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Reasons the 3rd Dimension Mindset Settles for Less

How many times have you settled for something inferior or not what you really wanted?

I remember wanting a blue bike so bad I couldn’t see straight, and not really knowing why. Then for some reason, I settled for a red one.

Another time I forgot about the person I believed was my true heart’s desire because someone else came along who found me attractive.

 

Here’s Reasons Why the 3rd Dimension Mindset Settles for Second-rate…

When we…

  • Doubt that we know what we want or that it will be satisfying.
  • Get impatient and take the quick fix
  • Start people pleasing and let someone talk us out of what we want.
  • Feel we don’t deserve what we really want.
  • Believe it’s not possible or that we have no chance of succeeding.
  • Want to play it safe and stay in our comfort zone.

 

Did you notice, the reasons all involved FEAR?  The 3rd dimension is all about being afraid. FEAR that we don’t really know what we want or it won’t be that good. FEAR if we don’t grab what’s available, we will be left empty-handed. FEAR someone else knows better or that what we want is out of our league. FEAR that it’s not logical to have what we want or that having it will require us to be different than who we are.

When we settle because we are afraid, we get LESS. When we wait for what we really want, we get AMAZING.

 

If you need help not settling for the ho-hum, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 Did you Know Settling for Less is one of the Signs of Feeling Unworthy?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself to be able to finally feel worthy. For more details.

 

Also check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

The Question Twin Flames Want Answered the Most

Why do most of us hire psychics? To know when we are going to be with our twin flame, of course. But, even when we do get a time frame from a psychic reading, it never seems to be accurate.

Here’s the problem…

Psychics usually read the energy in the moment. For most people who have little desire to do personal/spiritual growth, and have ingrained ways of thinking, it’s easy for psychics to figure out their future.

Every thought we think has an effect. So, if we keep thinking the same thoughts, we will get the same effects in life. If we operate mainly in the 3rd dimension, that is especially true. It becomes real easy for psychics to predict.

But, for a twin flame, the energy changes often. You and your twin flame are mentally connected. Therefore, every thought you or your twin flame thinks changes the effects. That’s why there are times it feels like we are on an emotional roller coaster.

On top of the twists, turns, ups, and downs, it feels like we are constantly being prodded and pushed from God or a Higher Power into doing our inner work. This combination makes it very difficult for psychics to predict our future accurately.

I haven’t heard of any twin flames yet, including myself, who have gotten an accurate time frame about “when we will be with our twin flame.”

I don’t do psychics readings, but I can help you shorten your timeline of being with your twin flame. Here’s two ways…

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program explains how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome.

For more Details

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40-minute sessions over the phone (within the United States and Canada). For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact, Vickie Champion.

For more Details

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

How Worthy Do You Feel Quiz

Announcing a Worthy Quiz!

It’s easy to put feeling worthy on the back burner. Maybe you have used the excuse that you don’t want to be selfish or appear to be self-absorbed. Maybe you thought it’s better to always put others before yourself. Or you might think you don’t deserve to feel worthy.

But have you ever considered that a huge reason you are having such a less than great life is that you have put learning to love yourself on the back burner?

I’ve got a New Quiz on my website, How Worthy Do You Feel?  See how you score!

If you need help feeling worthy, check out my How to Finally Feel Worthy Self-Study Course.

 

Announcing a Feeling Worthy Self-Study Course!

How to Finally Feel Worthy!

Move Beyond the 3rd Dimension Mindset

In all the years I have been life coaching, I’ve noticed that the need to feel worthy and really love themselves has been at the core of everyone’s issues.

The ability to feel worthy and love ourselves impacts every aspect of our lives—our relationships, career, finances, health, achieving our dreams, and most of all, if we are happy.

If we made feeling worthy and loving ourselves a priority, we would be able to experience how wonderful our lives could be.

This self-study program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself to be able to finally feel worthy. Click here for more details. 

Also check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

 

Politics in the 3rd & 4th Dimensions

I decided to write this blog because I have been bouncing back and forth from the 3rd and the 4th dimension mindset myself about current politics. Once I get calmed down, I let something that happens stir the pot again and I’m at war between wanting to take sides and wanting peace.

Here’s How Each Dimension Perceives Politics…

3rd Dimension Mindset

The 3rd dimension is about having a set of rigid beliefs about what is right and what is wrong, and will practically do anything to uphold those beliefs.

The 3rd Dimension…

1   EXCLUDES-

There is a tendency for the 3rd dimension mindset to exclude others who are different than themselves in some way. It’s based on beliefs in polarities such as good/bad, right/wrong, Democrat/Republican, black/white, female/male, gay/straight, and rich/poor.

