means every thought we think, whether we express it or not, becomes a magnet to the experience that matches that thought. In other words, we get back what we give out.

Did you notice, I didn’t say that you can get exactly what you want to happen and with whom? That would imply we have free will and can make anything happen that we want, no matter how it affects anyone or anything else. Maybe you have had times it seemed you were in control and got exactly what you wanted to happen, but that was when it worked in everyone else’s favor also.

However, we can get the emotional feeling or experience that we want from anything that happens, all the time. With our thoughts and perceptions we can choose the experience we want, which attracts more of the same kind of experience.

When we first find out who our twin flame is, or we are in a physical relationship, we are thinking gobs of loving thoughts and get gobs of loving back.  But as the relationship progresses and the newness wears off, three things could happen with our thoughts…

1   We could let ourselves get lazy and slack off from thinking feel good thoughts. It’s so easy to put our minds on auto-pilot, paying very little attention to how we want to feel.

2   Or we could replace those feel good thoughts by trying to prove that we are right—or the opposite, that we are wrong. In other words, we want someone to feel bad for what happened or didn’t happen.

3   This is the best option of all! We could think feel good thoughts no matter what our twin flame says or doesn’t say, or does or doesn’t do. That’s unconditional love and when we give it, we get it back.

Being physically near our twin flame cannot survive long when we don’t care about how we feel or when we want our twin flame, ourselves, or both to feel bad for something that happened or didn’t happen. For an unconditional loving thought is a magnet for unconditional love.

For more blogs and videos about Twin Flames.

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

and

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40-minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). For more Details. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.