by Vickie Champion | Sep 13, 2012 | People Pleasing
Saying YES when you want to say NO can make you feel liked or that you’re accomplishing something. But the harm it does far outweighs these benefits. Here are Some of the Upsides of Saying NO When you Want to… You… Are liked for who you are as a person, not for...
by Vickie Champion | Sep 6, 2012 | People Pleasing
Everyone says an occasional YES when they really wanted to say NO. This list, however, is for those of us who have allowed our inability to say NO compromise our mental health, relationships, work, finances and our bodies. Here are some Signs it’s Time to Learn How to...
by Vickie Champion | Mar 22, 2012 | People Pleasing, Personal Advice, Quizzes
Out of all my blogs since Sept 2008, the top 3 most popular ones are on people pleasing. They are 52 Traits of a Chronic People Pleaser, 19 Reasons to Stop People Pleasing, and 10 Affirmations of a Chronic People Pleaser. That shocks me! Are there that many people...
by Vickie Champion | Feb 9, 2012 | People Pleasing
I’m not stupid. I know that a people pleaser’s worst fear is to be called selfish. People pleasers rearrange their whole lives so they will not be regarded as selfish. Well, people pleaser, listen up: You. Are. Selfish. At least consider the possibility that you may...
by Vickie Champion | Feb 2, 2012 | People Pleasing
It’s as scary as the vampires populating the movie screens and books. And just as seductive: It’s the darkside of needing to please. A coaching client of mine said she couldn’t see any value in not being too nice until I bluntly explained the huge and scary...
by Vickie Champion | Apr 25, 2011 | People Pleasing
Either you read some of my previous blogs on being a chronic people pleaser or you self-diagnosed. But you’re ready to do something about it because the people-pleasing habit had wrought havoc on either your health, professional or personal life – maybe all three....
