Why Do INFJs Chase or Run From Their Twin Flame?

INFJs are connectivity seekers and are one of the few Myers-Briggs personality types who search and actually find their twin flames. Like so many twin flame relationships, INFJs often experience the runner/chaser pattern. Let’s take a look at some possible reasons INFJs would chase or run in their twin flame journey.

Why INFJs Would CHASE Their Twin Flame…

INFJs Tend to…

1 HAVE AN “ALL OR NOTHING ATTITUDE”-

INFJs usually get laser focused and driven towards what they are passionate about, which might cause them to pursue their twin flame.

2 PLAN AHEAD-

INFJs are usually future focused and strive to have structure and order with just about everything, including their relationships.

3 BE STUBBORN-

INFJs can often forecast the future, which might cause them to be determined, relentless, and often controlling. If their doubt of being wrong is strong, there is a tendency to want to take control of the whole process to make sure it happens, which brings on the need to chase.

Why INFJs Would RUN from Their Twin Flame…

INFJs Tend to…

1 DOUBT THEMSELVES-

Because INFJs are only 2% of the population, there might be a tendency to doubt themselves, as 98% of the population probably doesn’t understand their twin flame obsession. They could run while they get clarity.

2 BE CONVENTIONAL-

INFJs usually try to maintain social norms in order to create harmony. That means they might be tempted to put their own desires aside to appease their friends and loved ones, and run.

3 FEEL UNWORTHY OR NOT PERFECT ENOUGH-

INFJs can be perfectionists and are always working on improving themselves. Until they are perfect enough, they may feel undeserving of such an amazing relationship. To continue making themselves good enough, they may think they need to be alone.

Summing it Up

Of course, whether INFJs chase or run, it doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things. One is not better than the other. What really matters is to understand that there is a reason for everything, even in the runner/chaser pattern.

If you identify as an INFJ, take full advantage of the time apart from your twin flame! Really get into your inner work and learn how to optimize your intuition or inner guidance to the maximum. It will make the runner/chaser pattern bearable and shorten the timeline.

I have two products that help INFJs shorten their timeline:

How INFJs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you fine-tune your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome, even if you are in the runner/chaser pattern. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, you can benefit from this course no matter what part of the journey you are in. For more details.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session for a discounted price.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

Why INFJs and INFPs Tend to Find False Twin Flames

Are you one of those people that tend to be a little impatient when it comes to finding your true love? Maybe you hold onto someone you are attracted to because you think they are surely your twin flame.

It’s very common for INFJ and INFP Myers-Briggs personality types to find false twin flames (becoming obsessed with someone who you are in a karmic relationship with).

Here’s Some Reasons Why INFJs and INFPs Tend to Find False Twin Flames…

INFJs and INFPs usually…

Search for “the one,” even from an early age.
Dive deep and are passionate about anything or anyone that interests them.
Combine their curiosity and their craving of deep soul connections, which makes them extremely open for any relationship where they feel a connection.
Have lived many lifetimes to accumulate plenty of unfinished karmic relationships.
Are eager to do their spiritual inner work, which can attract unfinished karmic relationships (false twin flames) full of learning experiences and unloving patterns to break.

Important!

Whether your relationship is your actual twin flame or a false twin flame, your job is the same—to learn how to unconditionally love them and yourself. Or you can wait until the next lifetime and do it all over again.

Are You an INFJ or INFP Who is Ready to Get Help with Using Your Intuition More Often?

If you identify with the INFJ or INFP personality type, there is a self-study eBook that can help you increase the use of your intuition or inner guidance—without having to change who you are. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ or INFP Intuition Quizzes.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session for a discounted price.

8 Possible Reasons INFJ Personality Types Doubt Themselves

Do you identify as an INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type? Do you seem to have a problem with being uncertain or doubting yourself? Maybe you are afraid of making mistakes?

Here’s 8 Possible Reasons INFJ Personality Types Doubt Themselves…

INFJs…

1 ARE THE RAREST PERSONALITY TYPE-

Of the 16 personality types, INFJs are the rarest, so it might be easy to fall into doubting themselves. They operate differently than 98% of the population.

2 CAN FORECAST THE FUTURE-

INFJs usually have the uncanny ability to predict future events—and sometimes months or years before they actually occur. In fact, many INFJs can feel the energy of their twin flame way before knowing who they are. No wonder they question themselves.

3 ARE TELEPATHIC-

INFJs tend to pick up others’ unexpressed thoughts and feelings. That means they can often detect even the slightest dishonesty hidden under niceness or if something about someone doesn’t feel right. Until INFJs see actual evidence of it, they might doubt themselves.

4 WANT TO KEEP THE PEACE-

INFJs usually hate conflict. They will do practically anything to keep the peace, even throw themselves under the bus and give others the benefit of the doubt.

5 ARE HARD ON THEMSELVES-

INFJs tend to strive to be perfect, always looking for things they have done wrong or that need improving. Nothing is ever quite good enough. That can cause anyone to doubt themselves.

Then if an INFJ hasn’t forgiven themselves for their imperfections, the doubting increases. This in turn causes them to feel undeserving or unworthy.

6 NATURALLY ANALYZE EVERYTHING-

INFJs tend to reflect and look at things from all angles before they act. Nothing wrong with that! Doubting themselves appears when they get afraid of making a mistake or not being perfect.

