The answer to whether twin flames have children together lies in your definition of a twin flame relationship. One definition is “mostly normal” with a strong attraction for each other. The other definition is “not normal” with an intense, all-consuming attraction that never ends.

“Mostly Normal” Definition of a Twin Flame Relationship

With this version, you can have a strong attraction for each other, like you were meant to be together in this lifetime. You might even have a lot of the twin flame signs, such as experiencing that deep love everyone talks about, recalling past lives together, and becoming aware that you are telepathically connected. But as the months or years pass, that strong attraction you once had starts to diminish and may even fade away.

There is also a tendency to want to set up house, marry, and have children, just like any other “normal” relationship. With this definition, the answer is YES, you are likely to have children together—mainly because that’s what you desire.

“Not Normal” Definition of a Twin Flame Relationship

The “not normal” definition of a twin flame relationship is an extremely intense attraction that is ongoing, whether you are physically with them or not. That person is on your mind day in day out, accompanied with a drive to grow closer and closer until you are eternally “one.”

The relationship is far from  “normal” with all the ups, downs, twists, and turns involved in releasing the ego or 3rd dimension mindset. It takes a lot of inner work!

With this type of relationship, it seems that children (especially under 12) would get the raw end of the deal having parents preoccupied with each other. So, the answer is NO, you are not likely to have children together. The twin flame journey is hard enough without feeling guilty for not paying attention to your children.

Are You Ready to Start Your Twin Flame Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

There is so much help available, you may be overwhelmed about where to start. Maybe you are afraid you’ll make a mistake? Or that you will be told something that you don’t want to hear.

Here are Some Things You Need to Know About Finding Help….

1   We Will be Intuitively Directed in the Right Direction-

Once we get serious about doing our inner work, that higher source (God, a Higher Power, Inner Guide, Universe, Spirit, Source, Divine, or any other way you want to identify it) automatically helps us find help.

2   Help Comes from Anyone and Anything in Hundreds of Different Ways-

Don’t get locked into thinking help can only come from the experts. A common way to get help is through signs from the universe, which are external messages that can give us validations, encouragements, and indications we are in the flow. Or we can get obstacles that tell us to change something, or to move on.

3   None of the Experts Know all the Answers all the Time-

The experts are guided to help us find our own answers and to trust our own inner guide or intuition, which is our inner work’s ultimate goal anyway. Along the journey, we will attract those who can help us the most at the level we are at.

4   Everything Helps-

Whether we accept it or not, everything is working towards union and a happy outcome with our relationship, even when it appears to be working against us.

5   Making a Commitment to Do Our Inner Work Changes Everything-

We have a tendency to exaggerate how difficult and complicated inner work really is. All we have to do is get serious about it. Once we finally stop being flakey, the painful part of our twin flame journey will start transforming before our eyes.

Are You Ready to Start Your Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

Can you identify with the following scenario? I love her/him. I hate loving her/him. I hate my love for her/him. I really love her/him. I loathe her/him. I really want to be with her/him. I don’t want to be with her/him. I love this connection. I hate this connection. I can’t wait to be with her/him. I’m so excited! I wish my life would go back to the way it was before I met her/him. Now, nothing seems complete without her/him.

Found Your Twin Flame?

If you identify with this scenario, having an internal battle is a good sign you have found your twin flame.

What Causes the Internal Battle?

What’s really happening is that your head is in a knockout fight with your heart. Your twin flame is forcing you out of your comfort zone—probably kicking and screaming, hanging on with all your might, just to avoid changing.

No matter how much you want your life to be like before, want to control who you fall in love with, want to control your own and your twin flame’s behaviors, it just extends the internal battle.

Only Choice

Your heart will eventually win—no matter how many months, years, decades, or lifetimes you fight it.

Are You Ready to End the Internal Battle With Your Twin Flame?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more details.

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

You can also contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session. 

If you spend any time on the Internet, especially reading the discussion groups, there are a lot of twin flames that never seem to have a happy ending.

Here’s Some Reasons Some Do Not Have a Happy Outcome with their Twin Flame Relationship…

When we…

1   Are NOT Even in a Twin Flame Relationship-

Many times, the prolonged intense desire to do anything to be with our twin flame is just not there. Other types of relationships, such as karmic or obsessive, can often fool us into thinking we have met our twin flame. But, with those types our desire is not as strong and tends to fade over time.

2   Are NOT Willing to Give up Numbing Devices and Addictions-

Because people in twin flame relationships tend to be sensitive to energy or empathic, we have used numbing devices to completely stop us from feeling, or at the least, help dull feeling. Our numbing devices don’t have to be alcohol, drugs, pills, or cigarettes, or food. They can be more subtle, such as busyness, caffeine, excessive exercising, binge watching, people pleasing, over working, or anything we do to diminish feeling.

We think our numbing devices are selective and only relieve stress and bad feelings, but they stop or desensitize all feeling. So, there is no way we can have a happy outcome with our twin flame and not be willing to feel it.

3   Feel Unworthy-

No matter what occurs, we will try to sabotage it if we don’t think we are worthy or deserving enough to have an amazing unconditional loving relationship.

An indication we might feel unworthy is if we haven’t forgiven ourselves for something we thought we did wrong in the past. That guilt causes us to want to keep punishing ourselves for it, and our twin flame relationship is a good way to do it.

4   Have NO Desire to Become Spiritual or Help Mankind-

If we don’t want to stretch ourselves and try all sorts of spiritual practices just to feel a deeper connection with our twin flame, we probably have not found our twin flame yet. Believing in something greater—beyond what we physically see, hear, and touch—and relying on it is key ingredient for a happy outcome.

5   Think We Need to Improve Ourselves or our Situation First-

We might want to wait or delay a happy outcome until things change. There could be a desire to improve our appearance, behaviors, or personality traits, which is only a way to sabotage the relationship because we feel unworthy (see #3).

Or we want to take control of the situation until we have more money, the kids grow up, or we get a divorce. We would rather be in charge than have faith in a happy outcome for everyone.

6   Define a Happy Outcome as a “Normal” Relationship like Everyone Else’s-

A happy outcome is not about settling down in our comfort zones or having our picture-perfect lifestyle with a mate that strives to please us and fulfill all of our needs.

