If you are in a twin flame relationship, you probably know that are lots and lots of ups, downs, twists, and turns along the journey. Then there’s the constant breaking up and making up most of us experience.

To top that off, both individuals are experiencing continual external and internal changes. That causes almost all of us to have more uncertainty, confusion, and downright fear—enough for us to seek out psychics or tarot readers in getting clarity and direction.

The Problem

With that much ongoing change, we could easily spend a fortune on psychic and tarot readings trying to get insights. Or we could take on some of the responsibility and try to make the most of each reading.

Here’s How to Get the Most from a Psychic or Tarot Reading…

1   ABOUT NEEDING A QUICK FIX

There can be times we can let our thoughts go in such a negative direction that we work ourselves into a terrible spot and can even have an anxiety attack. Then to get some immediate relief, we rush to find anyone to give us a psychic or tarot reading as soon as possible. Waiting for readers that are more accurate and give us life-changing insights is not our top priority. Often the relief we get only lasts a couple of days, at most, or until our negative thought pattern starts up again.

Instead, to get the most from our psychic or tarot reading we could try to slow down, take some deep breaths, and change our thoughts to something more positive. Doing positive affirmations works well to relieve us from the immediate fear. Then we can choose a reader using our intuition and what feels right, rather than who has an opening the soonest.

A good sign we could make better use of the reading is if we have an urgency attached to scheduling it.

2   USE IT TO JUSTIFY WRONGDOINGS

We could have a tendency to want the psychic or tarot reading to validate our anger or to tell us how our twin flame feels guilty or terrible for what they did or didn’t do. That doesn’t help us learn how to forgive our twin flame or take responsibility for how we perceive the situation.

To make the most of a psychic or tarot reading, ask the psychic to help you see your twin flame and the situation differently so you both can have peace with it.

3   WANT PSYCHICS TO MAKE DECISIONS FOR US

When we run to psychics to make our decisions, we are usually in a tizzy and afraid. To add to the difficulty, we often believe that if we make a wrong decision we will have grim circumstances to face. Relying on the reader to do the majority of our decision-making is also a good excuse not to take responsibility for our own choices.

To make the most from a psychic or tarot reading, ask their advice but let your own intuition discern if it is the best path.

4  TO HAVE A DRIVEN AGENDA

This is more common than you might think. When our mind is biased toward what we want to hear or the way we want things to go in the relationship, we often block out any other information.

To make the most of a psychic or tarot reading, take notes or record it. Read or listen to the reading over, and over, if needed, with an open mind. Try to really understand what the reader was conveying.

I don’t do psychic readings, but I do offer help with learning to use your intuition. Here are three ways…

1   Check out the Twin Flame Telepathy eBook. It can help you improve your ability to sense your twin flame’s thoughts and emotions. Learn what most psychics do in readings.

2   I’ve added intuition eBooks for two of the Myers-Briggs personality types that are common for twin flames, INFJ and INFP.   

3   If you need more help in getting clarity with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for an initial coaching and consulting session at a discounted price.