Before we have the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible on a long-term basis, there are some obstacles we have to overcome.
The Main Obstacles in the Twin Flame Journey are that….
1 WE WILL WANT TO GET OUT OF IT-
No matter how much we pray, how hard we try, or what we do, we cannot quit. There might be a day or two when we think we have finally let our twin flame go, then something happens to bring our twin flame back into our minds.
2 WE WILL THINK IT’S WRONG TO BE THIS OBSESSED-
We may have had an all or nothing attitude before, but this relationship will take it to the extreme. Absolutely everything else that we care about will take a lower priority and even go off our radar. The challenge is that we and others will think it is wrong, but it’s not.
3 WE FIGHT OURSELVES-
We often have knockout battles between our mind and our heart. At times we are so sure we want nothing to do with our twin flame and then completely turn around the next moment and want to be with her/him so bad we can’t see straight.
4 WE WILL HAVE TO FORGET ABOUT HAVING A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP-
It’s very difficult to get our minds wrapped around the fact that there is no way that our twin flame relationship will even resemble being like everyone else’s.
5 WE WILL EXPERIENCE DREADFUL LOWS-
Because the twin flame relationship is about getting rid of the 3rd dimension (ego) in both individuals at the same time, the lows can get extreme. One minute we can be fine and the next minute we’ll be in the deepest, darkest place we have ever felt. The challenge is to learn how to diminish the intensity and frequency of the lows. By the way, these bouts can actually disappear if even one of the twin flames does their inner work on a consistent basis.
6 WE WILL HAVE TO BECOME SPIRITUAL-
There is no way of getting around it, we will become extremely spiritual. In order to fit in, many twin flames have denied, ignored, and even fought their spiritual side. Between all the paranormal events, signs from the universe, telepathy, visions, dreams, and psychic abilities, it will make our spiritual side unshakable. In fact, it becomes so unrelenting that all our pre-programed religious beliefs about what is right and what is wrong will become irrelevant.
7 WE WILL STRUGGLE WITH THE NEED FOR MORE QUIET TIME-
Our desire to be social and have casual conversations will fade and at times almost vanish. We’ll become more interested in solitude, creativity, and spiritual undertakings. The twin flame journey drives us inward.
8 WE WILL BATTLE TO KEEP THE IDEA OF FREE WILL-
Almost everybody defines free will as having freedom to make choices as separate individuals, without these choices being predestined by fate or divine will. But the more we get into the twin flame journey and become more spiritual, the more we question and want to redefine that definition. Why, the whole twin flame concept is based on believing wholeheartedly in a predestined fate.
9 WE WILL LET GO OF FRIENDS-
There will be a tendency to try to hang onto old friends. Because our focus centers around our twin flame, we have less and less in common with others who are not experiencing the same phenomenon. We might have a couple of friends left who support our roller coaster relationship and all of our changes, but no matter how hard they try they can’t quite understand our twin flame attraction.
10 WE WILL RESIST CHANGE-
In the end we will find ourselves doing things we never ever thought we would do. Because the magnetic pull to be with our twin flame is so strong, we’ll find ourselves doing anything and everything to get to get her/him in our arms. We’ll change jobs or move hundreds of miles just to be physically closer to our twin flame. We’ll try all types of spiritual practices just to feel a deeper connection. We’ll even change every belief that is standing in the way of having a happy outcome with our twin flame.
Overcoming these 10 obstacles will push us out of our comfort zones, stretch us beyond what we think is possible, turn our whole lives inside out, and most of all, prepare us for our twin flame union.
Are You Ready to Do Your Inner Work?
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