The happy outcome is the mind-blowing feeling we have when we love someone so much, we experience the 5th dimension or oneness.  This whole journey is about evolving and learning to unconditionally love our twin flame no matter what they say or don’t say, or do or don’t do. It’s about raising our mindset so high that we are not upset or hurt by how our twin flame or ourselves behave.

7   Would Rather Keep Rigid Beliefs About What is Right and What is Wrong-

We probably won’t have a happy outcome if we are dead set on keeping our preprogrammed beliefs about what is right and what is wrong. We won’t question if these beliefs are impossible for some of us to obey, or even question if these beliefs are unforgiving in nature.

Are You Ready to Have a Happy Outcome with Your Twin Flame?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details .

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

Have you given your twin flame a compliment that wasn’t received well? Maybe you gave your twin flame a gift and were disappointed by the lack of appreciation. Or maybe you did an act of kindness that didn’t turn out like you thought it would.

With twin flames, it’s hard to hide anything! They usually can see right through our reason for giving and quickly expose us.

There are Two Different Mindsets to Giving…

3rd Dimension Giving

The 3rd dimension mindset is about giving something to get something in return—giving with conditions. We have strings attached, even if that simply means expecting someone to appreciate it.

Just about the only time we can get away with giving something in order to get something is if our twin flame is in the 3rd dimension mindset also. And a twin flame relationship cannot last long in the 3rd dimension mindset without going into the runner/chaser pattern.

4th Dimension Giving

The 4th dimension mindset is focused on giving unconditionally expecting nothing in return—not even appreciation or a simple “thank you.”

When one twin flame starts giving unconditionally, the other will follow.

If you need help having a happy outcome with your twin flame…

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program explains and shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome.

For more Details

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 45-minute sessions over the phone (within the United States and Canada). For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

For more Details

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

Once we are physically communicating on a regular basis or get our twin flame in our arms, there is a tendency to want to make it into a typical 3rd dimension relationship.

The 3rd dimension mindset tries to CONTROL LOVE. This mindset thinks love is the ability to control our own and our twin flame’s behaviors with expectations, fear, compromise, sacrifice, obligations, promises, and most of all, guilt.

The 3rd Dimension Relationship is About….

• Trying to please each other by constantly saying and doing things the other likes. That forces us into the habit of sacrificing and compromising.

• Getting upset when our twin flame doesn’t say or do what we thought they would or expected.

• Making promises to each other to try to control our own and our twin flame’s behaviors. We think that gives us security about the relationship’s future, even though they are extremely, if not impossible, to keep.

• Telling white lies or hiding the truth so we can escape punishment and not hurt our twin flame’s feelings.

• Moving into relying or being dependent on each other. There is no need to listen to God, a Higher Power, our intuition, or our inner guide. We have our twin flame! They will be everything to us!

• Trying to make our twin flame feel guilty for hurting us. We want them to feel bad about what they did or didn’t do, or said or didn’t say. That way we don’t have to take responsibility for our perception of what happened.

• Apologizing for wrongdoings and expecting our twin flame to do the same. Since this mindset is full of rules about what is right and what is wrong, placing blame, and feeling guilty, apologizing is often the perfect form of punishment.

Trying to CONTROL LOVE won’t work for very long! By the slim—and I do mean slim—chance the physical relationship does manage to last for any length of time, it will be absolutely miserable!

Are You Ready to Get Rid of the 3rd Dimension Mindset for Good?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details .

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

At first, it might seem that the purpose of the twin flame journey is all about getting and staying in our twin flame’s arms. It’s way more than that! There are constant ups, downs, twists, and turns to this wild journey. By the time we’re well into our twin flame journey, our whole life has been turned inside out.

Here’s Some of the Consequences We Might Experience as a Result of Having a Twin Flame…

We Tend to…

 1   BECOME MORE ISOLATED AND DISTANT-

It’s like God or a Higher Power is taking away all the distractions to make us concentrate on our twin flame mission. We need more time for solitude.

2   MAKE MAJOR CHANGES IN OUR LIVES-

There will be lots of changes. Among them we might move long distances, drop our religion, change our career, and even stop addictions or bad habits. We find ourselves willing to do anything and everything.

3   CHANGE FRIENDS-

Because our whole life begins to center around our twin flame, we have less and less in common with others who are not experiencing the same phenomenon, or at least, supporting our roller-coaster twin flame relationship.

4   DISTANCE OURSELVES FROM DIFFICULT FAMILY MEMBERS-

If we don’t cut ties completely, we will drastically limit our time with those who are heavily into control, rigid rules, obligations, and traditions of the 3rd dimension mindset. Being around them can make us feel guilty or judged.

5   SLOW DOWN, AND NOT BE SO CRAZY BUSY-

We stop living life like it’s a race, always running from one thing to another.

6   BECOME REALLY SPIRITUAL-

Not only do we embrace God, Higher Power, Universe, Spirit, Divine, or any other way you want to identify that higher source that knows more than we do, but we learn to count on that inner guidance or intuition in our relationship and with everything else in our lives.

7   DEVELOP LESS TOLERANCE TOWARDS 3rd DIMENSION ATTITUDES AND BEHAVIORS-

It might get difficult to watch the news or be involved in or around pessimistic drama.

8   BECOME MORE SENSITIVE-

This goes along with the previous point. Not only do we become less tolerant to others’ negative energy, we become more sensitive to sounds, chemicals, perfumes, and certain foods. For example, it might become unpleasant to listen to white noise, and we might be drawn to listening to brown noise instead.

9   BECOME MORE CREATIVE-

The key is to do more things that are unconventional (similar to the unconventional twin flame relationship), imaginative (being open to new ideas), and that are inspired (to utilize our inner guide or intuition).

There are hundreds of ways this will play out in our lives. It could be as subtle as being more creative with every-day problem-solving, or as obvious as changing your career to be an artist.

10   IMPROVE OUR SUPERNATURAL ABILITIES-

We acquire a desire and the ability to communicate with our twin flame the 4th dimension way through psychic abilities, such as telepathy and astral projection. Maybe that’s why we get so many psychic readings, because we are learning to get better at the skill ourselves.

Inside Out

As I said before, our whole life will be turned inside out. The twin flame journey drives us inward, pushing us to find our true selves, feel connected to a Higher Source, and achieve twin flame union.

