Vickie Champion

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When to Be Cautious About Twin Flame Predictions

We all want to know when we will finally be in our twin flame’s arms for eternity. Most of us reach out to psychics or resort to the Internet for relationship predictions at least one time, if not constantly.

Here’s When to be Cautious About Twin Flame Predictions…

When we…

1   IGNORE OUR OWN INNER GUIDANCE OR INTUITION-

Sometimes we dumb down our own psychic abilities and give more credibility to someone else.

2   RELY ON THE TIME FRAME-

When it comes to twin flame relationships, I have yet to hear of a psychic prediction that could nail the time flame accurately.

3   USE ASTOLOGY AS AN EXCUSE-

Astrological forecasts might cause us to put too much emphasis on our natal charts and what is written in the stars to navigate our relationship. We could neglect what we could do right now, in this moment.

4   PUT OUR INNER WORK ON HOLD-

After getting a prediction, especially one with a time frame, there is a tendency for us to sit back and wait for it to happen.

5   TRY TO SKIP THE JOURNEY AND GO DIRECTLY TO THE PRIZE-

Sometimes we want our twin flame so bad, we’ll put all our faith in predictions. The trouble with that is, we’re trying to skip the really good parts of the twin flame journey. The parts where we release our fears, guilt, and feeling unworthy, and learn how to unconditionally love someone so much it radiates out into the world.

Here’s the thing! Only you know if you are using psychic predictions as an excuse, or if you are trying to escape the twists and turns of the twin flame journey.

Are You Ready to Stop Having Excuses or Avoiding the Journey?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

19 Signs We Are Trying to People Please with our Twin Flame

The difference between people pleasing and unconditional love is simple. The need to please is rooted in fear, and with twin flame relationships we are usually afraid our twin flame will run if we don’t at least try to please them. On the other hand, unconditional love comes from extending love and not caring about what happens—run or don’t run, it doesn’t matter.

Here’s Signs We’re Trying to People Please in our Twin Flame Relationship…

When we…

1   Say yes when we want to say no.

2   Think nothing of telling white lies to avoid hurting our twin flame.

3   Worry about what we did or did not do.

4   Secretly, think we are responsible for our twin flame’s happiness.

5   Have a habit of blaming ourselves for what happened.

6   Take things our twin flame says or does for face value.

7   Will do anything to keep our twin flame from running.

8   Feel we are not good enough for our twin flame.

9   Try to adapt our lifestyle to fit theirs.

10  Apologize to make our twin flame feel better and/or to avoid conflict.

11  Feel we would have a better relationship if we looked, spoke and acted differently.

12   Are afraid to tell the truth.

13   Try to fix our twin flames problems for them.

14   Deprive ourselves of things we want for the sake of the relationship.

15   Think our twin flame’s opinions are more important than our own. We can almost deny our own thoughts and feelings.

16   Believe doing more than is required in any situation—that by going an extra mile, our twin flame will appreciate and respect us even more.

17   Adjust our behaviors according to what your twin flames likes or dislikes.

18   Avoid doing or saying anything that might upset our twin flame.

19   Claim we don’t know how to listen to our inner guidance or intuition.

If you would like help stopping your need to please your twin flame…

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program explains how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details

 Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

5 Signs You Use Money to Lower Your Self-Worth

If you had enough money, you’d feel better about yourself right? Not necessarily. Many times, I have found that my coaching clients use money to actually feel unworthy. How we use money is not often recognized as a tool to reflect the way we feel about ourselves.

Here’s How We Can Use Money to Lower Our Self-Worth…

When we…

  • Keep increasing our debt. 
  • Spend money to relieve our guilty feelings.
  • Forget to appreciate what we do have.
  • Get angry with ourselves over past financial mistakes.
  • Use a lack of money as an excuse for not pursuing dreams.

How are you using money, and is it reflecting the way you feel about yourself? Getting to know your relationship with money and how you treat it ultimately affects the way it treats you.

Are You Ready to Stop Using Money to Lower Your Self-Worth?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and use money differently. For more details.

