Vickie Champion

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Why INFJs Feel Their Twin Flame’s Presence Before Meeting

Do you feel really connected to someone you don’t know yet? Can you feel energy and have no idea who it is from? Maybe you can pick up random thoughts that you know are not yours. Perhaps you just know you have a twin flame somewhere out there.

Feeling the presence of their twin flame or true love is common for INFJ Myers-Briggs personality types.

Here’s Why INFJs Often Feel the Presence of Their Twin Flame Before They Meet…

INFJs tend to…

1   Believe wholeheartedly that everything is connected, especially souls.

2   Almost always be looking to see how the different pieces are joined together.

3   Have a built-in curiosity.

4   Be future focused. When they do center their attention on the past or the present, it’s usually to get clues about what will happen in the future.

5   Have an eerie ability to predict the future, even their own.

6   Crave relationship intimacy at the highest level humanly possible.

7   Need to have a purpose, and the twin flame union is a gigantic purpose.  It keeps them motivated.

8   Require time alone to escalate their inner work before meeting.

To…

  • Feel worthy enough to handle soooo much unconditional love on a 24/7 basis.
  • Stop the battles between their head and their
  • End the self-doubt about the relationship.
  • Take full advantage of their intuitive skills.
  • Get committed to an unbelievable journey of getting rid of the 3rd dimension mindset (ego) to eventually move up to the 5th (oneness).

 

I have three products that help INFJs really dig into their inner work:

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, it doesn’t matter if you have met them or not. For more details.

 

 How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

This program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel deserving of an amazing mind-blowing relationship and be your true self. For more details.

 

How INFJs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this simple eBook can help you hone your intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

 

Why an INFJ and INFP Can be a Perfect Twin Flame Combination

There are a few Myers-Briggs personality type combinations that are highly unlikely for a twin flame relationship. But an INFJ with an INFP is a perfect combination.

Definition of Twin Flame Relationship

As you have probably noticed, there are lots of different definitions of a twin flame relationship. This blog is based on the definition from S.J. Morgan’s book Soul Mates and Twin Flames:

“The twin flame union is the strongest, deepest, and purest form of love that can be experienced by two entities within this universe. It requires both entities to release their egos in order to act only out of unconditional love.”

Why an INFJ with an INFP is a Perfect Combination to be in a Twin Flame Relationship at the…

Core Level

At the core level, INFJs and INFPs are wired the same. In other words, when it comes to the important stuff they are on a same page.

Both INFJs and INFPs tend to…

1   Believe everything is connected at some level.

2   Search for “the one.” They crave a mind-blowing, amazing soul connection that lasts for eternity.

3   Be extremely spiritual, highly sensitive, and usually trust and follow their intuition or inner guide.

4   Desire honest, authentic, and deep connections with others.

5   Be on a constant adventure of self-discovery and personal growth.

6   Have no desire to conform and be “normal,” which is a good fit for having an extremely rare twin flame relationship.

7   Be deep thinkers, full of creativity and ideas.

8   Have an intense laser-like focus with their passions.

9   Function a whole lot better when they have a cause or a purpose. The purpose of the twin flame relationship is to completely release the ego (conditional love) and come from unconditional love. There isn’t a higher purpose any person can ever achieve in a relationship.

Day-to-Day Level

On the day-to-day level (i.e., the small stuff), INFJs and INFPs are wired the opposite, which can easily cause havoc in the relationship.

Some Opposites Might Be…

1   INFJs tend to be the least dependent of all the personality types on external stimulation for intuitive insights. INFPs tend to receive intuitive insights from exploring external stimulation.

2   INFJs tend to be outer control freaks. They usually try to control everything in their environment in order to feel safe and secure. INFPs tend to be inner control freaks—trying to keep control of their inner thoughts and beliefs.

3   INFJs usually need to have structure and order. That means they plan and organize a lot. INFPs usually need to have lots of freedom and flexibility. That means INFPs are more spontaneous.

4   INFJs like to keep their environment neat and tidy. INFPs usually keep their environment messy and chaotic.

5   INFJs tend to talk through their issues with others. INFPs tend to keep their issues to themselves.

6   INFJs tend to be more analytical—thinking things through before taking action. INFPs tend to be more experimental, always trying different options.