Are You Ready to Turn Your Life Inward?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details .

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

Are you afraid your intense feelings towards someone are one-sided (unrequited love) and they don’t feel the same way about you? Do you think you might be wasting time with love that is not openly returned or rewarded?

This is a common doubt, especially for those who feel the intense energy, but have not met her/him in person yet. Or for those who were lucky enough to get a quick glance of that special person but haven’t seen her/him since.

How Can Love Not be Returned or Rewarded?

The answer is simple. If we are in a 3rd dimension mindset, love is often not returned or rewarded.

About 3rd Dimension Love

The 3rd dimension’s idea of love is doing something to GET something from that special person in return, which is really conditional love. With this mindset, we sure don’t want to waste our time on someone who won’t love us back.

About 4th Dimension Love

The 4th dimension’s idea of love is GIVING loving thoughts to that special person not expecting anything in return, which is unconditional love. With this mindset, we feel the benefits right away. The love in the relationship will increase. The more unconditionally loving thoughts we give to that special person, the better we feel. As long as we have a wonderful relationship with that person, who cares if they are our twin flame or not?

We GET what we GIVE.

Are You Ready to Learn How to Unconditionally Love That Special Person?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details .

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

When most of us think about having a twin flame, what comes to mind is having the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible with a connection that is out-of-this-world. A relationship where whistles blow, bells ring, and fireworks ignite. No wonder it’s so appealing.

What usually doesn’t come to mind, are the disadvantages of having a twin flame.

The Disadvantages of Having a Twin Flame are…

1   WE CAN’T QUIT-

No matter how hard we try or what we do, we cannot get out of it. There might be times we think we have finally let our twin flame go, until we get signs from the universe or feel that magnetic force reel us back in.

2   WE BECOME REALLY OBSESSED-

We may have had an all or nothing attitude before, but this relationship takes it to the extreme. Everything else that we care about eventually takes a lower priority. Even our numbing devices and addictions, such as caffeine, food, busyness, texting, pills, alcohol, drugs, and cigarettes start losing our attention.

3   WE FIGHT OURSELVES-

We often have knock out battles between our mind and our heart. At times we are so sure we want nothing to do with our twin flame and then completely turn around the next moment and want to be with her/him so bad we can’t see straight.

4   WE HAVE TO FORGET ABOUT HAVING A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP-

There is no way our twin flame relationship will even resemble being like everyone else’s, at least until the planet evolves considerably.

5   WE WILL EXPERIENCE TERRIBLE LOWS-

Because the twin flame relationship is about getting rid of the 3rd dimension (ego) in both individuals at the same time, the lows can get extreme. One minute we can be fine and the next minute be in the deepest, darkest place we have ever felt. By the way, these spells can disappear if even one of the twin flame’s does their inner work on a consistent basis.

6   WE WILL HAVE TO BECOME SPIRITUAL-

There is no way of getting around it, we will become extremely spiritual. Between all the paranormal events, undeniable signs from the universe, telepathy, dreams, and intuitive abilities, it will make us believe there is something greater—beyond what we physical see, hear, and touch. In fact, it becomes so convincing that all our preprogrammed religious beliefs of what is right and what is wrong will become irrelevant.

7   WE WILL SPEND A LOT OF TIME ALONE-

Our desire to be social and have casual conversations will fade and at times almost vanish.  We’ll be more interested in solitude, creativity, and spiritual endeavors.  The twin flame journey drives us inward.

8   WE HAVE TO GIVE UP THE IDEA OF FREE WILL-

Most people think they have the ability to make choices as separate individuals, without these choices being predestined by fate or divine will. If we had free will in our lives and with this relationship, it would have turned out exactly the way we wanted it to a long time ago.

9   WE WILL LOSE FRIENDS-

Because our focus centers around our twin flame, we have less and less in common with others who are not experiencing the same phenomenon. We might have a couple of friends left who support our roller coaster relationship and all of our changes, but no matter how hard they try they can’t quite understand it.

10   WE FIND OURSELVES DOING THINGS WE NEVER THOUGHT WE WOULD EVER DO-

Because the magnetic pull to be with our twin flame is so strong, we’ll do practically anything to get to get her/him in our arms. We’ll change jobs or move hundreds of miles just to be physically closer to our twin flame. We’ll try all sorts of spiritual practices just to feel a deeper connection. We’ll even change every belief that is standing in the way of a happy outcome with our twin flame.

Huge disadvantages, huh? Or are they? These 10 disadvantages force us out of our comfort zones, stretch us beyond what we think is possible, turn our whole lives inside out, and most of all, prepare us for our twin flame union.  

 A Self-Study Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website. For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help letting go of your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Why do most of us hire psychics? To know when we are going to be with our twin flame, of course. But, even when we do get a time frame from a psychic reading, it never seems to be accurate.

Here’s the problem…

Psychics usually read the energy in the moment. For most people who have little desire to do personal/spiritual growth, and have ingrained ways of thinking, it’s easy for psychics to figure out their future.

Every thought we think has an effect. So, if we keep thinking the same thoughts, we will get the same effects in life. If we operate mainly in the 3rd dimension, that is especially true. It becomes real easy for psychics to predict.

But, for a twin flame, the energy changes often. You and your twin flame are mentally connected. Therefore, every thought you or your twin flame thinks changes the effects. That’s why there are times it feels like we are on an emotional roller coaster.

On top of the twists, turns, ups, and downs, it feels like we are constantly being prodded and pushed from God or a Higher Power into doing our inner work. This combination makes it very difficult for psychics to predict our future accurately.

I haven’t heard of any twin flames yet, including myself, who have gotten an accurate time frame about “when we will be with our twin flame.”

I don’t do psychics readings, but I can help you shorten your timeline of being with your twin flame. Here’s two ways…

Twin Flame Self-Study Course

This program explains how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome.

For more Details

or

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40-minute sessions over the phone (within the United States and Canada). For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact, Vickie Champion.

For more Details

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

Maybe you are in the beginning phases of being physically apart from your twin flame. Maybe you have been separated more than once. Maybe you have waited for months, or even years without contact with your twin flame.

It doesn’t matter! You have a choice right now! Are you going to make the rest of the wait a bad experience or tolerable?