7 EXPRESS THEIR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS-

INFJs usually need to share their thoughts and feelings, most often with a close friend or by writing. If the INFJ holds in those thoughts and feelings, they can easily spiral down into not only doubting themselves but to the point where they are in a deep depression.

8 ARE EXTREMELY INTUITIVE-

If an INFJ tries to be normal and dumbs down their intuitive ability, they are attempting to cut off their main life’s purpose. As with anyone, there is a tremendous amount of doubt in trying to be someone you are not meant to be.

Are You an INFJ Who is Ready to Hone Your Intuitive Ability?

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this simple eBook can help you use your intuition or inner guidance more often—without having to change who you are. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

Why Do INFJs Chase or Run From Their Twin Flame?

Why INFJs Would CHASE Their Twin Flame…

INFJs Tend to…

1 HAVE AN “ALL OR NOTHING ATTITUDE”-

INFJs usually get laser focused and driven towards what they are passionate about, which might cause them to pursue their twin flame.

2 PLAN AHEAD-

INFJs are usually future focused and strive to have structure and order with just about everything, including their relationships.

3 BE STUBBORN-

Why INFJs Would RUN from Their Twin Flame…

INFJs Tend to…

1 DOUBT THEMSELVES-

2 BE CONVENTIONAL-

INFJs usually try to maintain social norms in order to create harmony. That means they might be tempted to put their own desires aside to appease their friends and loved ones, and run.

3 FEEL UNWORTHY OR NOT PERFECT ENOUGH-

Summing it Up

I have two products that help INFJs shorten their timeline:

How INFJs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you fine-tune your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

You can also contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session for a discounted price.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

30 Signs INFJ Personality Types Need to Hone Their Intuition

Are you an INFJ who is just about always trying to improve your intuitive skills? Out of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types, INFJs are the ones that use their intuition or inner guidance the most. Yet, there is almost always a need to strengthen their intuitive ability, even if it’s just a little bit.

OBVIOUS Signs INFJs Need to Hone Their Intuition More…

When INFJs…

1 Argue, fight, and have disagreements with others.

2 Feel depressed.

3 Don’t feel connected to others.

4 Feel overwhelmed, pressured, or rushed.

5 Doubt themselves.

6 Are afraid to tell the truth.

7 Hold onto past hurts.

8 Feel inadequate or incapable of handling whatever happens.

9 Spend a lot of time putting out fires.

10 Let others hurt their feelings.

11 Don’t do things they are excited about or want to do.

12 Make sacrifices to resolve conflict or to please someone.

13 Have regrets.

14 Get confused.

15 Feel unworthy or not deserving to have what they want.

16 Avoid making decisions because they are afraid to make mistakes.

17 Run into obstacles or roadblocks.

18 Feel guilty or want others to feel guilty.

Not-so-Obvious Signs INFJs Need to Hone Their Intuition More…

When INFJs…

19 Think there is something wrong with getting lost in their thoughts.

20 Can’t tell if others are telling the truth.

21 Haven’t come across their twin flame or true love yet.

22 Take a side and will do anything to prove they are right.

23 Have spells of being ill.

24 Feel they would be happier if someone else spoke or acted differently.

25 See those closest to them having major problems or in difficult relationships.

26 Aren’t able to forecast the future, whether it’s their own, with others, or social trends.

27 Can’t usually tell if something feels right or feels wrong.

28 Don’t experience “aha” moments of clarity.

29 Haven’t figured out how to detach and relax enough to be able to receive intuitive insights.

30 Haven’t noticed what methods they receive intuitive insights most of the time.

Are You an INFJ Who is Ready to Hone Your Intuitive Ability?

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this simple eBook can help you utilize your intuition or inner guidance more often—without having to change who you are. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

Why INFJs Feel Their Twin Flame’s Presence Before Meeting

Do you feel really connected to someone you don’t know yet? Can you feel energy and have no idea who it is from? Maybe you can pick up random thoughts that you know are not yours. Perhaps you just know you have a twin flame somewhere out there.

Feeling the presence of their twin flame or true love is common for INFJ Myers-Briggs personality types.

Here’s Why INFJs Often Feel the Presence of Their Twin Flame Before They Meet…

INFJs tend to…

1 Believe wholeheartedly that everything is connected, especially souls.

2 Almost always be looking to see how the different pieces are joined together.

3 Have a built-in curiosity.

4 Be future focused. When they do center their attention on the past or the present, it’s usually to get clues about what will happen in the future.

5 Have an eerie ability to predict the future, even their own.

6 Crave relationship intimacy at the highest level humanly possible.

7 Need to have a purpose, and the twin flame union is a gigantic purpose. It keeps them motivated.

8 Require time alone to escalate their inner work before meeting.

To…

Feel worthy enough to handle soooo much unconditional love on a 24/7 basis.
Stop the battles between their head and their
End the self-doubt about the relationship.
Take full advantage of their intuitive skills.
Get committed to an unbelievable journey of getting rid of the 3rd dimension mindset (ego) to eventually move up to the 5th (oneness).

I have three products that help INFJs really dig into their inner work:

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, it doesn’t matter if you have met them or not. For more details.

How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

This program helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel deserving of an amazing mind-blowing relationship and be your true self. For more details.

How INFJs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this simple eBook can help you hone your intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

Why an INFJ and INFP Can be a Perfect Twin Flame Combination

There are a few Myers-Briggs personality type combinations that are highly unlikely for a twin flame relationship. But an INFJ with an INFP is a perfect combination.