Also, check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help feeling worthy, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

Being Yourself Questionnaire

Are You Ready to Go for Your Greatest Goal, Truly Being Yourself?

Below are some questions to ask yourself to find out if you are ready to make some changes and go up to the next level.

  • Are you successful at something or many things, but not having fun at it?
  • Have you noticed your comfort zone is not so comfortable anymore?
  • Do you need the courage to do what’s in your heart?
  • Have you been on the personal growth path for years and want to go even higher?
  • Do you want to trust and follow your inner guidance or intuition even in the smallest matters?
  • Do you long to feel really satisfied with everything in your life?
  • Are you driven to find a greater meaning?
  • Have you come to the point where you don’t know all the answers?
  • Is the fear of doing the right thing starting to fade away?
  • Have you imagined what it would feel like to have a life without doubt and fear?

If you answered YES to most of these questions, and you are ready to take it to the next level. Don’t wait to live your best life! Did you know part of being yourself is feeling worthy?

Are You Ready to Truly Be Yourself?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself. For more details.

Also, check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help being yourself, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

My Favorite Song About Feeling Worthy

The best song I’ve heard on feeling worthy is “You Say” by Lauren Daigle. There must be a lot of people looking for answers. When I looked at the official video on YouTube it had 98,255,252 views.

Why It’s My Favorite?

1  IT’S UNIVERSAL-

It’s for anyone, not only for mainstream religion folks, but for anyone who believes in a Higher Power, whether we call it God, Spirit, Source, Universe, Divine, Buddha, Jesus, Guides, Angels, or anyone or anything else, it doesn’t matter.

 

2   EVERYONE CAN IDENTIFY

Everyone at some time or another has thought they were not “good enough.” And probably questioned if they were more than their flaws, mistakes, or even more than all their achievements and talents.

 

3   GIVES US A WAY OUT

All we have to do is to make a commitment to find our worth and true identity. Then surrender our failures and victories believing there really is a God or Higher Power, and that we are something more than what we physically see, hear, and touch.

 

If you need help making a commitment to feeling worthy, check out my…

Are You Ready to Feel Worthy?

This self-study program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself to be able to finally feel worthy. For more details.

Also check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need help with making a commitment, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

Signs You Feel Unworthy of Your Twin Flame Relationship

What’s on our mind the most when we are separated from our twin flame? Wondering when we are going to get together, of course. We just want them in our arms, and the sooner the better.

Just for a minute, take a broader perspective about your relationship. Why are they not with you now? Your inability to feel worthy of that much love on a consistent basis plays a major part in that.

Here’s Some Signs We Feel Undeserving of Our Twin Flame Relationship…

When we…

  • Have plenty of regrets about anything that happened in our past.
  • Strongly believe we need to do something to be loved or accepted.
  • Depriveourselves of the things we want.
  • Constantly worry about what we did or did not do.
  • Feel we are never good enough.
  • Find it difficult to accept praise or appreciation from others.
  • Are afraid to tell the truth to others.
  • Think and talk about our past mistakes a lot.
  • Have a hard time accepting kindness from others.
  • Feel we would be worthier if we looked,spoke, or acted differently.
  • Have a fear of not living up to others’ expectations.
  • Focus on what we are doing wrong and our faults.
  • Feel guilty and apologize often.
  • Find ourselves sacrificingand compromising more often than not.
  • Lack the willingness to forgive ourselves.
  • Think there are things we can improveon or change to be worthier.
  • Focus on trying to please others.

Until we feel we are worthy of our twin flame relationship, we will, to some extent, sabotage our relationship.

Are You Ready to Feel Worthy Enough for Your Twin Flame Relationship?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset that you have about yourself, your relationship, and the world around you. You will finally feel you deserve what you want. For more details.

Check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

Are You Having a Difficult Time Forgetting the Past?

We probably all think about people we have encountered and things that have happened in the past. We might remember certain relationships, significant events, or challenging situations. The big question is, when we think of those things, does it make us feel bad?

