1. I deprive myself of things I want.
2. I make commitments, break them, and then feel guilty.
3. I argue, fight, or have misunderstandings with certain individuals or groups.
4. I find myself in situations where I feel a little, if not a lot, of resentment.
5. I feel others need to change either the way they think or their behavior.
6. It’s important for me to do things perfectly.
7. There are not enough hours in the day to get everything done.
8. I’m easily deceived or misled by others.
9. I find myself pushing through projects and relieved when they’re over.
10. I’m constantly making sacrifices to please someone else.
11. I hold onto past hurts.
12. I resist change and can get upset when my routines are disrupted.
13. A good portion of my day is spent solving one problem after another.
14. I run into one obstacle after another.
15. I have a tendency to take sides and will do anything to prove I am right.
16. I do things I don’t really want to do and even dread doing.
17. I make commitments that require me to sacrifice.
18. My body always has aches and pains of some sort, whether it’s catching the latest ‘bug’ going around, stubbing my toe or nursing a stiff neck.
19. I find myself doing things just to please others.
20. I’m afraid I’ll make a mistake.
21. I neglect following intuitive insights or what feels right.
22. Others around me constantly have major problems or are in difficult relationships.
23. I judge others and myself.
24. I keep using either food, drinking, smoking, drugs, impulse buying, keeping crazy busy, or anything else as a stress reliever.
25. I get confused or overwhelmed.
26. I daydream about righting a wrong or getting revenge.