Definition of Twin Flame Relationship

As you have probably noticed, there are lots of different definitions of a twin flame relationship. This blog is based on the definition from S.J. Morgan’s book Soul Mates and Twin Flames:

“The twin flame union is the strongest, deepest, and purest form of love that can be experienced by two entities within this universe. It requires both entities to release their egos in order to act only out of unconditional love.”

Why an INFJ with an INFP is a Perfect Combination to be in a Twin Flame Relationship at the…

Core Level

At the core level, INFJs and INFPs are wired the same. In other words, when it comes to the important stuff they are on a same page.

Both INFJs and INFPs tend to…

1 Believe everything is connected at some level.

2 Search for “the one.” They crave a mind-blowing, amazing soul connection that lasts for eternity.

3 Be extremely spiritual, highly sensitive, and usually trust and follow their intuition or inner guide.

4 Desire honest, authentic, and deep connections with others.

5 Be on a constant adventure of self-discovery and personal growth.

6 Have no desire to conform and be “normal,” which is a good fit for having an extremely rare twin flame relationship.

7 Be deep thinkers, full of creativity and ideas.

8 Have an intense laser-like focus with their passions.

9 Function a whole lot better when they have a cause or a purpose. The purpose of the twin flame relationship is to completely release the ego (conditional love) and come from unconditional love. There isn’t a higher purpose any person can ever achieve in a relationship.

Day-to-Day Level

On the day-to-day level (i.e., the small stuff), INFJs and INFPs are wired the opposite, which can easily cause havoc in the relationship.

Some Opposites Might Be…

1 INFJs tend to be the least dependent of all the personality types on external stimulation for intuitive insights. INFPs tend to receive intuitive insights from exploring external stimulation.

2 INFJs tend to be outer control freaks. They usually try to control everything in their environment in order to feel safe and secure. INFPs tend to be inner control freaks—trying to keep control of their inner thoughts and beliefs.

3 INFJs usually need to have structure and order. That means they plan and organize a lot. INFPs usually need to have lots of freedom and flexibility. That means INFPs are more spontaneous.

4 INFJs like to keep their environment neat and tidy. INFPs usually keep their environment messy and chaotic.

5 INFJs tend to talk through their issues with others. INFPs tend to keep their issues to themselves.

6 INFJs tend to be more analytical—thinking things through before taking action. INFPs tend to be more experimental, always trying different options.

7 INFJs are usually firm, direct, and make decisions easily. INFPs are usually more open-ended or take time considering every option before making a decision.

8 INFJs even tend to read more nonfiction, subjects like personal growth and spirituality. INFPs tend to read more fiction—stories that use lots of imagination.

To Sum it Up

At the core level, both the INFJ and the INFP intuitively feel that deep intense connection, which acts as a magnet to make them want to get rid of anything that stands in the way of their twin flame union.

The day-to-day opposite behaviors act as the accelerator that brings each person’s ego to the surface to be released.

The INFJ/INFP relationship combination has both an extremely strong magnet pulling them towards union and at the same time provides an accelerator pushing them out of the ego mindset.

This creates an ideal scenario for learning how to let go of conditional love and really learning how to unconditionally love another person.

Are You Ready to Learn How to Really Unconditionally Love?

This self-study program shows you how to take the heartache out of your twin flame relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or to improve your ability to sense your twin flame’s thoughts and emotions, check out my Twin Flame Telepathy eBook.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session for a discounted price.

Why INFJs Need to Do Inner Work Before Meeting Twin Flame

Maybe you are one of those INFJ Myers-Briggs personality types that has NOT physically met your twin flame yet. Maybe you feel their energy or just know they are out there somewhere. Whatever inner work you can get yourself to do will benefit you greatly.

Doing Inner Work Before Meeting Your Twin Flame Will Help…

Make the twin flame journey soooo much easier on you.
Shorten the timeline for a happy outcome.
Allow you to enjoy and appreciate your twin flame journey.
Make you feel more connected to your twin flame and that higher source (God, a Higher Power, Spirit, Divine, Universe, or any other term you want to call it).
Let that higher source know you are ready to experience the most rewarding relationship humanly possible.
Give you the tools to navigate the twists, turns, ups, and downs of the twin flame relationship. It also gives you the time to practice them.
Clear the path for you to optimize your intuition or inner guidance with everything in your life.
Teach you how to focus on what you want in the future and not what you don’t have in the present.
Reduce the doubt and fear about the relationship.
Show you how to let go of trying to control what actually happens and instead learn to control your thoughts and feelings about what happens.
Make you feel worthy and deserving of an amazing, mind-blowing relationship like this.
Keep you from getting impatient and trying to make the physical union happen sooner than it’s supposed to.
Hopefully eliminate the runner/chaser pattern so many twin flames experience.
Develop faith in the process of having a relationship that is based on unconditional love.
Connect the dots in your twin flame journey.
Create a sense of feeling safe and loved for your twin flame, whoever and wherever they are.

Doing inner work is a magnet that physically attracts your twin flame to you.

I have three products that help INFJs really dig into their inner work:

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

INFJ Intuition eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you hone your intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

Why INFJs Can Chase Their Twin Flame Before They Meet?