If it Does, We are Stuck in the 3rd Dimension Mindset

The 3rd dimension is about judging things as either right or wrong. If we label someone or something that happened as wrong, it will make us feel bad—if not immediately, then it will over time.

Move Up to the 4th Dimension Mindset

It’s not too late! Change the way you are experiencing the past, right now. Instead of reliving the bad feeling over and over, year after year, change your perspective of the past.

The 4th dimension mindset cares more about feeling good then wanting to keep judging it as wrong.

 

Did you know feeling bad about the past can easily cause us to feel unworthy?

Are You Ready to Get Rid of the 3rd Dimension Mindset?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself, the past, and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and not feel bad about the past. For more details.

Also, check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help feeling worthy, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

How A Course in Miracles Relates to Feeling Worthy

A Course in Miracles is all about changing our minds, which includes how we think about ourselves. Most of us work on trying to reduce our habit of judging others—probably because it feels lousy and we’ve seen how easily it can backfire on us.

But when it comes to not judging ourselves—usually there is no mercy. We are determined to continually criticize our behaviors, our past, our appearance, and who we are until we feel absolutely worthless. Do we really believe we deserve that kind of cruel treatment?

Here’s What A Course in Miracles says:

          “You do not need God’s blessing because that you have forever, but you do need yours.”

In another section it says,

          “If you choose to see yourself as unloving you will not be happy. You are condemning yourself and must therefore regard yourself as inadequate.”

And another,

          “Every minute and every second gives you a chance to save yourself. Do not lose these chances, not because they will not return, but because delay of joy is needless. God wills you perfect happiness now.”

To feel worthy of happiness and joy, all we have to do is change our mind about ourselves.

Are You Ready to Stop Criticizing Yourself?

This self-study program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to end the need to judge yourself and finally feel worthy. For more details.

Also check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need help with feeling worthy, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

How the Twin Flame Journey is Like the Movie Groundhog Day

Through the years, I must have watched the 1993 movie Groundhog Day a dozen times. Not only did the movie make me feel good, but I thought it was very spiritual in a mainstream way. It also helped me strengthen my belief that “there are no accidents” and my attraction to the movie was setting me up for my own version of Groundhog Day.

Here’s How the Twin Flame Journey is Like the Movie Groundhog Day…

1   TRAPPED IN TIME

In the movie, the main character, Phil Connors, is reliving the same day over and over as if he was stuck in time until he learns how to unconditionally love.

In the twin flame journey, it seems almost all our waking hours are focused on our twin flame. This goes on day after day, month after month, and year after year. The happy ending only occurs when we unconditionally love ourselves, our twin flame, others, and God or a Higher Power.

2   DOUBT OURSELVES

At first, Phil Connors doubts himself and thinks he might be crazy, going to the doctor for a checkup and to a therapist.

Twin flames do the same, thinking we might be crazy and doubting ourselves. We also reach out to therapists, psychics, and, of course, the Internet to help us.

3   FIGHTS BACK

Getting angry about his situation, Phil lashes out by criticizing and being downright cruel to others. Thinking the clock might be to blame, he finally throws it across the room, breaking it. But as he finds out the next day, his rage had no effects. The clock was in perfect condition and the alarm rang the next morning as usual.

In the twin flame journey, we often think it is a curse, trying to blame everyone and everything for this never-ending horrible experience. We soon find out our upset has no affects in changing the situation. Our twin flame is still on our minds every day.

4   PEOPLE PLEASE

Phil also tries to change himself to please others. He memorizes everything about other’s likes and dislikes. Then Phil goes about predicting future based on what happened yesterday. When he memorizes that his producer, Rita, doesn’t like white chocolate, it backfires on him. Rita thinks he is creepy and wants to run the other way.

How many times have we been so afraid to lose our twin flame that we start saying and doing things just to please them—catering to their likes and trying to avoid their dislikes, then finding ourselves in the runner/chaser pattern?

5   SELF-DESTRUCTIVE

Phil even takes it to the extreme. He wants this day to end so bad he resorts to stealing a truck, kidnapping the groundhog, and running the truck off of a cliff. But again, it has no lasting effect.

