The excruciating agony of not being in physical contact with your twin flame can be so painful that you could think there are absolutely NO benefits. But there are reasons for everything, including this.
Here are Some Hidden Benefits of the Runner/Chaser Pattern…
The runner/chaser pattern…
1 HELPS US COMMIT-
Most twin flames lean towards being more introverted and need time alone to reflect on the enormity of the twin flame journey. Once we stop questioning the relationship, the journey gets soooo much easier.
2 ALLOWS TIME TO LOAD OUR BACKPACK-
With any journey, it’s almost necessary to have a full backpack for any circumstance we can face. For the twin flame journey, it is important to fill it with methods to handle the process of getting rid of the ego and uniting with our true love.
3 HELPS US LET GO OF EXTRA BAGGAGE-
During this time apart from our twin flame, we can learn to finally let go of past heartaches and forgive those we let hurt us. This helps us move forward, free of unhealed relationships.
4 AIDS US IN CHANGING OUR APPROACH-
Time away from our twin flame almost forces us to find another way to communicate and feel connected to them. Essentially, it makes us give up 3rd dimension methods of reaching out (what we see, hear, and touch) and pushes us to rely on 4th dimension methods (telepathy, how we feel, and other more spiritual ways).
5 BUILDS MOMENTUM-
If we are honest with ourselves, it’s kind of a relief to catch our breath. The twin flame journey can be so full of twists and turns, ups and downs, that we need to take a break and rest a minute. Allowing time to practice staying in spiritual shape will do a lot in helping us not to get so worn out when we get physically together again.
6 HELPS US FIND OUR TRUE SELVES-
In the time we are separated from our twin flame, there is space to learn how to unconditionally love ourselves and feel worthy of an amazing relationship like this.
Summing it Up
The runner/chaser pattern was not meant to torture us. It has a higher purpose, to help our journey. If you take advantage of your time apart and do your inner work, it will make physical union soooo much easier.
I have a few products that can help you do your inner work:
Also, I’ve added Intuition eBooks for two of the Myers-Briggs personality types that are common for twin flames, INFJ and INFP.