Signs Your Wait is a Bad Experience…

When you have spells of…

• Missing your twin flame terribly.
• Feeling sad thinking about being apart.
• Thinking you did something wrong in the relationship.
• Blaming your twin for running.
• Feeling like a failure.
• Getting downright depressed.
• Feeling sorry for yourself and wondering things like, “no one I know has this kind of heartache, why do I?”
• Thinking “I wouldn’t wish this experience for anyone else.”

If you are one of those having a bad experience at least half of the time, you can do something about it. That doesn’t mean you reach out and try to contact your twin flame—yet again. It means you get into doing your inner work of learning how to unconditionally love.

When we begin using our inner guide, stop doubting ourselves, forgive the past, accept and appreciate things the way they are, have faith, and finally feel worthy of the same unconditional love, it makes the wait tolerable, if not satisfying.

“Satisfaction is moving in the direction of a desire.”

Abraham Hicks

If you need help making the wait tolerable you can…

Visit the entire Twin Flame section.

Or contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Or check out the Twin Flame Course.

Are you one of those who have read every blog and watched every video you can find on the signs of having a twin flame? Maybe you have most of the signs, but not all of them. That can get confusing! To top that off, one person might say one thing and another say something else. Who’s right? No wonder you might still have doubts whether you have found your twin flame or not!

Brace yourself!

The only way you will know for SURE is if you go inward.

Relying on someone outside of yourself to tell you what’s going on inside yourself can give you a starting point, but it can’t take you home. You have to do that yourself!

Take time to ask yourself (your higher self, your inner guide, or your intuition) the big question. Then, this is the hard part, have a willingness to hear the honest answer. Only you will know if she/he is the one.

If you need help going inward, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Visit the entire Twin Flame section.

Or check out the Twin Flame Course.

Probably everyone has heard of “the law of attraction.” It means every thought we think, whether we express it or not, becomes a magnet to the experience that matches that thought. In other words, we get back what we give out.

Did you notice, I didn’t say that you can get exactly what you want to happen and with whom? That would imply we have free will and can make anything happen that we want, no matter how it affects anyone or anything else. Maybe you have had times it seemed you were in control and got exactly what you wanted to happen, but that was when it worked in everyone else’s favor also.

However, we can get the emotional feeling or experience that we want from anything that happens, all the time. With our thoughts and perceptions we can choose the experience we want, which attracts more of the same kind of experience.

When we first find out who our twin flame is, or we are in a physical relationship, we are thinking gobs of loving thoughts and get gobs of loving back.  But as the relationship progresses and the newness wears off, three things could happen with our thoughts…

1   We could let ourselves get lazy and slack off from thinking feel good thoughts. It’s so easy to put our minds on auto-pilot, paying very little attention to how we want to feel.

2   Or we could replace those feel good thoughts by trying to prove that we are right—or the opposite, that we are wrong. In other words, we want someone to feel bad for what happened or didn’t happen.

3   This is the best option of all! We could think feel good thoughts no matter what our twin flame says or doesn’t say, or does or doesn’t do. That’s unconditional love and when we give it, we get it back.

Being physically near our twin flame cannot survive long when we don’t care about how we feel or when we want our twin flame, ourselves, or both to feel bad for something that happened or didn’t happen. For an unconditional loving thought is a magnet for unconditional love.

For more blogs and videos about Twin Flames.

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

and

Twin Flame One-on-one Coaching

Coaching consists of 40-minute sessions over the phone (within the United States). For more Details. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.  

What’s all the excitement about twin flames?  Apparently, according to the spiritual community, the planet is going through an acceleration of some sorts and twin flame unions are surfacing at an alarming rate. One of my life coaching clients said she heard the label “twin flames” from different people three times this week alone.

Who wouldn’t want to find the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible? At first glance the thought of having someone to complete us and the feeling we finally found a “home” is absolutely irresistible.  And who wouldn’t want to have sex that is out of this world amazing?

The problem is, most think all they need to do is go out and find their twin flame. Then whistles will blow, bells will ring, and fireworks will ignite. And a new deeply connected, wonderful life will encompass them. It doesn’t work that way.

First of all, our twin flame cannot be found. They will appear automatically, but only when we are ready mentally and spiritually.

Secondly, no one or nothing can complete us. We are already complete and whole. We can think we are incomplete, but it’s a faulty concept to begin with and not true.

Let me explain it this way…

No matter how hard we try, we can never fill our imagined half empty glass, especially with a relationship. But with God’s (Higher Power’s, Source’s, Spirit’s, Inner Guidance’s, whatever you want to call it) help, we become aware that we are completely full to the brim already and nothing is missing. When we start believing we are already complete and whole, we will tremendously increase your chances of actually meeting our twin flame.

The overflow from both parties’ full glasses is the fuel that ignites the twin flame union. Therefore, a twin flame union is an expansion of what already is. Two people that believe they are whole and complete that share it with the other one.

Don’t worry!

It’s not necessary to have a twin flame to be happy. If we think our glass is completely full and we don’t need someone else to fill it up to make us happy, our chances grow substantially in having a wonderful relationship that is perfect for us.

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Are you having trouble finding that one person that you can live happily ever after with? Maybe you are going from one painful relationship to another year after year. Or are you the third wheel staying away from any relationship whatsoever?

Times are a-changing!

I think it’s getting more difficult to fit relationships into a box with rules and restrictions. You know the typical scenario, boy meets girl, they date, they get married, have children and live happily until one of them dies. Maybe you grew up with parents who were able to fit their relationship into a box and are trying to coax you in that direction. Maybe it’s been part of your culture or religion for centuries. Maybe you see some of your friends who can live in a traditional relationship, which makes you wonder, “What in the heck is wrong with me?”

Here’s the problem!

Most of us can’t make ourselves jump in the box even for a little while, no matter how hard we try. We are either gay, a successful professional female, a male who wants to stay home and take care of the kids, we come from divorced parents and can’t imagine tying the traditional knot with anyone, or we want to marry for love.  Do I need to go on? And even if we could make ourselves jump in the box, it’s getting extremely difficult to find a partner who wants to jump in the same restrictive box with us.

What’s this got to do with twin flames?

