My previous blog listed some really good reasons to use psychics, but there are some things you also need to watch out for.

Some Pitfalls of Using Psychics with your Relationship…

When you start…

• Relying on them to get you out of your anxiety attacks and fear. With a twin flame relationship, that could cost you a fortune. Instead of asking the psychic what’s going to happen to get you out of the fear, ask them for methods on how to relieve the fear yourself.

• Becoming dependent on the psychic’s guides or intuition. A major part of the twin flame journey is about learning to navigate by your own inner guidance. Don’t use psychics to delay your inner work.

• Counting on the psychic’s time frames. Concerning the future, especially with twin flame relationships, psychic predictions can be way off. I’m going to be so bold as to say, ignore their timeframes completely concerning your relationship. Otherwise, you might tend to put your inner work on hold while you are waiting.

• Taking what psychics say too seriously. Just because they try to use their psychic abilities, doesn’t mean they are right all the time. Sometimes psychics are influenced by what’s going on in their own lives. Sometimes they haven’t done their own inner work and talk about things to be afraid of. And bear in mind, some psychics don’t have any idea what having a twin flame connection is like.

• Feeling beaten down, like you are wrong for what you want and your feelings. Watch out if you feel depressed or hopeless at the end of the reading. Good psychics will probably tell you some things you don’t want to hear, but in a loving way with a positive spin so that you can understand it.

If any of these resonate with you, you might want to try backing off a bit and using your own inner guidance more. In order to have a lasting happy outcome with your twin flame you will have to do it anyway. Why not start now?

I don’t do psychic readings, but I do offer help with your twin flame relationship. Here are two ways…

How to have a Happy Outcome with your Twin Flame Relationship 

Course

It consists of over 9 different PDFs and an individual phone coaching session. The study program explains how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome.

For more Details

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40 minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact, Vickie Champion.

For more Details

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

Psychics are a great source of help with a twin flame relationship, especially at the beginning of your journey.

Psychics Can Help You…

• Not feel you are going crazy!
• Verify if your relationship is of a twin flame, soul mate or karmic origin.
• Get answers to your questions.
• Build your faith.
• Learn about yourself, your twin flame, and the relationship.
• Think in new ways.
• Understand the woo-woo and spiritual experiences. If the psychics are really good they usually won’t give you a by-the-book answer. They will wait until their guides give them an answer.
• Makes sense of this wild journey.

Whether you use psychics or not, they are a good resource for help with your relationship. I don’t offer readings, but here are two ways I can help  you…

How to have a Happy Outcome with your Twin Flame Relationship 

Course

It consists of over 9 different PDFs and an individual phone coaching session. The study program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome.

For more Details

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40 minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact, Vickie Champion.

For more Details

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

When I have a conversation with potential coaching clients, almost everyone’s main concern is, “when will I physically be with my twin flame?” The magnetic energy is so intense, sometimes it can feel unbearable. We automatically assume that once we are physically with our twin flame, it will become bearable.

Here’s the problem! Being physically near your twin flame before you are ready causes you to sabotage the relationship and the runner/chaser pattern.

Read this next part carefully! The reason the twin flame pull is so magnetic and intense is to keep us focused on our mission and most of all, willing to do our inner work and change our entire way of living in order to have our twin flame union.

So, the biggest reason to get help with your twin flame relationship is to…

Shorten the timeline!

If you roll up your sleeves, and do the inner work that is needed, a happy outcome with your twin flame occurs a whole lot sooner.

You can get help from almost anywhere, but here are two ways I can help you other than my blogs and videos…

How to have a Happy Outcome with your Twin Flame Relationship 

Course

This program explains in great depth the complex twin flame concepts and how to actually move past the challenges to have a happy outcome. For more Details

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40 minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). The client chooses the subject or subjects they want help with for each session. If you could use some help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. For more Details

It’s easy to get impatient waiting to be with your twin flame. Sometimes we want to run out and find the closest person. Sometimes we think we are crazy for wasting any more time on our twin flame relationship.