The INFJ personality type can start chasing or moving towards their twin flame way before they meet, or even before they know who they are. Before we look in depth at why they can chase their twin flame before they meet, there are two main things you need to know about INFJs.

What You Need to Know…

First, INFJs are one of the few of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types who actually looks for and finds their twin flame. Most personality types have no desire for an extremely deep, all-consuming, heartfelt relationship.

Secondly, INFJs are the most spiritual out of the 16 types. Intuitive insights come so natural to them, that many INFJs think they are weird and spend years trying to be “normal” like most of the population.

Why INFJs Can Chase Their Twin Flame Before They Meet…

INFJs tend to…

1 BE CONNECTIVITY SEEKERS-

INFJs usually believe everything is joined, which causes them to go out and search for evidence of connections. That, in itself, can start the chase or move them towards their twin flame.

2 FORECAST THE FUTURE-

INFJs often get a glimpse of things that will happen in the future, including their relationships.

3 HAVE A BUILT-IN CURIOSITY-

INFJs usually go after or move towards what they are interested in. They usually want to know absolutely everything about their twin flame.

4 BE HIGHLY SENSITIVE-

INFJs can easily pick up on their twin flame’s energy, emotions, and thoughts, giving them clues about their relationship.

5 GET A KNOWING-

INFJs usually operate from intuition or inner guidance, and can suddenly “know” things about their twin flame, such as their name or their whereabouts—as if pieces are falling into place and moving them towards their twin flame.

6 BE BOMBARDED WITH SIGNS-

INFJs can be bombarded with signs from the universe, giving them clues and keeping them focused on pursuing their twin flame connection.

I have two products that help INFJs move towards their twin flame:

How INFJs Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome, even if you are in the runner/chaser pattern. Because most inner work is done with perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, it doesn’t matter if you have met them yet or not. For more details.

If you need more help, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

INFJ Intuition QUIZ

Announcing a New Test for INFJ Personality Types

The Connectivity Seeker

We are in a time when maximizing the use of our intuition or inner guidance, would be very beneficial. If you identify as an INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type, you probably utilize your intuition often, but do you take full advantage of it? Are you trusting and following it no matter how unreasonable and absurd it seems?

Even though INFJs are more inclined to use their intuitive skills than any of the other Myers-Briggs personality types, there is almost always room to trust and follow it even more often.

Take this INFJ Intuition QUIZ to find out if you are taking full advantage of your intuition or inner guidance.

Also check out the INFJ blogs on my website and the INFJ Intuition eBook.

If you need help with learning to know for sure if it’s your intuition, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

27 Signs You Might Have an INFJ Personality Type

If you take the time to figure out which of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types you lean towards the most, it will give you clues to unlocking who you are and your preferences. It’s like having a basic compass that provides you a direction, leaving out each individual’s variations.

Of course, taking the actual MBTI is the best way to find out for sure what type you lean towards. But if you want to try to find out on your own, this might help you.

I divided this list into two separate parts, the main signs and the not-so-obvious signs. If you don’t identify with the main ones, you probably lean towards another personality type.

7 Main Signs That You Might Have an INFJ Personality Type…

INFJs tend to…

1 Believe everything is connected and are almost always looking to see how the pieces join together.

2 Naturally operate from intuition or inner guidance. When they try to disconnect from it, their whole lives go haywire.

3 Be deep thinkers and thrive on understanding complex ideas.

4 Desire emotional intimacy. They want to develop deep, authentic, one-on-one relationships.

5 Have an eerie ability to forecast the future—being able to foresee social trends or disasters before they happen.

6 Be wired with an “all or nothing” attitude. They are usually obsessed with things or they want nothing to do with them.

7 Function noticeably better when they have a cause, purpose, or point of focus.

20 Not-so-Obvious Signs You Might Have an INFJ Personality Type…

INFJs tend to…

1 Need plenty of alone time to reflect and recharge.

2 Have a built-in curiosity and seem to be always asking why.

3 Have a hard time enjoying the moment. They are mostly future oriented.

4 Be concerned with the “BIG picture,” trying to connect the dots.

4 Spend lots of time on reflection before they act.

5 Look and find their twin flame.

6 Have the power to motivate others, being the most persuasive of all the personality types.

7 Need order and structure with things in their external world. That means they plan and organize a lot.

8 Dislike small talk, but thoroughly enjoy having deep conversations with others.

9 Have a strong desire to progress, grow, and improve themselves.

10 Reflect on the past only to put the pieces together in hindsight and to get clues about what will happen in the future.

11 Hate conflict.

12 Be more attracted to the mental and spiritual than the material and concrete.

14 Have excellent listening skills.

15 Place a high value on honesty and telling the truth.

16 Have an intense laser-like focus with things they are passionate about.

17 Be perfectionists, causing them to not give themselves enough credit.

18 Doubt themselves.

19 Be great at sharing their insights by teaching, advising, counseling, or through their writing.

20 Be highly sensitive to other’s moods, emotions, and even their thoughts.

If you identify with all of the main signs and most of the not-so-obvious signs, you are probably an INFJ personality type. It’s estimated that less than 2% of the population are INFJs. No wonder so many feel that no one understands them.

Are You an INFJ Who is Ready to Optimize Your Intuition?

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this self-study eBook can help you hone your already natural intuition or inner guidance. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help fine-tuning your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

Are You an INFJ That Has NOT Met Your Twin Flame Yet?