These kinds of relationships usually are not trying to control love with male and female role playing, having expectations, and traditions. Twin flame relationships focus on learning how to unconditionally love each other, having the freedom to be who they really are. They don’t depend on their partner to make them feel better about themselves.

The Conclusion

If you can’t get yourself to conform to a traditional relationship, you’re not supposed to. Change the focus of your relationships to unconditional love, being who you really are, and taking responsibility for your own happiness. You’ll find the new trend fits you.

Twin Flame Course

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

When it comes to your twin flame relationship, do you often doubt yourself and feel like you are crazy? At times do you find yourself either running from your twin flame or chasing them? Does it feel like you are on an emotional roller coaster with ecstatic highs and some really scary lows?

Would you find it uplifting to get some help?

How to have a Happy Outcome with your Twin Flame Relationship

Course

It consists of over 9 different PDFs and an individual phone coaching session. The study program explains how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome.

For more Details

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

I’ve been talking to struggling individuals, watching videos, and reading  everything I can find on twin flame relationships. What fascinates me is, that hardly ever is the spiritual part of this experience mentioned, let alone discussed in length.

How do people go through this without believing in God or a Higher Power? And if they do, why don’t they talk about it in detail? I can’t.

Here’s what God or a Higher Power does for me…

God…

• Answers my questions and gives me insights about my twin flame relationship.
• Never fails in getting me out of the fear when I ask.
• Helps me accept my twin flame relationship, instead of wasting effort trying to reject it.
• Makes my twin flame journey enjoyable.
• Shows me how to truly forgive, expand my gratitude, and have lots more faith.
• Helps me master new ways to connect with my twin, beyond physical touch, and words.
• Comforts me when I need it.
• Insures me that a happy outcome for my twin flame relationship is guaranteed.
• Teaches me how to accept love like I never knew before.
• Guides me to let go of trying to control it, and instead sit back and watch the relationship unfold in the perfect way, at the perfect time.

As you have noticed, your twin flame relationship is the most intense, mind blowing, frightening, and most challenging journey you have ever experienced. But it also could be the most rewarding.

All you need to do is let God or a Higher Power be your guide through the twists, turns, ups and downs of this uncharted path. It could be the most unbelievable, amazing adventure known to mankind.

A Self-Study Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Is your twin flame relationship in runner/chaser pattern? Maybe you know who your twin flame is, but haven’t had a real relationship yet? Perhaps you are just hoping to find your twin flame soon. Neverthe-less, there is something you really need to know for the relationship to be successful.

“You can’t have an unhappy journey lead to a happy ending.”

Abraham Hicks

What the Heck Does that Mean?

There is a tendency to overlook our part in creating a happy ending to the relationship. If we treat being separate from our twin flame as a miserable experience, we tend to blame someone or something for the separation, put our life on hold until they come, feel lonely, or try to manipulate him/her into our arms.

Actually, our part in the twin flame journey is to raise our state of mind above the sacrifice, blame, fear, guilt, and anger into feeling happy no matter what happens. For a visual explanation, see my videos Why You are Not With Your Twin Flame Now and a A Twin Flame Union Explained.

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

We all experience it to some extent. What is it? It is that endless barrage of thoughts that race through our minds—an inner monologue, or mind chatter.

Part of our twin flame experience (and the actual union) is shaped by what dimension our mind chatter is coming from. Our relationship could be at a standstill—or downright painful­—if our mind chatter is at the lower energy level of the 3rd dimension. Or, our relationship could actually be enjoyable if our mind chatter is at the higher energy level of the 4th dimension. Best of all is the amazing, out of this world twin flame experience that results from the 5th dimension inner dialog.

Here’s the Differences in our Inner Monologue….

3rd Dimension Mind Chatter

When we are at that lower energy level mindset, almost all of our attention is placed on what’s not going right and what it should be.  Jealousy, anger, doubt, and fear can race through our minds, like we have no control over it.

Our Relationship Mind Chatter Has a Tendency to Consist of…

• Blaming ourselves or our twin flame for the current situation
• Fantasizing and daydreaming about making our twin flame relationship into a traditional romantic relationship full of rules and obligation
• Pining away about what we don’t have, like the ability to physically touch or, see our twin face-to-face
• Rehashing past encounters and judging what should have happened
• Disagreeing with what’s going on with our relationship
• Creating catastrophic scenarios based around the theme of “never being able to be with our twin”

4th Dimension Mind Chatter

When we are in the 4th Dimension, we realize that our mind chatter plays an important part of our twin flame relationship, both in what happens and our experience of it. Almost all of our attention is placed on observing and taking control of our inner monologue.

Our Relationship Mind Chatter Has a Tendency to Consist of…

• Lots of mantras or affirmations
• Taking time for meditation and quiet reflection with less mind chatter
• Asking relationship questions to God or a Higher Power, and waiting for the answers
• Desiring to learn, understand, or experience more about our relationship

5th Dimension Mind Chatter

When we are in the 5th Dimension, we mostly clear out our mind chatter and develop a quiet mind. Our point of focus is on listening for inner guidance and having an observing mind.

Our Relationship Mind Chatter Has a Tendency to Consist of…

• Developing an inner dialog with our twin flame, and God or a Higher Power
• Extending love to ourselves, others, and everything else
• Constant thoughts of gratitude
• Acceptance of everyone and everything

If you find that your mind chatter is mostly in the 3^rd dimension, notice how you feel. Do you feel you wouldn’t wish a twin flame relationship on anyone? Does it make you feel better or worse to think about your relationship? If it makes you feel worse, it’s time to start taking control of your inner monologue.

If you find your mind chatter is mostly in the 4th dimension, again, notice how you feel. When you think of your relationship, does it make you feel better or worse? Do you feel good, but not great? Is it starting to feel flat or at a standstill? Maybe it’s time to start listening full-time and let God or the Higher Power take over your inner monologue.

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

So, you are separate from your twin flame, or it’s not going well at all with them. How do I know? You wouldn’t be reading this if your relationship were hunky-dory and full of bliss.

Remember, having a twin flame can be the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible. But, there is a catch! In order to reap the lasting rewards of the relationship, we have to make the journey along the way the best experience we’ve ever had, not the worst.

