Vickie Champion

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14 Reasons for Not Taking Time to Re-evaluate Your Life Now!

There is no doubt about it, the world is changing at a superfast pace. New ways of doing things are developing quickly, while things we could count on in the past are disappearing in front of our eyes.

It seems like a very good time to reassess your life since everything else is changing. However, there might be some reasons you are reluctant to not jump on the bandwagon.

Some Reasons for Not Re-evaluating your Life Now…

When You…

1   Still want things to go back to the way they used to be—back to “normal.”

2   Are afraid of making any changes, even for the better.

3   Have no desire to give up your numbing devices or stress relievers. This could be with food, pills, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, caffeine, impulse buying, keeping crazy busy, binge watching, texting, social media, or hundreds of other things.

4   Operate mostly on autopilot, not paying attention to your state of mind.

5   Refuse to listen to others or try new things.

6   Get upset when something does change.

7   Want to sit on the sidelines and watch others move ahead.

8   Are scared to death you will fail.

9   Don’t feel worthy of something better.

10   Are adamant about doing things the way you’ve always done them, even when things are not working any longer.

11   Feel you won’t get what you truly want, so why take time to consider it.

12   Don’t want to slow down and take more quiet time, even for a short time.

13   Have no desire to improve your ability to be aware of your intuition or follow it.

14   Want to hang onto how you define yourself, afraid you will lose yourself or your value. How you define yourself could be as a wife or husband, any job title, a millionaire, or dozens of other ways.

Almost all of us will probably have to re-evaluate our lives in some fashion during this enormous universal shift. When we ignore or prolong reassessing our life periodically, it almost always results in hasher and more drastic changes when they do happen.

Are You Ready to Start Re-evaluating Your Life?

This feel worthy self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself, your life, and the world around you. For more details.

Also, check out the quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help re-evaluating your life, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

What’s God’s Part in a Rapidly Changing World?

Ever since Covid-19 appeared, it seems time is flying by faster than ever. Every day there is something new with politics (of course), the economy, diseases, deaths, inflation, migration, housing, changing careers, or hundreds of other things.

What fascinates me is that hardly ever is God (Higher Power, intuition, Divine, Spirit, Holy Spirit, or any other term you want to call the higher source that can make sense of this) mentioned, let alone discussed at length.

How do people go through the stress of these rapid changes without believing in God or a Higher Power? I can’t. And if they do believe, why don’t they mention it?

Here’s What God or a Higher Power Does for Me…

God…

  • Gives me insights and guidance about anything I am curious or concerned with.
  • Never fails in getting me out of my doubt and fear, when I call for it.
  • Helps me choose love and get rid of my rigid beliefs about what is the right thing to do and what is the wrong thing to do.
  • Teaches me how to expand my gratitude and have lots more faith.
  • Makes this time in my life not so doom and gloom.
  • Helps me accept what’s happening, instead of letting me waste time trying to resist it.
  • Shows me how to truly forgive myself and others.
  • Helps me master new ways to connect with others—beyond what I can physically see and touch, or through spoken or writing words.
  • Comforts me when I need it.
  • Teaches me how to accept love like I never knew before.
  • Guides me to let go of trying to control what’s happening, and instead sit back and watch it unfold in a way that everyone will benefit from.

For many of us, this time has been the most stressful period in our lives. But it could also be the most enlightening and worthwhile experience we’ve ever had, like our own hero’s journey.

All you need to do is let God or a Higher Power be your guide through the twists, turns, ups and downs of this rapidly changing world.

Are you Ready to Increase Your Ability to be Aware of God, Higher Power, or Your Intuition?

Check out the How to Feel Worthy self-study course. It can help you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you, which allows your intuition to surface. For more details.

I have also just added intuition eBooks for three of the Myers-Briggs personality types.   

Or there are several blogs in the Intuition section on my website that could help.

8 Signs You Use Work to Build Your Identity or Self-Esteem

Are you one of the millions who have spent years, if not decades, trying to feel worthy and significant from your work life?

Here are Some Indications You Use Your Work to Build Your Identity or your Self-Esteem…

When you…

1   Won’t think of changing careers and starting all over.

2   Allow your income to make you feel better than others.

3   Worry about your reputation.

4   Get irritated when you are not productive at work.

5   Rely on your work to feel safe and secure, especially with your income and benefits or having seniority.

6   Feel empowered by your title, credentials, or work achievements.

7   Let work success, recognition, or fame go to your head.

8   Believe losing makes you a failure. In other words, you feel important only when you beat out the competition. This means you have to constantly keep winning to feel valuable.

