Ever wonder how you can stop people pleasing? Most of us think it is unchangeable and we are doomed to a life of not feeling good enough. This video shows you 10 different ways to end your need to please others.
How to Make a Twin Flame Relationship Easier
This video describes 4 ways to make a twin flame, twin soul, or true love relationship less challenging.
For a Twin Flame Course to show you how to shorten your timeline for a happy outcome.
For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.
For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.
If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.
11 Reasons to Stop People Pleasing
This video shares 11 reasons you should really consider ending your need to please others.
Why You are NOT with Your Twin Flame now
This video is a simple illustrated explanation of why you are not with your twin flame, twin soul, or true love right now. And what you can do about it.
A Course for Twin Flames
This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.
For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.
For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.
If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.
6 Ways Relationships Can Mess You Up
This video describes 6 different ways that romantic relationships can be difficult to manage.
7 Reasons Women Have a Hard Time Forgiving Themselves
This video describes 7 reasons why women find it more difficult to forgive themselves than men do.
9 Ways a Twin Flame Relationship Can Screw You Up
This video describes how unsettling and difficult a Twin Flame relationship can be.
For a 200 page Twin Flame Course to show you how to shorten your timeline for a happy outcome.
For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.
For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.
If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.
For Beginners- A Way to be Aware of Your Inner Guide
This video is a simple way to start paying attention to your inner voice, intuition, or gut feelings.
Meditation- Connect with a Twin Flame, Soul Mate or True Love
This is a short easy meditation to help you either to heal or improve your Twin Flame, Soul mate or true love relationship.
For a Twin Flame Course to show you how to shorten your timeline for a happy outcome.
For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.
For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.
If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.
7 Signs You Have NOT Forgiven Your Ex
This video describes some of the signs you are still hanging onto to your ex and letting them mentally drag you down.
3 Movies About Signs & Synchronicities
This video gives three examples of getting signs from the universe and the importance of paying attention to them.
34 Signs You Are in a Twin Flame Relationship
This video describes some obvious and not-so-obvious signs of a twin flame or twin soul relationship.
Check out my Twin Flame Course to show you how to shorten your timeline for a happy outcome.
For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.
For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.
If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.
23 Ways to Describe Inner Guidance
This video quickly defines, explains, and identifies our inner guide or intuition.
How to Explain Your Inner Guidance
The video above is a story that explains the difference between following your logic and following your heart, gut feelings or inner voice.
A Successful Twin Flame Union Explained
This video shows you what a successful twin flame relationship is and how to get it.
For a Twin Flame Course to show you how to shorten your timeline for a happy outcome.
For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.
For more details on my Twin Flame Course or my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.
If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.
A Different Way to Tap into Your Intuition!
Are you having a hard time tapping into your higher connection or gut feelings? Watch this video to find out how one of my coaching clients accesses her intuition or inner guidance.
If you need help on how to tap into your higher connection or a way to access your inner voice, contact Vickie Champion for a discovery consultation & coaching session!
People Pleasing to the Extreme- Kelly’s Story
Also visit my entire People Pleasing section. If you need more help with being too nice or your need to please, contact Vickie Champion for a discovery coaching and consulting session.
People Pleasing to the Extreme- Diane’s Story
If you are ready to live a better life and want to learn how to say no in a kind way, check out my Painless Ways to Stop People Pleasing—How to Say NO and Still be Kind video series.
Also visit my entire People Pleasing section. If you need more help with being too nice or your need to please, contact Vickie Champion for a discovery coaching and consulting session.
One Way to Overcome Loneliness
One of my longtime career and life coaching clients is Kelly Loeffler. I have seen her in very difficult life situations step up, get out of the fear of what others will think, and do the right thing.
I recently asked Kelly to tell a story of overcoming feeling alone.
Here’s a recap of her story of being afraid, scared, and lonely…
Who would think something as simple as a pen could have made my day so much better. Let me tell you a story that happened to me involving a pen.
It was a Saturday, and I was having a really bad day. I was afraid, scared and lonely. I woke up feeling that way. I had to go out and do some errands and as I was driving to the store I remembered that I need to do affirmations. Those will help me get out of this feeling I was having. I did the one’s that are my favorites “There is nothing to fear ever.” “There is nothing to fear ever.” “There is nothing to fear ever.”And then I did the other one I like, “God walks with me always.” “God walks with me always.” “God walks with me always.” I kept repeating those over and over as I was doing my errands.
The last stop I had was Staples. 5 o’clock on Saturday afternoon there was no one there but me and the people that work there. So, I go in an isle looking at the pens. I was standing there looking at the pens still feeling awful, feeling desperate. Before I knew it there was another customer there in this practically empty store, standing next to me also looking at pens.
She started a conversation with me about the different pens. Before I knew it she was talking to me about her family and all kinds of stuff. I had this 15 min. conversation with her that started out about pens. By the time see walked away, I felt so much better. Just from having talked to somebody, a stranger, a complete stranger and when she walked away I realized it was like a little miracle. How God bought her to me just when I needed someone, the right person at the right time. And it was a MIRACLE to me.
For more advice on overcoming loneliness, contact Vickie Champion for a discovery life coaching and consulting session.
A Story About Getting the Courage to Go For a Dream Job
One of my longtime career and life coaching clients that I admire is Margaret Burnison. Very seldom do I see people get out of their fear, ignore what others think, and treat their career like an adventure like she did.