Here’s Signs We Are Having an Unhappy Journey…

When we…

• Feel hurt by what our twin flame did or didn’t say, or what they did or didn’t do.
• Place all our attention on what’s NOT happening now.
• Daydream about what we want the future with our twin to be like.
• Put our life on hold, just waiting for him/her to contact us.
• Secretly want our twin flame to rescue us from our current situation. (Or at least make it better.)
• Place enormous importance in their physical body being near us. In other words, missing them.
• Are disappointed or depressed with the response when we try to make contact with our twin.

WARNING! This next statement might be upsetting!

“You can’t have an unhappy journey lead to a happy ending.”  

Abraham Hicks

We have to choose happiness and unconditional love before we can have a happy ending with our twin flame. For a visual explanation, see my two videos Why You are Not With Your Twin Flame Now and A Twin Flame Union Explained.

 A Self-Study Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

After a while you’ll realize you can’t break up and if you do temporarily, you can’t stop thinking about your twin flame. I think everyone comes to the realization that the only control we really have in this relationship is whether this will be the worst experience we have ever had or the best experience.

Here are Some Ways to Make it an Awful Experience…

1. Fight it. Listen to all your friends and try to be normal. Go out with other people and make yourself enjoy it. Cut off all ties and do your damnedest not to think about your twin. The longer you can last, the more painful it gets.

2. Don’t ever ask God or a Higher Power for help. Go with the concept “God only helps those who help themselves.”

3. Insist on making promises, try really hard to keep them, and feel guilty when you break them. To make it even worse, expect your twin to do the same.

4. Leave a trail of unforgiven relationships, such as ex’s, family, friends, acquaintances, and even strangers. Make it a point to bad mouth them, think about revenge, or avoid them like the plague. Think that anger and keeping grudges has nothing to do with the success of your twin flame relationship.

5. Don’t bother with being grateful for your twin flame relationship. It’s best to stay focused on things that are not going the way you want them too.

6. Tell your twin what he/she is doing wrong or at least think about it a lot. To make it worse, you could blame what your twin said and did for your separation.

7. Make up elaborate daydreams and fantasies about the future with your twin. Don’t forget to add in exactly what will happen, who will do or say what and when. That way you will have lots of disappointments.

8. Stay focused on what’s happening, what you can physically touch, hear with your ears, and see with your eyes. To make it even worse, think it will always be like this, you will always be separated from your twin, and there will never be a happy outcome.

9. Be extremely skeptical about the woo-woo part of your twin flame relationship. Doubt your intuition, absolutely deny any paranormal events, and ignore even the slightest hint of telepathy with your twin. And make sure you block your true feelings, especially those from the heart. That way you will have no doubt that you have gone crazy!

10. Stay steadfast to the belief that once your knight/dame in shining armor rides up on a white horse and rescues you, it will be bliss. To make it worse, believe that having your twin beside you will alleviate the need for further inner work.

Really! If you actually do these 10 things, either you are not in a twin flame relationship to begin with and are hell bent on sabotaging your life. Or you’re reading this from a room in a mental ward. The intense magnetic pull you have for your twin would be unbearable and it would send you over the edge.

The less excruciating thing to do is to change your mind to make this the best experience you have ever had.

Are You Ready to Make this the Best Experience?

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I’ve asked a few of my twin flame coaching clients what the energy felt like. Most of them, like me, had to think about it for a long time before we could put it into words.  We all agreed that the twin flame energy was hard to describe, extremely intense, and unlike anything we have experienced before with any other relationship. Here’s what we came up with…

Twin Flame Energy Can Feel Like…

• Sensational bolts of energy running through our body.
• Our heart center has expanded so much it seems like it can burst at any minute.
• The strongest magnet in the world is pulling us towards our twin.
• Every cell in our body is pulsating and alive.
• An expanding warmth.
• An indescribable deep love.
• Our entire body feels expansive and tingling.

It Can Also…

• Grab our attention so forcefully that it’s extremely difficult to concentrate on anything else.
• Make us so eager to be with our twin that we feel like a child jumping up and down, waving our hands in the air with anticipated excitement.

 A Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

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Has someone told that you need to let your love interest go and move on? That’s a good suggestion for people in obsessive relationships. Most of them wouldn’t think of detaching from their love interest. They are always manipulating and pushing to make the relationship happen.

However, if you are in a genuine twin flame relationship, you most likely have already tried detaching or separating dozens of times. The intensity of the energy can get so strong, we’ll do anything to try to get away from it, and have.

I use to be really good at detaching. I’ve known for a long time that hanging on can repel something I want. Once I released something, it would either come back to me, or something better would take its place. It always worked before, until I tried letting go of my twin.

So far, every attempt I have made to separate and move on has been excruciatingly painful. It has whirled me into a tailspin—downward into the darkest fear and depression I’ve ever experienced.

I went a week once, trying to separate from my twin, blocking her energy, allowing no thoughts about her, and having internet or social media contact.  It got worse each day, until I was begging God to die. I truly thought the only way to escape the pain was for my life to end.

Every time, the minute I give in and embrace my twin flame again, I get relief. Attempting to detach is as hard as trying to separate the backside of a dollar bill from the front side.

What We CAN Detach From…  

Maybe we can’t separate from our twin flame, but we can detach from 3^rd dimension mindset. The 3^rd dimension is a way of life that supports needing things to work out a certain way. In fact, most, if not all our suffering in our twin flame relationship comes from staying attached to the 3^rd dimension.

 A Self-Study Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website. For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help letting go of your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

On my video, 34 Signs You are in a Twin Flame Relationship I find the comments either agree with me or totally disagree with me. I think the confusion comes from their definition itself of a twin flame relationship. One meaning seems to be “Easier” like a soul mate. The other version is more “Challenging.”

With both definitions of a twin flame relationship you can experience that deep love everyone talks about, notice a feeling of “familiarity” between  you, recall your past lives together, and become aware that you are telepathically connected.

Here’s what I think are the Differences…

INTERESTS

• The EASIER definition has many shared common interests in the physical world, such as music, food, income brackets, and age.

• With the CHALLENGING definition there are hundreds of opposite interests, such as messy/clean, scheduled/spontaneous, and spiritual/analytical.

HONESTY

• With the EASIER definition, it’s justifiable to keep secrets if you have a good reason.

• With the CHALLENGING definition, it becomes unbearable to not be honest, especially with yourself.