Here’s the Problem

As long as your income stays the same or increases, you keep being promoted, you succeed at most tasks, and get some recognition for it, your identity and self-esteem won’t waver or fall apart. But, if circumstances change to any degree, you can find yourself not knowing who you are and having a deflated self-worth.

Did You Notice?

Most of these 8 signs involve trying to build your identity and self-worth from being better or superior to others in some way. Of course, this false idea of being better than others will collapse, sooner or later.

Are You Ready to Build Your Self-Esteem Another Way?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself, your relationships, and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself. For more details.

Also, check out the quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help re-evaluating your life, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

19 Signs You Need to Re-evaluate or Rethink Your Life

Lots of people are making changes in their lives, whether it’s with their career, job, finances, home, health, loved ones, or their priorities.  Here’s some signs you might want to rethink your life too.

When…

1   Things that used to satisfy you, don’t.

2   You haven’t grown or changed in some time.  Feeling stuck can bring out the worst in us, causing us to become someone we don’t even like, let alone admire.

3   Things feel off. Or maybe you have noticed a lot of red flags in certain areas of your life.

4   You feel guarded and hesitant to reveal the truth.

5   It’s getting more difficult to communicate with others, especially with your loved ones.

6   You find yourself losing interest. Most everything seems flat and boring.

7   There is an increasing gap between your work skills and what is required for the task. Artificial intelligence (AI) is quickly changing how we do our jobs.

8   You find yourself lashing out. This could be screaming, badmouthing, or just name calling. By the time you are calling yourself or others names, such as idiot, asshole, loser, or even fatty, you have done an enormous amount of “stinking thinking.”

9   More downtime or quiet time is very appealing.

10   You are reluctant to forgive and want to hold onto past hurts, whether it’s with yourself or others.

11   Feeling worthy and deserving of an amazing life is not a top priority.

12   You are using devices to numb your feelings more than ever before. This could be with food, pills, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, caffeine, impulse buying, keeping crazy busy, binge watching, texting, social media, or hundreds of other things.

13   You know you need to make changes in your life but are still afraid to get out of your comfort zone, even though your current situation is mediocre, at best.

14   You are unwilling to believe in a higher source (God, a Higher Power, your Guides, Source, Spirit, the Universe, Divine, or whatever term you want to call it).

15   Often you feel like you are a victim or have been unfairly treated.

16   You can’t get yourself excited about anything.

17   It’s been awhile since you were able to stop worrying about the future or had a good night sleep.

18   You are angry, slightly annoyed, irritated, resentful, or crabby several times a day. An “easy to overlook” indication that you are angry is if you think you have had a bad day.

19   You are unwilling to observe and change your mindset—your thoughts and feelings.

Of course, if you even identify with ONE of these you would benefit if you took time to reflect and reassess. And if you identify with SIX or more, you are probably experiencing the unpleasant effects of not re-evaluating your life and making those needed changes.

Are You Ready to Change How You Feel About Yourself?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself, your relationships, and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself. For more details.

Also, check out the quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help re-evaluating your life, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

Twin Flames: What Would Tempt You to Not Tell the Truth

Nowadays, it seems like not telling the truth has become almost normal and even expected, especially telling white lies or keeping some secrets.

Here’s Some Reasons You Might be Tempted to Not Tell the Truth to Your Twin Flame…

When You…

  • Want to avoid unnecessary conflict.
  • Are ashamed of the truth.
  • Think you can escape punishment.
  • Believe you can hurt other people and others can hurt you by telling the truth.
  • Want to follow what is accepted and customary to society.
  • Believe not telling the truth is kinder than telling the truth.
  • Want to strengthen your stories by exaggerating.
  • Have a deep desire to please your twin flame.
  • Want to avoid being criticized.

The Problem

Not telling your twin flame the truth is a clear sign you are not ready for a deep, unconditional loving relationship with yourself or your twin flame.

Are You Ready to Unconditionally Love Yourself and Your Twin Flame?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

 

 

7 Big Reasons Why Using Your Intuition is So Important Now

Have you noticed that ever since Covid-19 appeared, nothing seems to be the same? Most of us have been pushed, both internally and externally, out of our comfort zones. That’s why it’s so important to start relying on our intuition more than ever.

What is Intuition?

Intuition is the overall term for something that knows how to guide us out of any jam, or solve any problem, so that everyone wins in the long run. It also provides us peace of mind during the process.

Religious people might call intuition God’s guidance, God’s voice, or Holy Spirit.  Spiritual people might call it Universe, a Higher Power, Spirit, Guides, Divine, or inner guidance. While others might call it gut instincts, gut feelings, a knowing, an insight, or a hunch.

Don’t get hung up on the term. Whatever you want to call intuition is fine. Now, let’s discuss why it’s getting so crucial.