Here are Some Signs Not to Date Others Yet…

When you…

1   Get irritated with your twin flame for currently being with someone else, and you want to level the playing field or make her/him jealous. Even the slightest bit of retaliation won’t help you feel better long term.

2   Can’t really get excited about anyone else. The only one you can’t wait to be with is your twin flame.

3   No one is interested in you. You reach out on dating sites and no one responds back.

4   Find someone else that might work out, but the relationship peters out quickly. You might have one phone call that ends only after a few minutes, or get stood up on a date.

5   Are able to date someone else, but the relationship feels flat. Even though this person is likeable and you have someone to share things with, there is no spark in the relationship. It is not bad and not good, it feels like nothing.

6   Get lots of signs from the universe that pull your attention back to your twin flame. (For more details read Why do Twin Flames Get so Many Signs & Synchronicities?)

The Only Solution

If you have a twin flame, trying to find a substitute relationship, will not help you get much relief from the agony of waiting. Only doing your inner work will. Doing your inner work will give you immediate help with what is happening now, and also shorten the timeline for a happy outcome with your twin flame.

Everywhere you turn there are methods and people to help with doing your inner work. Just use your inner guidance and dig in to what feels right. I offer two ways other than my blogs and videos…

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 30-40 minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). For more Details  For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact, Vickie Champion.  

Have you ever wanted someone so bad, you can’t see straight? You can’t seem to get them out of your mind. At times, it’s all consuming to the point you can’t think of anything else.

This feeling probably happens to some degree with all romantic relationships. Although if we look deeper there is a distinct difference between wanting to be with your twin flame and leaning towards an obsessive relationship.

Here’s the Difference….

When you Want to be with a Twin Flame…

You HAVE NO IDEA WHY. It’s not explainable. No matter how hard you try, you can’t come up with much of anything to justify your desire. In fact, you probably have hundreds of reasons why not. And you tend to constantly question yourself, “Why them, of all people?”

When you are Leaning Towards an Obsessive Relationship…

You HAVE LOTS OF REASONS WHY you want to be with that person. There is a strong tendency to think you would be the picture perfect couple. In fact, you probably spend hours daydreaming about how great it will be when you are finally together.

Even knowing this distinction, sometimes it’s hard to tell what kind of relationship you are focusing on. To find out more differences read Obsessive vs Twin Flame Relationships-What’s the Difference?

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Are you having trouble finding that one person that you can live happily ever after with? Maybe you are going from one painful relationship to another year after year. Or are you the third wheel staying away from any relationship whatsoever?

Times are a-changing!

I think it’s getting more difficult to fit relationships into a box with rules and restrictions. You know the typical scenario, boy meets girl, they date, they get married, have children and live happily until one of them dies. Maybe you grew up with parents who were able to fit their relationship into a box and are trying to coax you in that direction. Maybe it’s been part of your culture or religion for centuries. Maybe you see some of your friends who can live in a traditional relationship, which makes you wonder, “What in the heck is wrong with me?”

Here’s the problem!

Most of us can’t make ourselves jump in the box even for a little while, no matter how hard we try. We are either gay, a successful professional female, a male who wants to stay home and take care of the kids, we come from divorced parents and can’t imagine tying the traditional knot with anyone, or we want to marry for love.  Do I need to go on? And even if we could make ourselves jump in the box, it’s getting extremely difficult to find a partner who wants to jump in the same restrictive box with us.

What’s this got to do with twin flames?

These kinds of relationships usually are not trying to control love with male and female role playing, having expectations, and traditions. Twin flame relationships focus on learning how to unconditionally love each other, having the freedom to be who they really are. They don’t depend on their partner to make them feel better about themselves.

The Conclusion

If you can’t get yourself to conform to a traditional relationship, you’re not supposed to. Change the focus of your relationships to unconditional love, being who you really are, and taking responsibility for your own happiness. You’ll find the new trend fits you.

Twin Flame Course

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.