 PURPOSE

• With the EASIER definition, the primary mission is to have a storybook romance, a cool relationship with great sex.

• With the CHALLENGING definition the primary mission is to help bring yourselves and humanity to a new level of consciousness.

FOCUS

• With the EASIER definition the relationship is supposed to complete you and make you whole. That usually means your twin comes to your rescue, releasing you from the responsibility of your inner work.

• With the CHALLENGING definition both twins are already whole and complete. Each whole comes together to experience the ultimate crash course in forgiveness, unconditional love, and oneness.

SELF-IMAGE

• With the EASIER definition, it builds your self-image at a pace that feels safe, comfortable, and without much stress.

• With the CHALLENGING definition, it almost destroys your existing self-image and reconstructs a new one. This is the part that makes most of us think we are crazy! It’s a time of extreme change, personal growth, and awakening for both parties.

APPROACH

• With the EASIER definition, you welcome the relationship with open arms.

• With the CHALLENGING definition, at times you have tried with all your might to end the relationship.

Now, Here’s the Good News!

Whether you believe the EASIER or the CHALLENGING definition of a twin flame relationship or a variation of them, it doesn’t matter.

Your job in any relationship is to learn how to unconditionally love the other person and yourself.

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The twin flame journey seems like a combination of the very best you have ever wanted and the worst you could have imagined. It’s a huge ongoing battle between your head (ego) and your heart (love), until inevitably your heart wins. We know Love conquers all. So until your ego raises the white flag and surrenders, the relationship can be extremely difficult to endure.

Some try to avoid or deny the battle hoping the ego will fizzle out on its own, not realizing that it may take several lifetimes for that to occur. Others decide not to take ownership for their part, and instead blame their twin for running away from the battleground.

Then there are some who decide to let Love lead the way. Even though the game plan seems to have lots of obstacles to conquer, they have faith they will be well equipped to overcome anything they need to face.

Here are Some Ways Love Can Equip You to Fight the Ego…

1   Make a Commitment. 

Accept the fact that your destiny is to win the war with your ego and unconditionally love your twin flame. No matter how much you avoid, deny, downplay, or resist, it will still be your mission. Sometimes making the “whatever it takes” commitment can be the hardest part of the battle.

2  Take Full Responsibility for Your Thoughts.

Every thought you think has an effect. So, if you send out more loving thoughts instead of thoughts based on your ego, it changes the advantage. Think of them like cupid’s arrows, with the power to transform anything to love.

3  Change your Perception.

You and your twin are ONE. Only the ego can make you believe that you are separate and can go in different directions.

4   Call in the General.

Whenever the ego seems to be knocking you to the ground and making you judge yourself, your twin or the situation, stop and ask your leader, Love, what to do. Ask and ye shall receive. You can get out of any jam with Love, even in the midst of a full blown battle.

Once you go into the battle well equipped with Love leading the way, you’ll find the ego is not so intimidating and as powerful as you thought. And with each victory it gets easier to keep moving forward until Love has won.

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Maybe you know who your twin is, but yet have not actually met yet? Or perhaps you have met, but one of you is in the process of running. No matter what your current situation is, the all-consuming intense twin flame energy can be extremely difficult to deal with.

In the midst of a spell of this powerful energy, it is harder than blazes to sit still and not take action. Sometimes we want to take action to get rid of the energy all together for some relief. Sometimes we want to take action and do something to get our twin to come closer.  And then there are the extremely rare times that we take action because God or a Higher Power instructs us too.

Here’s the key to whether or not the action will have a happy outcome…

Before taking action of any kind, and ask yourself these questions,

          “Am I trying to take control of… (fill in the blank).”

          “Am I afraid of…. (fill in the blank).”

If you are, it would be better if you would just sit down, take some deep breaths, and try to embrace the energy instead.

The twin flame journey is about going within, letting go of the fear, the need to control, and just trusting God or the Higher Power. A happy outcome will happen with little or no effort on your part when the time is right.

For a Twin Flame Course to show you how to shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. 

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Maybe you have been with your Twin Flame and one of you ran. You could both acknowledge your relationship, but because circumstances are what they are—maybe you are with other people, or live in different cities, you have stayed apart. Or you might know who your twin flame is, but you still haven’t physically met.

No matter what the reason, you are not together. There are times you feel you are handling the separation well and then there are times you are absolutely miserable.

Here are Two Things You Can Do to Delay Your Union Even More…

1   It’s easy to start BLAMING OUR TWIN for the separation, especially if they are in denial, avoiding us, not into personal growth, or just clueless.

Here’s the problem with twin flames: Because we are one with our twin, on some level they can feel us JUDGING them, which repels them even more. What will bring them closer is loving them unconditionally no matter what they do, say, or where they are in life.

2  When we get afraid we’ll never be with our twin and we can’t stand it any longer, we can try to MAKE IT HAPPEN. You know, reaching out trying to beg, prod, sweet-talk, and nudge them into our arms.

How does this push our twin flame away more?  Well, TIMING is everything.

The best analogy I can think of is that we need to calm down and wait for the swell. If we don’t wait for the right wave, it either takes a lot of effort paddling and kicking like crazy and then we’ll never be able to catch it. Or we’ll find ourselves hurled in the undertow. But if we learn to wait for the swell, our paddling joins with a bigger flow, one that will take us easily all the way to the beach.

To have a wonderful relationship with our twin, it’s better to wait for the swell and not take action when we are lonely and afraid. If the timing is right, there is very little (if anything) we need to do to make it happen.

Blaming, judging and trying to make the relationship happen is exactly what we are learning NOT to do.  Remember, having a twin flame is all about learning to have faith, not letting what seems to be happening upset us, and loving without reservations.

 A Self-Study Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Why is it hard to make promises to your twin and actually keep them? There is a simple answer. You can’t take a twin flame relationship and fit it into a 3rd dimension mindset. It just won’t work. Here’s why…

Reasons for Promises

1   The 3rd dimension mindset can make promises in an effort to feel SECURE in their relationship, especially “forever” promises. Because twin flames minds are connected, all one twin has to do is be aware of their own “FEELINGS” about the relationship to recognize their twin feels the same.

2   The 3rd dimension consciousness can make promises to try to alleviate FEAR. Fear only appears when you are thinking about things in the future, or things in the past, believing they will happen again. Twin flames quickly learn to stay in the PRESENT where fear cannot exist.