Maybe you have searched the Internet high and low and have only gotten information on people who have physically met their twin flame. It’s frustrating to think you might be the only one who hasn’t seen, heard, or touched your true love in person.

Maybe you get impatient and clamp onto people you’re attracted to thinking you have finally met “the one” you have been feeling. But in no time, the spark fizzles out.

To feel or know about your twin flame before you meet is more common than you think for an INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type. INFJs have the eerie ability to forecast the future and a twin flame relationship is one of the things they can foresee. To help with the irritation of not being able to see your true love face to face yet, here’s evidence they are on the way.

22 Possible Signs Your Twin Flame is on Their Way…

When You…

Know what the term twin flame means.
Identify as an INFJ, one of the few personality types who seeks and actually finds their twin flames.
Can feel that special someone’s At first the energy might be barely noticeable, but usually if it’s your twin flame the energy will grow more intense.
Are curious about what this experience is and who or where it is coming from.
Have gone to psychics or past life regressionists trying to get answers.
Know you love this person who you have never met with all your heart.
Think you are crazy and a higher source (God, Spirit, a Higher Power, Divine, or any other term you want to call it) is playing a cruel trick on you.
Have been bombarded with signs from the universe and synchronicities (along with the feelings) urging you to have faith.
Become willing to do anything and everything to be with this person.
Get angry with yourself for wanting something so out of reach.
Are able to pick up this person’s thoughts and have telepathic conversations with them.
Consider your connection with this person as a priority.
Sometimes feel this person touching you without the use of their physical body.
Doubt yourself a lot.
All of a sudden, know certain things about this person or your relationship you didn’t before, as if pieces were falling into place.
Experience extreme mood changes with no visible reason. One minute you are happy, and a second later you are extremely depressed.
Go through spells of feeling inadequate or undeserving of a relationship with this person.
Find friends and family, as much as they try, don’t understand your attraction to someone you haven’t met.
Had dreams that gave you more clues to the relationship with this person.
Notice yourself becoming more spiritual and
Have a desire to take notes and write about your journey.
Want to be with this person more and more every step of the way.

I have three products that help INFJs shorten their meeting timeline, and hopefully alleviate the runner/chaser pattern most twin flames experience:

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

How INFJ Personality Types Can Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you optimize your already natural intuition or inner guidance— to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Or if you need more help fine-tuning your intuition or inner guidance, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

Are You an INFJ Looking for Your Twin Flame?

Are you on a quest to find “the one?” Do you find people that you think could be “the one” and then the spark fizzles out? Maybe you feel energy from “the one,” but haven’t physically met them yet?

If you identify with the INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type, seeking and finding your twin flame is a common occurrence.

Here’s Signs You Are Looking for Your Twin Flame…

When you…

Can’t settle for a mediocre or even a “normal” relationship for long. INFJs tend to have an “all or nothing” attitude when it comes to relationships.
Crave a deep connection with a romantic partner at all levels—physical, mental, and especially spiritual.
Want to experience the 5th dimension or feel one with your true love.
Were drawn to find out more about the term twin flame when you came across it.
Are willing to do any inner work that is required to attract and keep your twin flame. INFJ’s tend to be on a constant personal growth quest.
Quickly steer away from people who want to keep secrets and not tell the truth. INFJs tend to want honesty and authenticity—something that is required with a twin flame relationship.
Don’t want a bunch of friends that could possibly pull you away and distract you from looking for your twin flame.
Enjoy the process of looking for a needle in a haystack. INFJs tend to love complex projects like finding their twin flame. They seem to be always on the lookout for clues and signs from the universe that connect the dots.
Seem to be intuitive, even when you try to dumb it down or shut it off. Out of all the personality types, INFJs tend to be the ones that utilize their intuition or inner guidance the most.

Are You an INFJ who is Ready to Optimize Your Intuition to Find Your Twin Flame?

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you hone your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to attract and keep your twin flame relationship. For more details.

Also, check out the Quiz, the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help fine-tuning your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

INFJ Personality Types, Want to Optimize Your Intuition?

Have you ever wondered why some methods to tap into your intuition or inner guidance don’t give you the results others just rave about? Are there some intuitive methods you can’t get yourself motivated to do no matter how hard you try? Or maybe you struggle with being sure if the messages are coming from your intuition or not?

Out of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types, INFJs are supposed to be the most inclined to use their intuition or inner guidance. So, you would think it would be easy for INFJs to receive and be confident enough to always follow those intuitive messages.

In all the years I have been coaching, my emphasis has been on showing others how to trust their intuition or inner guide concerning their relationships, money issues, business decisions, and just about anything else.

Sometimes the methods I suggested worked like a charm. Sometimes the methods got some results for them, but it didn’t feel natural. And sometimes it was hard to get them to even try what I suggested.

There must be an easier, more efficient way to get others to tap into and trust their intuition. Recently, I got an “aha” moment about customizing how each personality type can utilize their intuitive skills to the fullest, which takes their ability to tap in to a new level!

Check out my new INFJ eBook!

How INFJ Personality Types Can Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide

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Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

Why People Pleasing is Hard on INFJ Personality Types

One of the common issues INFJ Myers-Briggs personality types can face is falling into the habit of people pleasing. This can be especially difficult for INFJs.