7   INFJs are usually firm, direct, and make decisions easily. INFPs are usually more open-ended or take time considering every option before making a decision.

8   INFJs even tend to read more nonfiction, subjects like personal growth and spirituality. INFPs tend to read more fiction—stories that use lots of imagination.

To Sum it Up

At the core level, both the INFJ and the INFP intuitively feel that deep intense connection, which acts as a magnet to make them want to get rid of anything that stands in the way of their twin flame union.

The day-to-day opposite behaviors act as the accelerator that brings each person’s ego to the surface to be released.

The INFJ/INFP relationship combination has both an extremely strong magnet pulling them towards union and at the same time provides an accelerator pushing them out of the ego mindset.

This creates an ideal scenario for learning how to let go of conditional love and really learning how to unconditionally love another person.

Are You Ready to Learn How to Really Unconditionally Love?

This self-study program shows you how to take the heartache out of your twin flame relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website. 

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships.

Contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

 

 

 

3 Things I Know for Sure

Way back when, I remember Oprah sharing with us the “things she knew for sure”. Since then, whenever I start feeling out of sorts and being in doubt about something, I ask myself, “What do I know for sure about this?” With each answer I come up with, I feel more and more grounded.

Here’s “3 things I know for sure” about life in general…

1 Try FULLY PARTICIPATING or really engage in whatever you find yourself doing. This means taking everything you do—whether it’s a relationship, work, paying bills, taking a walk, or doing a chore—and really getting into it. I really believe most of our misery and discontent comes from getting into the habit of half-assing it.

2 HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE. We have the choice whether to make any situation in our life the worst thing that happened or the best that happened. It’s what we want to make of what happens.

3 Understand the PURPOSE OF LIFE IS TO LEARN TO LOVE, not to avoid or attack what we don’t like. I often hear my coaching clients saying they do love others, but it also means loving yourself, the good and the bad, and learning to love everything else. I did a video on learning to love doing the dishes years ago, take a look.

If you need help with any of these 3 things, contact Vickie for a complimentary coaching session.

12 Signs You Have NOT Forgiven Your Twin Flame

There are no doubts about it. A main part of the twin flame journey is learning to forgive your twin flame. That means you are willing to unconditionally love them. You can’t have a happy outcome with your relationship without doing that.

Here are Some Signs You Haven’t Forgiven Your Twin Flame…

When you…

1   Are dead set that what they did or didn’t say, or did or didn’t do, was wrong.

2   Want your twin flame to apologize for what they did or didn’t do.

3   Preoccupy your mind day in and day out either reliving or dwelling on the situation or your twin flame’s behaviors.

4   Hold your twin flame at arm’s length, afraid they will hurt you again.

5   Believe you have been unfairly treated and are an innocent victim.

6   Feel bad, disappointed, or sad every time you think about a particular event.

7   Want them to feel bad or guilty for what they did or didn’t say, or did or didn’t do.

8   Judge your twin flame.

9   Use what your twin did or didn’t do as an excuse to not be with them.

10   Want to fix or rectify their past mistakes by trying to control their current behavior.

11   Believe your life would have been better if they had just done something different.

12   Wish your twin flame would live up to your imagined dream of who they are. INFJ, INFP, and INTJ personality types, who are known to seek and find their twin flame, tend to set the bar high and often get let down.

Wrap Up

Forgiveness is usually more of a process than we are willing to admit. If there’s still work to do to totally forgive your twin flame, that’s OK! But understand that it’s a non-negotiable in order to have a happy outcome with your twin flame.

Are You Ready to Learn How to Forgive Your Twin Flame?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

Learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

 

Advantages & Disadvantages of Studying A Course in Miracles

With anything we decide to undertake, there are disadvantages and some advantages of taking it on. Studying A Course in Miracles (ACIM) is no exception.