7 Big Reasons Why Using Your Intuition So Important Now…

Most of Us are Experiencing…

1   LESS OF SAFETY AND SECURITY 

During this time, the majority of us have kept our eyes locked on our screens soaking up the latest updates and everyone’s opinion, which constantly changes. Every day we are probably exposed to plenty of biased views, fabrications, and lots of downright lies. No wonder we don’t feel safe and secure! It’s getting harder to take things for face value or trust anything or anyone.

2   MORE ANGER AND STRESS IN OTHERS

Some of us are coming in contact daily with individuals who are angry or at the least, on edge with their underlying tones and outbursts.

3   LESS SATISFACTION 

Have you noticed what used to satisfy you before Covid-19 isn’t working as well? We seem to be more discontent with our careers, our employer, where we live, our income, our marriage, our life, and dozens of other things.

4   FEELING DISCONNECTED FROM OTHERS

The restrictions of Covid-19 began limiting our physical (seeing, hearing, touching) way of bonding with others. But now, we have taken it to a new level by dividing more than ever—with our rigid beliefs and our need to be right. Because of this it’s getting hard to feel that connected to even our co-workers, neighbors, and family.

5   LOTS OF SMALL ONGOING CHANGES

Everyday there seems to be something new that adds a little to our stress level. This could be another item out of stock or delivery being delayed, the new ways companies are doing business, or trying to adapt to new environments.

6   A CHANGE OF OUR WORK IDENTITY

Because of the acceleration of artificial intelligence and other factors shaking our industries and professions, Covid 19 has brought many of our individual identities to the surface for review.

There is no doubt about it, millions of us, especially in the US, have placed most of our identity on our work. Our identity was concentrated on trying to have a purpose and feel valuable through our work.

That is being tested right now! It’s very difficult to base our self-worth on what we do for work with the speed that industries are changing and the fear of being replaced constantly looming over us.

7   BURNING OUT

For most of us, Covid-19 helped us realize our lives were spinning out of control—trying to do more and more just to stay afloat.

It seems like the majority of us have become burned out, apathetic, and less passionate about anything. Maybe we’re sick of working our asses off to be successful, worn out from spending most of our time doing things we don’t enjoy, and tired of not having any quality time with our loved ones.

The Solution    

As you can see, it’s more important than ever to start relying on our intuition. Our intuition can help us feel safe and secure, find satisfaction, feel connected to others, adapt to the changes, find our true identity, and feel regenerated.

Are you Ready to Increase Your Ability to be Aware of Your Intuition?

Check out the  How to Feel Worthy self-study course. It can help you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you, which allows your intuition to surface. For more details.

I have also just added intuition eBooks for three of the Myers-Briggs personality types.   

Or there are several blogs in the Intuition section on my website that could help.

19 Signs You are Moving Up to the 4th Dimension Mindset

What’s so great about moving beyond the 3rd dimension mindset, which is full of doubt, fear, and worry? Every aspect of your entire life would probably improve tenfold. Yes, everything would be better, especially your ability to be happy.

Here are Some Signs You are Moving Up to the 4th Dimension Mindset…

When you find yourself…

  • Not taking sides.
  • Having no emotional attachment to a situation.
  • Not worrying about problems all day long.
  • Not wanting to talk to everyone about your problems.
  • Making decisions easier.
  • Not caring what others think.
  • Having plenty of energy.
  • Noticing everything falling into place.
  • Watching stress, anger, and resentment disappear.
  • Getting excited or enthusiastic.
  • In appreciation of the moment or having gratitude for what you have.
  • Feeling peaceful and relaxed.
  • Being yourself.
  • Feeling worthy and deserving.
  • Enjoying your life and having fun.
  • Smiling or laughing.
  • Feeling a shift in your mind.
  • Feeling capable of handling whatever happens.
  • Paying attention to your intuition on an ongoing basis.

Are You Ready to Move Beyond the 3rd Dimension Mindset?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself, your relationships, and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself. For more details.

Also, check out the quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help feeling worthy, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

Why Do INFJs Chase or Run From Their Twin Flame?

INFJs are connectivity seekers and are one of the few Myers-Briggs personality types who search and actually find their twin flames. Like so many twin flame relationships, INFJs often experience the runner/chaser pattern. Let’s take a look at some possible reasons INFJs would chase or run in their twin flame journey.

Why INFJs Would CHASE Their Twin Flame…

INFJs Tend to…

1   HAVE AN “ALL OR NOTHING ATTITUDE”-

INFJs usually get laser focused and driven towards what they are passionate about, which might cause them to pursue their twin flame.

2   PLAN AHEAD-

INFJs are usually future focused and strive to have structure and order with just about everything, including their relationships.