Here’s Some Reasons Why the Need to Please Can Be Tough on INFJs…

INFJs…

1 ARE INTROVERTED-

People pleasing almost always involves physically doing something for somebody to please them. Many times that consists of some kind of social interaction, whether it’s going to diner, running errands, attending a party, or going to a football game. INFJs can easily get overwhelmed by external stimuli.

2 LIKE A SLOWER-PACED LIFESTYLE-

The need to please usually makes demands on the pleaser’s time—causing them to move at a faster pace in order to do more things. Without slowing down for a spell to get their second wind, INFJs tend to crash.

3 TEND TO BE “ALL OR NOTHING”-

Whatever INFJs put their minds to do, they go overboard (with a great deal of thought) and do it the best they possibly can, or they don’t do it at all. There is usually no in-between. So, when INFJs people please, it can easily go beyond the simple habit of saying YES, to doing it perfectly. No wonder it’s soooo difficult for an INFJ to break.

4 ARE DEEP SEA DIVERS-

INFJs dive as deep as possible into a different world of the 4th dimension (nonphysical thoughts and feelings). They are idea people who are intense, focused, and highly perceptive.

When INFJs people please it often prevents them from diving deep. It keeps them on the surface, distracted by what is happening in their day-to-day life in the 3rd dimension (what they physically see, hear, touch, taste, and smell). Too much people pleasing can cause any INFJ to feel detached, like a fish out of water.

5 ARE HIGHLY SENSITIVE-

The habit of pleasing others is a substitute for using inner guidance or intuition. INFJs have the eerie knack of sensing if something doesn’t feel right. But, instead of following their inner guide or intuition on what to do about it, people pleasers react by being nice.

WOW, is that hard to do for an INFJ! Not only can they sense things coming from a mile away, they can easily tap into that higher source and get the answers to any situation. INFJs can “just know” things, and often experience “hunches,” “aha” moments, or sudden “flashes” of insight. Blocking that out makes an INFJ’s life extremely difficult with very little, if any, satisfying results.

6 HAVE PLENTY OF SELF-DOUBT-

Maybe from all those unmet high expectations. The need to please others appears when INFJs feel they are not good enough and others are more worthy of their efforts.

Enough Reasons?

Are these six reasons enough for you to make a commitment to start becoming the person you were meant to be?

If that’s not enough, take time to notice that it makes you feel second-rate and kind of lousy every time you do it.

No one can please others at their expense and benefit anyone.

I have two products that help INFJs end their habit of needing to please others:

How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself. For more details.

How INFJ Personality Types Can Use Their Intuition or Inner Guide eBook

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this eBook can help you optimize your already natural intuition or inner guidance—to the point your habit of people pleasing disappears. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

How to Feel Worthy Self-Study Course

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself. For more details.

If you need more help, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

Why INFJ Personality Types Have a Hard Time with Romantic Relationships

Are you an INFJ Myers-Briggs personality types who is having a difficult time with romantic relationships? Do your relationships become ho-hum after a few years, or even a few months? Maybe you have given up because you want an amazing relationship or nothing at all. These are all common occurrences for INFJs.

Why are Romantic Relationships so Hard for INFJs?

INFJs…

1 SET THE BAR EXTREMELY HIGH–

INFJs are usually looking for “the one.” INFJs are one of the personality types who seek and often find their twin flame. They crave the deepest connection they can have with one person at all levels—physical, mental and especially spiritual.

That narrows the field. Most people want a normal romantic relationship, not something that is miraculous and awe-inspiring for eternity.

2 ARE CONTROLLING-

INFJs tend to spend a lot of their time thinking about what they want in a relationship. If they are mostly thinking in the 3rd dimension (what they want to happen—things they can see, hear, touch, taste and smell) then it is extremely hard for anyone to live up to their expectations and behave like the INFJ wants them to.

But, once the INFJ learns the only way to have an amazing relationship is to think at a higher level in the 4th dimension (related to our thoughts and feelings). By focusing on the feelings they want to experience, instead of how they want it to play out, then relationships substantially improve.

3 ARE HIGHLY INTUITIVE-

INFJs are wired to function from their intuition or inner guidance. When they stray away from that by judging, or trying to control their partner’s behaviors, it makes it hard on their relationships.

4 ARE ALWAYS ON A QUEST-

INFJs tend to be on a never-ending spiritual and personal growth quest. If their partner doesn’t have that same desire, it can put a strain on having a long lasting, deep connection with them.

5 TRY TO AVOID CONFLICT-

INFJs tend to do everything and anything to avoid relationship conflict, even resorting to people pleasing. Avoiding can alleviate the immediate conflict, but usually requires INFJs to go against their intuition or inner guidance, which causes them enormous inner conflict. In the long run, it doesn’t make the relationship easier at all.

6 DOUBT THEMSELVES-

INFJs tend to doubt themselves and their decisions. Maybe it’s because they are trying so hard to be perfect. When they fail to live up to their expectations, INFJs have a tendency to feel unworthy and try to sabotage the relationship.

7 HAVE AN ALL OR NOTHING ATTITUDE-

It’s a common occurrence for an INFJ to spend months or years without a romantic relationship. They usually want to find or be with their twin flame or no one at all. Why bother if it’s going to be mediocre and NOT the deepest connection humanly possible?

Summing it Up

When we look at these 7 reasons why INFJs have a difficult time with romantic relationships, at the core of each one is usually not using their intuition or inner guidance to its fullest capacity.