Here’s Some Disadvantages of Studying ACIM…

  • It’s not an easy book to understand. At first, you may only understand a sentence on each page.
  • Once you really understand the enormity of the concepts and what they truly mean, you probably won’t want to stop.
  • It will probably be extremely hard not to see yourself, others, God, and the world around you differently.
  • You might have a love/hate relationship with the book, ripping out the pages and burning them, and in the next minute buying another copy.

You might…

  • Start quoting A Course in Miracles in normal conversations, to the point that it’s annoying.
  • Spend lots of money buying copies for everyone you know.
  • Have to redefine or overlook the pronouns and terms used, i.e. God, He, Him, His, and Son.
  • Have to lug that heavy book around on trips, because you can’t bear to leave it at home.
  • Think royal blue is the only shade of blue on the color wheel.
  • Experience memory losses. You can read it over and over, even hundreds of times, and yet come across a section you swear you never saw.
  • Buy more books just to explain A Course in Miracles.
  • Find out there is no turning back. Once you start understanding the concepts you can’t completely unlearn them, no matter how hard you try.

Here’s Some Advantages of Studying ACIM…

  • If you do what it says, it works.
  • The more you study it, the easier it gets to understand. Understanding one sentence on a page quickly becomes two, then a paragraph, and then the whole page.
  • If you pay close attention, you can watch yourself change from the inside out.

You might…

  • Find answers to all your questions.
  • Change the way you think about everything to a more loving way.
  • Build muscles carrying around that heavy book.
  • Have a resource and reference guide for any problem you will ever face.
  • Feel moments of appreciation that A Course in Miracles was something you decided to undertake.

FREE Help!

If you need help understanding A Course of Miracles concepts and live in the United States, contact Vickie for a complimentary phone conversation.

 

Why INFPs Can Run from Their Twin Flame Before They Meet

Before Myers-Briggs INFP personality types meet their twin flame in person, or even before they know who that person is, they can start mentally and spiritually running away. Before we look in depth at why they can run away from their twin flame before they physically meet, there are two main things you need to know about INFPs.

What You Need to Know…

INFPs…

First, INFPs are one of the few of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types who craves emotional intimacy and dream about finding their true love or twin flame. Most personality types have no desire for an extremely deep, genuine, wholehearted relationship like INFPs do.

Secondly, INFPs are extremely spiritual. They are born with an ability to pick up even the slightest intuitive insights, especially with close connections.

 

Why INFPs Can Run from Their Twin Flame Before They Meet…

INFPs tend to…

1   BE HIGHLY SENSITIVE-

INFPs can telepathically pick up on their twin flame’s energy, emotions, and thoughts long before they actually meet. But they can get overwhelmed with the intensity, not knowing how to handle it, or how to proceed. This may cause them to mentally or spiritually retreat.

2   NEED TIME TO REFLECT-

INFPs are introverts and usually need to have plenty of reflection time and the ability to examine ALL their options before choosing just one direction.

3   NEED EVIDENCE-

Even though INFPs can feel their twin flame’s energy, emotions, and thoughts, most of their intuitive insights come from external exploration—what they see, hear, touch, taste, and smell. So, it can be frustrating for them to not see physical evidence of their twin flame yet.  This might cause them to doubt themselves and their feelings, and try to detach from them.

4   BE EXTEMELY INDEPENDENT-

Of all the personality types, INFPs are the most independent, cherishing their freedom and flexibility. They may want to run away from anything that has the possibility of taking that away from them.

5   HAVE DIFFICULTY JUDGING THEMSELVES-

INFPs usually judge themselves a lot. Because they tend to be perfectionists, they have a very high bar to live up to that cannot always be achieved. That might cause them to feel unworthy or not deserving of the deep, true love relationship they want so badly.

 

I have two products that help INFPs have peace with their relationship and possibly alleviate the physical runner/chaser pattern so many twin flames experience:

How INFPs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFP personality type, this eBook can help you fine-tune your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, it doesn’t matter if you have met your twin flame yet or not. For more details.

 

Advantages of the Twin Flame Runner Chaser Pattern

The excruciating agony of not being in physical contact with your twin flame can be so painful that you could think there are absolutely NO advantages. But there are reasons for everything, including this.