 

2   WANTS TO WIN-

We’ll cheat, lie, steal, and ironically, not even follow the laws that our government is supposed to uphold. Most of us haven’t picked up guns, yet. We just attack with our judging thoughts, thinking and talking about what’s wrong about the other side whenever we can. The 3rd dimension mindset will do anything to win!

 

3   BLAMES THE OTHER SIDE-

Everyone seems to be blaming someone else as we watch our country turn into a hot bed of fear and anger.  With the 3rd dimension mindset we are completely innocent and those we are blaming are totally guilty. It’s called passing the buck.

 

4   WANTS TO BE RESCUED-

It’s easy to depend on something or someone to take care of us and make us feel safe—government is one of those things. The 3rd dimension mindset tries to find security in things OUTSIDE of ourselves, such as strong leaders, money, guns, and laws.  With this need, there is also a tendency to take promises for face value.

 

5   CAPTIVATES US-

The 3rd dimension wants us to focus on what’s happening—who’s doing what, and what others think about it. It’s like following one shiny object after another, distracting us from our own lives and having peace of mind.

 

6   WANTS TO WAR-

In a nutshell, the 3rd dimension mindset is about being angry, fighting, being afraid of the other side, retaliation, and gaining power by limiting or punishing others.

 

4th Dimension Mindset

The 4rd dimension is about using our intuition or inner guide and paying attention to how it feels.

The 4th Dimension…

1   INCLUDES-

We are all the same, even though on the surface it appears we are not. Yes, this even includes Trump. Every piece in the puzzle is valuable in a different way and the puzzle cannot be complete without each piece doing their part.

 

2   FINDS SAFETY WITHIN-

Instead of looking for something OUTSIDE of ourselves, we find security from WITHIN. The 4th dimension depends on our intuition or inner guide to direct us from harm’s way.

 

3   TAKES RESPONSIBILITY-

Rather than blaming someone else’s actions for how we feel, we can take responsibility for how we perceive what’s happening and how it will affect us.  It’s called the buck stops here.

 

4   DOESN’T FOLLOW THE CROWD-

Instead of letting what’s happening captivate us, we take our own path inward. We pay attention to how it feels when we focus on what’s happening. If it makes us angrier, more afraid, or vengeful, to be “in the know,” we steer our focus toward what feelings we would rather have, such as peace of mind and kindness. The 4th dimension thinks how it feels is way more important than upholding rigid beliefs and being right.

 

4   WANTS PEACE-

More than war or winning, the 4th dimension wants peace and for everyone to love each other.

 

Don’t Kid Yourself!

If you take a side and think you are right and the other side is wrong, you’re in the 3rd dimension mindset.

 

Visit the entire 3rd, 4th and 5th dimension section and take the Quiz.

If you need help with moving up to the 4th dimension, contact Vickie Champion for a coaching and consulting session.

 

How the Twin Flame Experience is a Hero’s Journey

There are different versions of the Hero’s Journey, some simpler with less stages and some more complex with more stages. Probably the most popular one is from the mythologist Joseph Campbell. I’ve used a shorter, simpler version that most twin flames could easily identify with.

Here’s How the Twin Flame Experience is a Hero’s Journey…

1   THE CALLING

There comes a time in almost everyone’s life when we are asked to go out of our comfort zone and stretch beyond what we think is possible. Sometimes the calling begins with a tragic event or a dilemma we’re facing—an external pressure. Sometimes it starts with a feeling of discontent and uneasiness—something rising up from deep within.

With both beginnings, the calling is something pulling our lives in a completely different direction and causing us stress.  It is extremely difficult, if not impossible, as it is in a twin flame relationship, to ignore it or try to control it.

Somewhere inside, we know a bigger life awaits us where we become the hero in our own life.

 

2   REFUSAL OF THE CALL

We have the tendency to resist or fight against the call of being with our twin flame, trying desperately to return back to the way our life used to be—normal like others. We are scared to death that we are being pushed into sacrificing all the good things we have going for us, and that our deviation from the normal way of living will lead to our demise.

Along with watching our life being pulled in a completely different direction, there is an enormous amount of doubt about whether she/he is the right one and if this relationship is even of a twin flame origin. We don’t want to waste time and effort on the wrong person, do we?

The refusal can last for years until we stop doubting, resisting, and fighting the call to be with our object of affection, whether that person is our twin flame or not. All we have to do is jump in and make a commitment to the journey, wherever it takes us.

When we commit, and mean it, the fear subsides—and is replaced by a feeling of relief that we are now going in the right direction, no matter how abnormal or crazy it seems.

 

3   SUPERNATURAL AID

Once we commit to the journey, divine guidance appears. It can show up in all kinds of forms, often several at once, and change as the journey progresses. Sometimes we come across seasoned travelers or mentors who give us training, tools, or advice that will help on the twin flame journey. They show us how to use supernatural aids or 4th dimension mindset techniques.