Are You an INFJ who is Ready to Use Your Intuition or Inner Guidance More?

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this self-study eBook can help you use your intuition or inner guidance more often—without having to change who you are. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

Why INFJ Personality Types People Please

Probably everyone has gone overboard to please someone at one time or another. But when the INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type has a habit of needing to please, it is exceptionally hard on them. Yet, it’s a common issue to overcome for INFJs. Here are reasons INFJ personality types would fall into the need to please others.

Why INFJs Would People Please…

When they…

Try to fit in. INFJs are the rarest of the 16 personality types. So, some might feel they need to please others to be accepted.
Want to avoid conflicts and even minor INFJs are sensitive and have the ability to telepathically pick up others’ thoughts and feelings. Bending over backwards and being super nice often calms potential flare ups.
Doubt The combination of overthinking and the knack of seeing all sides of a situation can make INFJs second-guess themselves. Instead of taking time to listen to their inner guide or intuition, they could easily fall into the default of people pleasing.
Believe saying NO is selfish. INFJs usually have a value system concerned with the well-being of people. But sometimes they forget they are people too and indulge others at their expense.
Don’t feel good enough and not as deserving as others. To say INFJs are tough on themselves is an understatement. They have high standards for themselves and when they feel they have fallen short, INFJs might think they need to do something to prove their worth.

Are You an INFJ who is Ready to Use Your Intuition or Inner Guidance More?

If you identify with the INFJ personality type, this self-study eBook can help you use your intuition or inner guidance more often—without having to change who you are. For more details.

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

21 Things That Can Cause INFJs to Feel Exhausted or Drained

INFJ Myers-Briggs personality types are very sensitive to the energy of others and their environment. This makes certain situations depleting and sometimes extremely difficult for an INFJ.

Here’s a List of Some of the Things That Cause INFJs to Feel Exhausted or Drained…

Someone wanting their constant attention.
Making small talk, such as discussing the weather, what they had for lunch, or what they are going to do today. Essentially conversations from the head, not the heart deplete INFJs.
Environmental distractions, such as loud noises, strong smells, or scratchy fabrics. Of course, the more intense the distraction and longer it lasts, the more taxing.
Social events, especially when they involve being in large groups or around negative people.
Being criticized for not being able to get out of their head, obsessing, or thinking so much.
Not having a sanctuary or a safe space of their own.
Being stretched too thin or having back-to-back obligations.
Having to make decisions before they have time to think it over. INFJs don’t do well with acting before they think.
When their physical world (what we see, hear, smell, and touch) is unstable, like not having enough money, an ongoing problem, or a loved one’s illness.
Relationship conflict or misunderstandings, especially if they have no closure.
Being indecisive. This goes back to the two previous points. INFJs need stability and closure to stop feeling depleted.
Being around negative people for any length of time or watching the news can be very draining.
INFJs are organizers. So, it would make sense that any kind of disorganization would mess with their minds.
Trying to dismiss how they feel. To an INFJ, ignoring what comes from the heart is cutting off their energy source.
Not having big blocks of time on their own with no interruptions.
Dishonesty. This can mean others not telling the truth, or denying their own truth to themselves.
Not talking to others about meaningful subjects. It’s often difficult for INFJs to fully understand their own thoughts and feelings without the input of others. Many of my coaching clients and friends are INFJs.
Soaking up other’s emotional storms. It’s easy for INFJs to feel others trauma or crisis, and become just as stressed.
Trying to do things without passion. In other words, trying to settle for mediocre. INFJs are “all or nothing” types.
Denying their intuition or inner guide. Recognizing signs from the universe, getting “aha” moment’s, and having sudden insights or “flashes” energize INFJs.
Judging or doubting themselves. Because INFJs often sense things before they see evidence of them, they can get carried away in self-doubt, even to the point they feel like an undeserving or unworthy person.

Are You an INFJ who is Ready to Use Your Intuition or Inner Guidance More?

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

INFJs: 9 Reasons Meaningful Conversations Are Important

INFJ Myers-Briggs personality types love to get lost in their own thoughts and do well with very little social interaction. But there is one thing they don’t do well with—not having heart-to-heart discussions. Below are some reasons why connecting with others at a deep level is significant for the well-being of INFJs.

Meaningful Conversations help INFJs…

1 FEEL CONNECTED TO OTHERS-

Shallow and menial conversations of everyday life can confuse and frustrate INFJs, making them feel disconnected. But, connecting with others at a deep level does just the opposite.

2 SHARE WITH OTHERS-

INFJs have a strong desire to teach, advise, and instruct others. Usually when INFJs speak—people listen.

3 GET CONFIRMATION-

INFJs have a tendency to be tough on themselves and have lots of self-doubt. They often find support in talking to other people they trust or respect.

4 FIND PIECES TO PUZZLES-

Often deep conversations add missing pieces to INFJ’s theories to help them see the bigger picture. They can often experience “aha” moments and get hunches during discussions.

5 KNOW OTHERS-

INFJs have a strong desire to know others at the deepest and sincerest level possible. The results are therapy-like conversations.

6 SEE EVIDENCE-

INFJs are highly intuitive and often can know things before they happen. Heart-to-heart talks can reveal proof of their insights. This helps them to stop second-guessing themselves and build trust in their inner guide.

7 AVOID INSOLATION DISEASE –

Even though INFJs can be hermit-like, they need social interactions to stay fulfilled. Because they thrive on deep connections, too much time alone can leave them feeling fearful, lost, and depressed.