3   BE STUBBORN-

INFJs can often forecast the future, which might cause them to be determined, relentless, and often controlling. If their doubt of being wrong is strong, there is a tendency to want to take control of the whole process to make sure it happens, which brings on the need to chase.

 

Why INFJs Would RUN from Their Twin Flame…

INFJs Tend to…

1   DOUBT THEMSELVES-

Because INFJs are only 2% of the population, there might be a tendency to doubt themselves, as 98% of the population probably doesn’t understand their twin flame obsession. They could run while they get clarity.

2   BE CONVENTIONAL-

INFJs usually try to maintain social norms in order to create harmony. That means they might be tempted to put their own desires aside to appease their friends and loved ones, and run.

3   FEEL UNWORTHY OR NOT PERFECT ENOUGH-

INFJs can be perfectionists and are always working on improving themselves. Until they are perfect enough, they may feel undeserving of such an amazing relationship. To continue making themselves good enough, they may think they need to be alone.

Summing it Up

Of course, whether INFJs chase or run, it doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things. One is not better than the other. What really matters is to understand that there is a reason for everything, even in the runner/chaser pattern.

If you identify as an INFJ, take full advantage of the time apart from your twin flame! Really get into your inner work and learn how to optimize your intuition or inner guidance to the maximum. It will make the runner/chaser pattern bearable and shorten the timeline.

I have two products that help INFJs shorten their timeline:

How INFJs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you fine-tune your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

 

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome, even if you are in the runner/chaser pattern. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, you can benefit from this course no matter what part of the journey you are in. For more details.

Or if you need one-on-one help, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

How A Course in Miracles Relates to The Twin Flame Purpose

We can get lost in thinking the purpose of our relationship is to be together in the 3rd dimension (what we physically see, hear, and touch). We will do anything to try to make that happen, and we want it as soon as possible, of course! It’s easy to get caught up thinking our relationship is only about the two of us.

But the twin flame purpose is so much more than that. A Course in Miracles states,

“You have been called, together with your brother [or sister], to the most holy function this world contains. It is the only one that has no limits and reaches out to every broken fragment of the Sonship [everyone] with healing and uniting comfort.”

A Course in Miracles also says,

“The peace He [Holy Spirit] lay, deep within you and your brother [or sister], will quietly extend to every aspect of your life, surrounding you and your brother [or sister] with glowing happiness and the calm awareness of complete protection. And you will carry its message of love and safety and freedom to everyone who draws nigh unto your temple [relationship], where healing waits for him.”

And,

“Yet it [your relationship] is very useful to the Holy Spirit, Who has a special function here. It will become the happy dream through which He [Holy Spirit] can spread joy to thousands on thousands who believe that love is fear, not happiness.”

Our only part in all of this is to learn how to unconditionally love our twin flame so the relationship can be an example to others.

There are thousands who are waiting for us to show them how to unconditionally love someone. Don’t waste time by trying to question, deny, change, or ignore your part. It won’t make you happy or help others.

Are You Ready to Unconditionally Love Your Twin Flame?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

15 Affirmations of Someone Who Feels Unworthy

Affirmations have a reputation for being positive—thoughts we use to get ourselves pumped up to achieve our goals or to manifest our heart’s desires. But they are more than that!

Actually, affirmations are ANY thoughts, positive or negative, that we repeatedly think until we believe them. Whether we realize it or not, we are doing affirmations all the time. They are what make up our beliefs.

So, in the case of someone who feels unworthy, their affirmations are negative.

Here are 15 Affirmations of Someone Who Feels Unworthy…

  • I don’t deserve to feel worthy.
  • I am not as good as others.
  • Nothing ever seems to work out for me.
  • I’m not loving and lovable.
  • If I would just stop making mistakes, I could feel worthy.
  • I don’t accept myself exactly the way I am.
  • It’s selfish to put my ability to feel worthy as a priority.
  • If I tried to feel worthy, I might fail.
  • I need to change the way I look and/or behave to feel worthier.
  • I have a hard time forgiving myself.
  • I need to be productive to prove my worth.
  • If I felt worthy, I would be conceited and self-absorbed.
  • I know what I did or didn’t say, or did or didn’t do was
  • If I felt worthy, it wouldn’t make my life any better.
  • I need to feel needed to feel worthy.

For someone who feels unworthy, at least, some of these affirmations are constantly running through their heads. Because every thought we think has an effect, it progressively becomes harder and harder for someone to feel equal to others and deserve to have their heart’s desires.

Are You Ready to End Your Negative Thoughts and Start Feeling Worthier?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself, and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself. For more details.

Also, check out the quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help feeling worthy, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

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