These days voicing opinions and taking a side on any subject has become the new “normal.” So, it’s very easy to carry that over into our twin flame relationship. We can have opinions on what we or our twin flame did or didn’t do and said or didn’t say, the current moment, or what we think will happen in the future.
Sometimes opinions are only choices or preferences. Sometimes they are really intuitive insights from a higher source. But other times opinions are judgments that separate our head from our heart and make one side “wrong.” Judgments, both delay a happy outcome with our twin flame and they make the journey very unpleasant.
5 Ways Judging Can Make Our Twin Flame Journey Harder
1 INCREASE OUR LONELINESS-
If we are making judgements about the lack of physical contact with our twin flame, or blaming ourselves or our twin flame for what happened in the past and who was at fault, it’s extremely difficult to NOT feel that terrible feeling of isolation. Our faultfinding thoughts separate us from that higher source, our twin flame, who we really are, and an easy twin flame journey.
2 CAUSE CONFLICT WITH OUR TWIN FLAME-
Judging is a great ego device for separating. When we are judging we assume our take on anyone or anything is the correct one. That means any other take must be “wrong,” which initiates the conflict.
Most conflicts aren’t the “fight to the finish” kind. They are usually pushed under the surface to simmer (sometimes for years, decades, or lifetimes).
Conflict only dissolves when we stop judging and are willing to see our twin, ourselves, or the situation differently.
3 MAKE US FEEL DEPRESSED ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP-
When we are judging, we are focused on “what’s not going right,” and “what needs to happen for it to get better.” With that narrow focus, no wonder we see things as doom and gloom. Depression comes from thinking we won’t get what our heart desires.
4 PRODUCE PHYSCIAL SICKNESS-
Judgmental thoughts and attitudes have a tremendous influence on our body’s immune system, and whether the medicines and medical procedures will be effective in healing our body.
We can change any illness with thoughts and attitudes that are loving, open-minded, and positive.
5 PREVENT US FROM BEING AWARE OF OUR INTUITION-
When we are judging, we are locking ourselves into a certain opinion, usually with no wiggle room. That makes it extremely difficult or even impossible to be aware of the hundreds of intuitive insights we get each day. We’ve got to get to neutral or not invested in making someone or something “wrong” before we are willing to pay attention to a higher source’s guidance.
Are You Ready to Stop Judging Yourself, Your Twin Flame, or the Relationship?
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