8 LEARN-

INFJs have a drive to progress, grow, and better themselves. They need to take on new challenges to their thinking regularly, and meaningful conversations are part of that.

9 COME ALIVE-

Let’s face it, finding connections and having deep relationships mean everything to an INFJ. Without them, they tend to lose their life’s purpose and feel unworthy.

Are You an INFJ who is Ready to Use Your Intuition or Inner Guidance More?

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

If you need more help using your intuition or inner guide, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.

Why A Course in Miracles Can Help INFJ Personality Types

I recently came across a book on Myers-Briggs Personality Types where the author suggested that Jesus might have been an INFJ. When I read the word Jesus, I got a mini “aha.” I knew it was something I needed to consider and that it was possibly another piece to connect in my own enlightenment journey.

I am an INFJ, and for over 30 years, I have been passionate about A Course of Miracles (ACIM), which was channeled from Jesus.

Here’s Why I Think “A Course in Miracles” Can Help INFJ Personality Types…

INFJs…

1 Think a Lot- ACIM is a course in mind-training. It’s perfect for someone who spends so much time in thought.

2 Are Prone to Analyze and Play Devil’s Advocate- ACIM takes one concept, “all there is, is love,” and approaches it from 100s of different angles.

3 Get Energy in Solitude- ACIM is a self-study course that offers that much needed time alone for reflection and gives us plenty of “ahas” with it.

4 Need a Cause- There probably isn’t a cause much higher than getting rid of the ego and learning how to be Jesus-like.

5 Are Eager to Do Their Inner Work- ACIM provides plenty of that. On top of the 365 workbook lessons, there are 100s of concepts to help us retrain our thoughts and perceptions about ourselves, others, God, and the world around us. The best part is observing ourselves changing as we implement the concepts—letting go of our fears and accepting the love.

6 Want to Have Deep, Meaningful Relationships- ACIM provides a mindset to take every relationship to the highest level possible, to love without any conditions.

7 Are Called “the Counselors” and are Fond of Teaching, Advising, and Guiding- There are several places throughout ACIM that suggest the idea of teaching. It even has a section called “Manual for Teachers.”

If you are one of the few INFJs that haven’t heard of A Course in Miracles, you might want to check it out.

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Are You an INFJ who is Ready to Use Your Intuition or Inner Guidance More?

Also, check out the INFJ Personality Type section on my website or the INFJ Intuition QUIZ.

Do Most Twin Flames Have an INFJ or an INFP Personality?

I have known I’ve had an INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type, but never thought about the connection between personality types and twin flames until recently. When I asked my twin flame coaching clients, most were INFJ personalities. So, I started digging deep into the personality types.

I’ve added the INFP personality because they share the same traits discussed here.

Here’s Some of the Ways INFJs or INFPs and Twin Flames Correlate…

INFJS and INFPs…

1 ARE LOOKING FOR THEIR SOUL MATES-

INFJs and INFPs are searching for “the one.” They crave a mind-blowing, amazing soul connection that lasts for eternity. There is a deep desire for a strong connection at every possible level—spiritual, mental, and physical.

2 ARE EAGER TO DO THE INNER WORK-

INFJs and INFPs are used to going inward to get their guidance. In fact, INFJs are known for being the most intuitive of the 16 personality types. Both personality types have the ability to interpret and manage the high highs and the low lows that come with a twin flame relationship.

3 HAVE AN “ALL OR NOTHING” PERSONALITY–

INFJs and INFPs are extremely focused and driven. They dive into whatever they are interested in and dive deep—to the point others may think they are obsessed and need therapy. Twin flame relationships require that depth of passion.

4 ARE HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE-

INFJs and INFPs have incredible telepathic abilities built in, which is extremely helpful in order to have a happy outcome in a twin flame relationship. Both personality types can still feel connected to their twin flame despite the distance between them.

Their sensitivity also makes it easy to detect even the slightest changes, thoughts, and feelings from their twin flame sometimes.

“No matter if we’re already in a committed relationship or not, INFJs and INFPs can end up feeling nerve-wracked, baffled, and in constant anguish over what seems to other people to be nothing more than a simple crush.”

From The INFJ Revolution: Reclaim Your Power, Live Your Purpose, Heal the World

by Lauren Sapala

4 NEED TO HAVE A CAUSE-

INFJs and INFPs are here to heal. That falls in line with the purpose of the twin flame relationship, which is to release the ego or conditional love completely and come from unconditional love. There isn’t a higher cause any person can ever achieve in a relationship.

5 ARE NONCONFORMISTS-

INFJs and INFPs have a strong desire to be independent from others and have no desire to be normal, which is a good fit for having an extremely rare twin flame relationship.

6 AVOID CONFLICT-

INFJs and INFPs have a tendency to avoid conflict at all costs. As a way to protect themselves, they retreat, withdraw, and then avoid. That can explain the runner pattern in twin flame relationships. When that happens, both personality types can find refuge in perfectionism, workaholism, and other addictions.

IN CONCLUSION

These six things make a good case that twin flames can easily have INFJ and INFP personalities. Of course, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a twin flame if you have any of the other 14 personalities. Although if you did have INFJ or INFP personality, it might make your twin flame journey easier.

Are You Ready to Dive Deep into Your Inner Work?

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