Here are Some Advantages of the Runner/Chaser Pattern…

The runner/chaser pattern…

1   HELPS US COMMIT-

Most twin flames lean towards being more introverted and need time alone to reflect on the enormity of the twin flame journey. Once we stop questioning the relationship, the journey gets soooo much easier.

2   ALLOWS TIME TO LOAD OUR BACKPACK-

With any journey, it’s almost necessary to have a full backpack for any circumstance we can face. For the twin flame journey, it is important to fill it with methods to handle the process of getting rid of the ego and uniting with our true love.

3   HELPS US LET GO OF EXTRA BAGGAGE-

During this time apart from our twin flame, we can learn to finally let go of past heartaches and forgive those we let hurt us. This helps us move forward, free of unhealed relationships.

4   AIDS US IN CHANGING OUR APPROACH-

Time away from our twin flame almost forces us to find another way to communicate and feel connected to them. Essentially, it makes us give up 3rd dimension methods of reaching out (what we see, hear, and touch) and pushes us to rely on 4th dimension methods (telepathy, how we feel, and other more spiritual ways).

5   BUILDS MOMENTUM-

If we are honest with ourselves, it’s kind of a relief to catch our breath. The twin flame journey can be so full of twists and turns, ups and downs, that we need to take a break and rest a minute. Allowing time to practice staying in spiritual shape will do a lot in helping us not to get so worn out when we get physically together again.

6   HELPS US FIND OUR TRUE SELVES-

In the time we are separated from our twin flame, there is space to learn how to unconditionally love ourselves and feel worthy of an amazing relationship like this.

Summing it Up

The runner/chaser pattern was not meant to torture us. It has a higher purpose, to help our journey. If you take advantage of your time apart and do your inner work, it will make physical union soooo much easier.

I have three products that can help you do your inner work:

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome, even if you are in the runner/chaser pattern. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, it doesn’t matter if you have met your twin flame yet or not. For more details.

 How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

This program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel deserving of an amazing mind-blowing relationship and be your true self. For more details.

How INFJs & INFPs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBooks

If you identify with either the INFJ or the INFP personality type, there is an is eBook that can help you fine-tune your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

 

Why INFJs Need to Do Inner Work Before Meeting Twin Flame

Maybe you are one of those INFJ Myers-Briggs personality types that has NOT physically met your twin flame yet. Maybe you feel their energy or just know they are out there somewhere. Whatever inner work you can get yourself to do will benefit you greatly.

Doing Inner Work Before Meeting Your Twin Flame Will Help…

  • Make the twin flame journey soooo much easier on you.
  • Shorten the timeline for a happy outcome.
  • Allow you to enjoy and appreciate your twin flame journey.
  • Make you feel more connected to your twin flame and that higher source (God, a Higher Power, Spirit, Divine, Universe, or any other term you want to call it).
  • Let that higher source know you are ready to experience the most rewarding relationship humanly possible.
  • Give you the tools to navigate the twists, turns, ups, and downs of the twin flame relationship. It also gives you the time to practice them.
  • Clear the path for you to optimize your intuition or inner guidance with everything in your life.
  • Teach you how to focus on what you want in the future and not what you don’t have in the present.
  • Reduce the doubt and fear about the relationship.
  • Show you how to let go of trying to control what actually happens and instead learn to control your thoughts and feelings about what happens.
  • Make you feel worthy and deserving of an amazing, mind-blowing relationship like this.
  • Keep you from getting impatient and trying to make the physical union happen sooner than it’s supposed to.
  • Hopefully eliminate the runner/chaser pattern so many twin flames experience.
  • Develop faith in the process of having a relationship that is based on unconditional love.
  • Connect the dots in your twin flame journey.
  • Create a sense of feeling safe and loved for your twin flame, whoever and wherever they are.

Doing inner work is a magnet that physically attracts your twin flame to you.

 

I have three products that help INFJs really dig into their inner work:

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, it doesn’t matter if you have met them or not. For more details

 How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

This program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel deserving of an amazing mind-blowing relationship and be your true self. For more details.