We learn how to open up and pay attention to unusual phenomena such as signs from the universe, vivid dreams, telepathy, astro projection visits, and having increased psychic abilities.

Our mentors can go only so far with us on our journey. Eventually we have to face our fears alone. Sometimes our mentors are required to give us a swift kick in the behind to get us to move forward.

If we don’t try to jump in and take control of our journey, or recoil in fear, our twin flame journey gets easier with these aids. Then, our trust in our divine guidance, ourselves, and God or a Higher Power tends to grow with each step we take.

 

4   CROSSING THE THRESHOLDS

As the journey moves forward we are asked to begin leaving our old way of living and take the plunge into the unknown, where the rules and limits are not known (3rd dimension mindset).

An example could be moving to a different city, or even country to be closer to our twin flame. It could be breaking up with our current relationship.  Or it could be quitting our job.

Almost always it is closing a door before the next door opens—an act of faith. We have no idea of what will be involved, and how we will survive. No one can rescue us and we are on our own.

 

5   TEMPTATIONS

The ego knows we are beginning to release the 3rd dimension mindset and hangs on with all its might. It is so tempting to want to run from our fears, retreating to physical pleasures.

With every temptations we indulge in we realize the pleasures and comfort are no longer the gifts we once thought they were and are not satisfying at all. They were just illusions of safety and pleasure.

Temptations could be dating other people beside our twin flame, re-connecting with old friends we no longer have anything in common with, relapsing back into addictions or habits like people pleasing, accepting another job in the same industry because we are afraid of career change, or trying to go back home.

This is where the twin flame runner/chaser pattern comes into play. If one or both parties are tempted to go back to the 3rd dimension mindset of rules and limitations, the physical union cannot survive. The twin flames  will have to physically part to overcome the temptations.

We learn that relying on God or a Higher Power and using our supernatural aids can slay the dragons or temptations the ego conjures up—again, again, and again.

This can be an exciting part of the twin flame journey. Each victory over the ego, builds faith, enhances the feeling that nothing is impossible, and gives us momentary glimpses of a wonderful world, the 5th dimension.

 

6   BELLY OF THE WHALE

The journey keeps moving us inward to the most dangerous spot, to confront our greatest fear and inner demons head on. It might appear we have been swallowed up and eaten alive. But really, we have only allowed the death of the 3rd dimension ego-self and let the 5th dimension soul-self rise up and come into power.

We realize our greatest fear was only a smoke screen hiding what we always knew—that we have been unlimited and connected to our twin flame all along. There was nothing to fear after all!!!

 

7   THE REWARD

The reward is being free of fear and feeling at one with our twin flame—the life we always wanted. There is no need to feel inadequate or separate any longer.  We are at one, and able to align completely with God or a Higher Power in the 5th dimension.

 

8   THE REAPPEARANCE

After letting the ego’s 3rd dimension mindset die, we will often be called to share it with others in the ordinary world.  With our twin flame union, our combined light will be so strong that it will be extremely difficult for others not to shine their lights.

One of the purposes of a twin flame union is to be an example-that oneness and the 5th dimension mindset exists.

 

I can be a mentor for your twin flame journey and give you lots of supernatural aids. Here are two ways…

How to have a Happy Outcome with your Twin Flame Relationship 

Self Study Course

 The study program explains how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome.

For more Details

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40-minute sessions over the phone (within the United States and Canada). For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact, Vickie Champion.

For more Details

 

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

 

 

 

Solving Problems with the 3rd vs. 4th Dimension

Problems! We have them practically every day and sometimes several in a day. Once one gets resolved, another one pops up. Have you ever wondered why we have problems in the first place? There must be a reason.

Here’s how the 3rd vs. 4th dimension mindsets view problems…

3rd Dimension Mindset

If we are in the 3rd dimension mindset we have a tendency to stay in our comfort zone and avoid changes as much as possible.

So, problems are viewed as pesky things—irritations.  This mindset has the unbending belief that the sooner it’s over, the faster life can return as normal.

How the 3rd Dimension Solves Problems

This mindset solves problems the way they always do—probably like they have had a habit of doing for years.  They might avoid making a decision altogether, let others solve it for them, people please, or use past experiences.  As with all habits, in the back of their minds is the belief that as soon as this situation blows over, they can snuggle back into their comfort zone, thinking the problem is long gone.

But is it? If we look closely and think back, we find a pattern of problems recurring time and time again. It only seems to be a different problem because the people have changed, and the circumstances are slightly  different, but at the core it is the same theme.

“You can never solve a problem at the level it was created.”

