1. I do things I don’t really want to do.

2. I don’t know what my dreams are.

3. I’m constantly making sacrifices or compromises to please someone else.

4. I justify my life by saying “My dreams are not really important.”

5. I put money aside for my dreams and end up spending it on something else.

6. I do things and later regret it.

7. I feel getting my dreams will take sacrifice and a lot of hard work.

8. I feel I don’t try hard enough.

9. I find myself in situations where I feel a little, if not a lot, of resentment.

10. There are not enough hours in the day to get everything done.

11. When things change unexpectedly, I get upset.

12. I make commitments, break them, and feel guilty.

13. I’m afraid others will think I am selfish if I go for my dreams.

14. If I go for my dreams, certain people in my life won’t approve or judge me.

15. I push through projects and am relieved when they’re over.

16. I get concerned with whether or not I’m making the right choice.

17. I have regrets over my past, thinking I could have done things better.

18. I’m not excited about my future.

19. I don’t take time to appreciate what I have.

20. I don’t believe others will love or appreciate me if I don’t do things for them.