In our twin flame journey, we may resort to old destructive behaviors, such as over eating, over drinking, over working—anything just to stop this ongoing intense attraction.

6   PIVOT POINT

Phil keeps trying to push and rush a romance with Rita, hoping to get some relief by being with her and having sex. Finally, Rita slaps him and declares, “You will never love someone but yourself.” Phil replies, “That’s not true. I don’t even like myself.” With that one statement, a lightbulb turns on in Phil. He was really honest with himself, and the movie takes a turn from then on.

We often think as soon as we are able to see, hear, and touch our twin flame, it will give us the relief we so desperately want. Yet, until we learn to love ourselves and feel worthy of that much love on a consistent basis, we cannot fully experience it.

7   FOCUS

With Phil’s realization and new outlook on his predicament, he begins by learning to focus—not in a controlling, self-centered, and wanting something in return way. He starts by simply trying to throw cards into a hat, by training his mind and concentrating on it.

A twin flame journey is mostly about training our minds away from doubt, disappointment, and unforgiveness towards ourselves, our twin flame, or anyone else. We learn the power of our thoughts like Phil did.

8   ACTS OF KINDNESS

Phil then gives love to others with small acts of kindness, like caring for a homeless guy and surprisingly, providing coffee to his co-workers. The more he genuinely cares for others, the better he feels about himself. Phil’s courage and ability to care continue to build as he catches a boy falling from a tree and saves a man from choking.

Even though it seems unrelated, the more we genuinely care for others and forgive them, the better we feel about ourselves and the easier our twin flame journey will get.

9   BEING INSPIRED

Phil evolves into letting go of “ho-hum” and instead, having a deep desire to be inspired and excited in what he does. This is shown by him taking up ice sculpting and playing the piano with feeling.

For most of us on the twin flame journey, “ho-hum” becomes less tolerable. We become more intuitive, creative, and learn to absolutely love our activities.

10   COMING TOGETHER

By taking time to become a person Phil could admire and love, he attracted others who admired and loved him too. Everyone at the dance thought highly of Phil and voiced their appreciation of him. When he stopped actively chasing Rita, he became a strong magnet of attraction.

When we push to get our twin flame physically near us, we don’t think our ability to love and be ourselves is important. Neglecting our inner work will not make our magnet strong enough to hold the relationship together for long!

10   THE BEGINNING

Phil wakes up with Rita in his arms, pinches her to see if it is real, and says, “Something is different. Anything different is good. But this could be real good.”

Finally getting your twin flame back in your arms is wonderful, but it could get real good!

 

Are You Ready to Make Your Magnet Strong?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset that you have about yourself and the world around you. You will finally feel you deserve your twin flame relationship on a steady basis. For more details.

Check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

Twin Flames: Advantages of the Internet

Have you found yourself glued to the Internet, always hunting down every little thing you can about your twin flame and the twin flame experience?

Here are Some Advantages of the Internet with Our Twin Flame Experience…

1   FEEL CONNECTED

Of course, the biggest advantage of the Internet is to feel connected to our twin flame when we are physically separated. Just by looking at their photos we can pick up or intensify that good feeling energy. Our twin flame’s social media accounts can also give us signs from the universe to verify our warm and fuzzy feelings.

2   LEARNING

The more we learn about the twin flame experience, the better we feel. Our convoluted journey starts making sense.

3   STILL RARE

Since actually finding our twin flame is still so rare, without the Internet, we probably would all be in therapy or a mental institution, thinking we are crazy.

4   GIVES US HOPE

Whether we are watching a twin flame psychic on YouTube with their latest prediction, reading about someone’s story from another part of the world, or seeing our twin flames latest comment, it helps us have faith.

5   INNER WORK

The Internet provides us a jumpstart to doing the necessary spiritual and personal growth that is needed for a happy outcome with our twin flame.

Thank God for the Internet!

Are You Ready to Go Further than the Internet with Your Spiritual and Personal Growth?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details

 

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

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