I recently asked Margaret to tell her story of overcoming the fear with her profession. This is it.
Here’s a recap of her story:
I love plants. I had the opportunity after leaving a well paying job to try my dream job. Have you ever looked back on something, an idea, an opportunity, and said if I only did this. I couldn’t done this my life would be better. If I had only… I was in that mode. I was so tired of being in so much fear of trying something new regardless how it looked to others. So my dream job was to go into landscaping. Much lower pay and heaven forbid what my friends and family would think. And I have my husband looking at me and saying “You’re going into what? How much is this paying?” But it doesn’t matter. I wanted to do this, I love plants, I wanted to see what I could do with it.
Who was going to hire a woman of my age? I had no idea where to start but I was going to try anyway. I started applying and I go a job. I was so excited. And then I went to work. That was a very interesting eye opener on this really wasn’t my dream job.
It was such a good lesson because I tried this. This has given my courage to do things I wouldn’t have never thought I could do. I look on this experience as a proud moment in my life. I had the guts to try something and I don’t have to worry about “I could da, would da, should da, because I did do it and I am so happy.
Other information about changing careers by Vickie Champion you might be interested in:
Career Quiz- How Ready Are You to Get Your Dreams?
6 Things that Prevent Us from Quitting Our Jobs
12 Benefits of NOT Going After Your Dream Job
Are Most of Our Earning Problems Worse Because We’re Reluctant to Change?
For more advice on business or career coaching, contact Vickie Champion for a discovery life coaching and consulting session.
How to Budget for Unexpected Expenses
People often ask me how I budget for those variable purchases that consistently come up. What I’m talking about is those items that are NOT due monthly but occasionally and the cost can vary. You know, the purchases we usually put on credit cards.
Some Examples of Unexpected Expenses Might be…
- Clothes
- Car maintenance
- Home repairs
- Pet grooming
- Gifts
- Vacations
Below is a video showing you how to make a spending plan to manage these easily.
Other information about budgeting by Vickie Champion you might be interested in are:
QUIZ- Do You Need to Change Your Relationship with Money?
Miracle Cure for Money Issues
11 Signs you are Stuck in a Debt Cycle
A Weekly Allowance: Why Everyone Needs One
For more advice on money issues, contact Vickie Champion for a discovery coaching and consulting session.
A Story on Learning How to Love
When you think of “learn to love” most people think of learning how to love others and ourselves.
Here’s a story about something no one thinks about…
Year’s ago I had a very painful experience that I want to share with you. It all started when my dishwasher broke. Just like most repairs I called a repairman and forgot all about it. He showed up a couple of days later and said we needed to replace a part and he would order it right away and call us when it was in.
Three weeks later I had a feeling I should call and check up on it. I found out he forgot to order the part and promised he would right after we got off of the phone. After another three weeks he comes with the part and we find out he ordered the wrong part.
That was just the start of the delays, one thing after another happened anywhere from back ordering the part, computer system went down, shipping company losing the part, to the technician was on vacation. I really started to pay attention when the same stuff happened when we changed repair companies.
It was going on 4 months and I was at my wits end. Since I teach my coaching clients about being in the flow, I had to figure out what the lesson was here so it could finally get it resolved. At last I had a ah-hah moment.
Ever since I can remember, I hated doing dishes. Just the idea of maybe touching leftover food, scouring pots and pans, greasy stuck on food particles, dishes, made me cringe. I knew what I had to do. I had to learn how to love doing dishes.
Once I changed my mind about loving to do dishes, the dishwasher was fixed. Now sometimes I catch myself doing the dishes by hand because I don’t mind it anymore.
I think our lesson is to learn how to love everything we dislike, not just others and ourselves.
If you have a nagging dislike that you need help with learning how to love it, contact Vickie Champion for a discovery coaching and consulting session.
An Intuition Story- Ski Trip
My name is Vickie Champion and I am a life coach who helps people get out of the fear and use to their intuition or gut instincts.
I thought it would be fun to let you hear from one of my coaching clients who had a very interesting example about using our intuition. Here is Diane Bolden who is also a leadership coach and the author of “The Pinocchio Principle” with her story.
INTUITION EXAMPLE
After a day of skiing in Canada while tagging along on her husband’s business trip, Diane Bolden returned to the hotel exhausted. She walked by the lobby bar and was suddenly inexplicably drawn to it. After lingering in the doorway for a few minutes taking it all in, she reasoned that going in wasn’t practical and went upstairs to her room instead, figuring her husband was probably waiting for her so they could go eat dinner.
Upon discovering that he was at the gym, she again resisted her urge to go have a drink in the lobby bar. Twenty minutes later her husband called and asked her to meet him downstairs. As she walked past the lobby bar, Diane was once again aware of her desire to linger there for a while, but continued walking.
A week later, Diane’s dear friend from college – who she hadn’t seen in years – phoned to tell Diane that she was in the very same lobby bar Diane did not allow herself to go into. A few days after seeing a woman who she thought looked a lot like Diane, her friend called the front desk on a whim to learn that Diane and her husband had just checked out.
VICKIE’S COMMENT
You will learn how to use your intuition either the hard way or the easy way. It is your choice. As you can see Diane learned the hard way this time.
Do you have a situation that you want advice with? Contact Vickie Champion for a discovery coaching and consulting session.