Albert Einstein

That means if we have a habit of not wanting change in our lives, we will have a series of the same type of problems, deciding on the same type of solutions until we change our mindset and solve it differently.

 

4th Dimension Mindset

The 4th dimension mindset views problems as a welcomed change, knowing with every problem comes a solution that makes their life better than before.

“Do I want the problem, or do I want the answer?”

A Course in Miracles

That means we can choose which one we want: the core problem over and over, because we are afraid of change, or the answer that will solve the problem for good and give us something better.

How the 4th Dimension Solves Problems

This mindset solves problems by asking their inner guide or intuition, then welcoming any answer, especially if it is something they have never done previously and doesn’t even seem logical.

 

Visit the entire 3rd, 4th and 5th dimension section and take the Quiz.

Feel Worthy COURSE

This self-study program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself to be able to finally feel worthy. For more details.

Also check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

 

Why Would Twin Flames Be Reluctant to Use Psychics?

There are a lot of reasons why we wouldn’t want to use a psychic. Maybe we are just scared to try new things, or don’t believe psychics can read minds. Maybe you’re scared you’ll get hooked and call them every week to get the latest on your twin flame relationship. It may be that you’ve had a bad experience in the past and sworn off ever talking to one again.

But probably, the most common reason we’re reluctant is that we are scared they will tell us that she/he is not our twin flame, or/and that we won’t have a happy outcome.

I don’t do readings, but I can help you with having a happy outcome with your loved one, whether they are your twin flame or not.

Here’s how…

How to have a Happy Outcome with your Twin Flame Relationship

Course

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more Details.

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40 minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact, Vickie Champion. For more Details.

 

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

Feeling Trapped & the 3rd Dimension

Have you ever found yourself feeling trapped—like there was no way out? You know, when you feel paralyzed, stuck in a dark dungeon with no hope of finding the light.

There is probably no one who hasn’t felt that way at one time or another. It could have been with a situation such as a job, finances, family, a relationship, or any other circumstance we found ourselves in. Or it could be several things at once, as if we are imprisoned by our own life. Miserable feeling, huh?

 

Good News!

What causes this is only a 3rd dimension mindset. It’s not the situation at all. It’s only our mindset about the situation that causes us to feel paralyzed and doomed.

 

About the 3rd Dimension

The 3rd Dimension mindset is about trying to live by set rules, traditions, and obligations—any reason we have to limit what we can or can’t do.

Examples would be…

“I can’t leave my job… until I find another one.”

“I can’t leave my job… until I retire.”

“I need to stay married the rest of my life… even though both of us are absolutely miserable.”

“I can’t leave my spouse… it will hurt the kids.”

“I can’t go on a vacation… I don’t have enough money.”

“If I love my family… I will give them money when they ask for it.”

“I need a college education… to earn a good living.”

 

The Turning Point

There comes a time when those limiting rules, traditions, obligations are threatened by the desire to be free—free of being limited, free of the feeling of dying inside, and even free of the enormous fear that comes with wanting to be free.

 

Shocking to Know!

Feeling trapped is a good thing! It get’s us to the point where we are so tired of being restricted, we muster some courage to brush the fear aside and break free. We are finally willing to disobey our set rules, traditions, and obligations that are holding us down.

 

Visit the entire 3rd, 4th and 5th dimension section and take the Quiz.

If you need help with moving up to the 4th dimension mindset, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

How the Twin Flame Chaser’s Wait Can be Tolerable

Maybe you are in the beginning phases of being physically apart from your twin flame. Maybe you have been separated more than once. Maybe you have waited for months, or even years without contact with your twin flame.

It doesn’t matter! You have a choice right now! Are you going to make the rest of the wait a bad experience or tolerable?

Signs Your Wait is a Bad Experience…

When you have spells of…

  • Missing your twin flame terribly.
  • Feeling sad thinking about being apart.
  • Thinking you did something wrong in the relationship.
  • Blaming your twin for running.
  • Feeling like a failure.
  • Getting downright depressed.
  • Feeling sorry for yourself and wondering things like, “no one I know has this kind of heartache, why do I?”
  • Thinking “I wouldn’t wish this experience for anyone else.”

If you are one of those having a bad experience at least half of the time, you can do something about it. That doesn’t mean you reach out and try to contact your twin flame—yet again. It means you get into doing your inner work of learning how to unconditionally love.

When we begin using our inner guide, stop doubting ourselves, forgive the past, accept and appreciate things the way they are, have faith, and finally feel worthy of the same unconditional love, it makes the wait tolerable, if not satisfying.

“Satisfaction is moving in the direction of a desire.”

Abraham Hicks

If you need help making the wait tolerable you can…

Visit the entire Twin Flame section.

Or contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Or check out the Twin Flame Course.

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