3   The 3rd dimension mindset can make promises hoping to CONTROL behaviors, yours or your twins. Twin flame relationships focus very little, if any, attention on who’s doing what. It’s all about LOVING, FORGIVING, and ACCEPTING in spite of what’s happening.

4   In the 3rd dimension consciousness, promises can easily put you on AUTO-PILOT causing you to IGNORE your thoughts, feelings and insights. A twin flame relationship is the opposite. It ENHANCES your intuition, sensitivity, and opens up a new world.

5  In the 3rd dimension mindset, promises can easily cause COMPROMISE and SACRIFICE. The focus is keeping the promise, no matter what you have to do or how miserable you are. Because everything is INTENSIFIED with twin flames, feeling miserable becomes absolutely unbearable.

Here it is as simply as I can put it. The only way making promises will work in a twin flame relationship is if a Higher Power or God specifically instructs you to do so.

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Everybody probably at one time or another has fantasized about a romantic relationship. Daydreaming is a quick fix, in other words, thinking that romance will be just the way you want and it is around the corner. We long for a companion who understands us and responds to our every need.

Here’s the problem.

Daydreaming locks us into trying to control how our twin acts and what’s going to happen according to our imagined fantasy. Maybe you can get some relationships to look like your storybook romance, but not with a twin flame.

In fact, daydreaming can be the very thing that causes us enormous pain and delays us from that glorious day we unite with our twin. We are so busy trying to control what our relationship should be like, what our twin should say and do, and what should happen, that we completely forget the real purpose of having a twin flame.

Twin flame relationships are all about learning to forgive, accept, and unconditionally love. So, it would make sense that everything that we wouldn’t even think of daydreaming about, is going to happen.

To feel better, instead of getting lost in daydreams that waste time and cause disappointment, take a different approach. Ask a Higher Power or God how to truly love your twin, and how to really accept that much love back.

 A Self-Study Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

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If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

What makes having a twin flame so darn difficult? The answer is easy. The only way it can be excruciating, is if you or both of you are trying to fit the relationship into a  3rd dimension box.

The 3rd dimension is about operating from rules, obligations, traditions and fear. The exact same thing the twin flame union is supposed to break out of and blow wide open.

Signs You are Trying to Shove Your Relationship into a 3rd Dimension Box is

When You…

1   Really think a CONVENTIONAL ROMANCE (trying to control your love like most couples) is going to be successful.

2   Have RIGID BELIEFS, characterized by polarities such as right/wrong, black/white, rich/poor, and feminine/masculine.

3   Believe your thoughts are PRIVATE and it’s OK to lie if you have a good reason.

4   Resist CALLING ON a Higher Power or God for help.

5   Think you need to DO something to FIX the relationship.

6   BLAME your twin, anyone or anything else for your current situation.

7   Think ANGER or JEALOUSY is justified.

8   Define INTIMACY as having your twin in physical proximity to you.

9   Give lots of importance to the AMOUNT of “I love you’s” said.

10  Wish your life could GO BACK to the way it used to be.

11  SACRIFICE and make compromises.

12  Expect your twin to DO things for you, and with you, to show their love.

13  Make PROMISES to control behaviors.

14  Pay very little attention to noticing your thoughts and more on trying to CONTROL what’s happening or what you think should happen.

15  COMPARE your relationship with other couples and wish for a normal relationship instead.

16  Feel you would be HAPPIER if things were different. Maybe if you were married, or with your twin all the time you would feel better.

17  Operate from CONDITIONAL LOVE. Only if they SAY and DO what you want, then you will love them more.

18  Use your twin to fill your box of NEEDS such as companionship, financial help, emotional support, or to make decisions for you.

19  Place importance on giving and receiving MATERIAL GIFTS that represent love such as birthday gifts, Valentine’s day gifts, and matrimonial gifts.

20  Think what your twin SAYS or DOES is more important than the LOVE you have for them.

21  Hold GRUDGES against your twin or anyone else.

22  Take relationship ADVICE SOLELY from loved ones, religious leaders, doctors, and therapists.

23  Neglect listening and following your INNER GUIDANCE or intuition.

24  Feel SEPARATE from your twin and from a Higher Power or God.

Now think about it. Do you really want to take the unconditional love and freedom out of the most loving relationship you’ll ever experience? Ask a Higher Power or God to help move you up to living mostly in the 4th and 5th dimension. You’ll find all the agony and pain in this relationship disappear.

A Self-Study Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

Meeting your twin is only part of it, being able to handle the intensity and looking head on at your ego is another thing. The purpose of having a twin flame is to go through a crash course in releasing the ego for eternity. No easy feat!

Here are Some Suggestions to Make Your Twin Flame Union Easier…

1   Throw the paradigm of romantic relationships out the window. A twin flame union won’t be like any relationship you have ever had before or be like hardly any other relationships in the world. You’re probably one in 100,000, if that. I also highly doubt it will be the same as other twin flame unions. Twin flames connect to be an example of a new way to love and way more than a story book romance.

2   Think of the relationship as a huge inner adventure that can’t be escaped, only mastered. Every day there will be new things to explore, different paths to follow, lots of twists and turns, and demons to conquer.

3   Get used to lots of spiritual experiences. You will be exposed to everything that will help you release your ego and act only out of unconditional love. This could be signs from the universe, telepathy, psychic abilities, recalling past lives, astro projection, or even anything that seems impossible.

4   Learn to go within and pay attention to the “feeling.” No matter what’s happening in your relationship, or what your twin is doing or saying, stay focused on the “feeling” moment by moment. If it feels like fear or some of the lower energies, send your twin unconditional love to transform it. If it feels like love or some of the higher energies, bask in it as long as you can.

5   With the relationship, start heavily relying on God (Source, Spirit, Inner Guide, Universe or anything else you want to call it). That Higher Power is the only thing that can make this adventure easier, end the fear and take you to a place that very few humans have ever gone. All you have to do is ask, listen, and follow through when directed to do so.

Good news!

Whether you have been in an active twin flame union for years, are separated, or haven’t even met them in person yet, these five things will help make this adventure absolutely amazing.

For a  Twin Flame Course to show you how to shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. 

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.