INFJ Intuition eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you hone your intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

 

 

7 Possible Reasons INFP Personality Types Judge Themselves

Do you identify as an INFP Myers-Briggs personality type? Do you seem to have a problem with being critical or judgmental of yourself? Maybe you are afraid of making mistakes?

Here’s 7 Possible Reasons INFP Personality Types Judge Themselves…

INFPs…

1   ARE FREE SPIRITS-

Of the 16 personality types, INFPs are the most independent and nonconforming. If they try to be “normal” and make themselves follow others, they can fall into the pattern of judging themselves.

2   ARE EXTREMELY TELEPATHIC-

INFPs tend to be overemotional because they can experience others’ feelings, even if the feelings are not expressed. That means they have the ability to detect the slightest anger, fear, or dishonesty in others, no matter how far away they are. Until INFPs see actual evidence of those feelings, they might judge themselves.

3   HAVE HIGH STANDARDS-

INFPs tend to strive to be perfect. When they fall short of their expectations, they often judge themselves.

4   HAVE A HARD TIME MAKING DECISIONS-

INFPs tend to need time to explore and examine their options carefully before making decisions. They could easily judge themselves for not being able to make a decision, or for taking too long to make a decision. This could be alleviated if the INFP would utilize their intuition or inner guidance in the matter.

5   CRAVE EMOTIONAL INTIMACY-

INFPs tend to want deep emotional relationships. In fact, INFPs are one of the personality types who seek and actually find their twin flame. They can often judge themselves for not being able to find or be with “the one” yet.

6   NATURALLY EXPLORE EVERYTHING-

INFPs tend to explore and experience all sorts of things. Nothing’s wrong with that! In fact, exploring is how their creativity blossoms. They might judge themselves for needing to explore so much or when they take one of their experiences too seriously and think it was wrong.

7   ARE EXTREMELY INTUITIVE-

If an INFP tries to be “normal” and dumbs down their intuitive ability, they are attempting to cut off their source. There could be a tremendous amount of self-criticism when they can’t be someone they are not meant to be.

Are You an INFP who is Ready to Hone Your Intuition or Inner Guidance?

If you identify with the INFP personality type, this self-study eBook can help you fine-tune your intuition or inner guidance—without having to change who you are. For more details.

Also, check out the INFP Personality Type section on my website or the INFP Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

 

 

14 Signs You May NOT Find Your Twin Flame

Maybe you think your life would be better if you found your twin flame?

I’ve got news for you! Most people won’t find their twin flame in this lifetime. But that’s not necessarily a bad thing. There is a large portion of the population that would have a better chance of finding satisfying love with a “normal” or soulmate relationship.

Here’s 14 Signs You May NOT Find Your Twin Flame in this Lifetime…

When You…

1   Are unwilling to believe in a higher source (God, a Higher Power, your Guides, Source, Spirit, the Universe, Divine, or whatever term you want to call it).

2   Always need to be in a physical relationship with someone—practically anyone—for companionship.

3   Have no desire to forgive events, situations, or disagreements you have had in the past. That includes your own actions, those of past partners, or anyone else.

4   Are not willing to give up numbing your feelings. This could be with food, pills, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, caffeine, impulse buying, keeping crazy busy, or the hundreds of other obsessions or addictions.

5   Find comfort in and try to live by rules, traditions, and obligations others have established.

6   Have little interest in knowing someone deeply—physically, mentally, and spiritually.

7   Need to use your five senses—what you see, hear, touch, taste, or smell to believe in things.

8   Enjoy small talk and get overwhelmed with deep meaningful conversations.

9   Believe you can hurt other people and others can hurt you by telling the truth.

10   Are concerned with fitting in or belonging.

11   Not willing to learn to love someone unconditionally, no matter what they say or don’t say, or do or don’t do. This means with both your partner and YOURSELF.

12   Have no desire whatsoever to experience the psychic insights, paranormal events, undeniable signs from the universe, telepathy, visions, lucid dreams, and astral projections associated with twin flame relationships.

13   Strongly believe your thoughts are private unless you express them.

14   Are unwilling to observe and change your mindset—your thoughts and feelings.

Are You Ready to Do Your Twin Flame Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details .

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

Learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

 

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