When most of us think about having a twin flame, what comes to mind is having the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible with a connection that is out-of-this-world. A relationship where whistles blow, bells ring, and fireworks ignite. No wonder it’s so appealing.
What usually doesn’t come to mind, are the disadvantages of having a twin flame.
The Disadvantages of Having a Twin Flame are…
The Disadvantages of Having a Twin Flame are…
1 WE CAN’T QUIT-
No matter how hard we try or what we do, we cannot get out of it. There might be times we think we have finally moved on, until we get signs from the universe or feel that magnetic force reel us back in.
2 WE BECOME REALLY OBSESSED-
Most of us had an obsessive all-or-nothing attitude before, but this relationship takes it to the maximum. Everything else that we care about eventually takes a lower priority. Even our numbing devices and addictions, such as caffeine, food, busyness, texting, overworking, pills, alcohol, drugs, and cigarettes start losing our attention.
3 WE BATTLE WITH OURSELVES-
Having a twin flame causes us to have knock-out battles between our mind and our heart. We will want to be with our twin flame soooo bad we can’t see straight and then in the next moment our ego will try with all its might to convince us otherwise.
4 WE WILL EXPERIENCE TERRIBLE LOWS-
The lows can be intense because the twin flame relationship is about getting rid of the 3rd dimension (ego) in both individuals at the same time. One minute we can be flying high and the next minute be in the deepest, darkest place we have ever felt. While on the subject, these spells can fade away if even one of the individuals does their inner work on a steady basis.
5 WE HAVE TO LEAVE BEHIND THE IDEA OF HAVING A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP-
There is no way our twin flame relationship will even resemble being like everyone else’s, at least until the planet evolves considerably.
6 WE WILL HAVE TO BECOME INTUITIVE-
There is no way to avoid it. We will become very very spiritual. Between all the paranormal events, experiences of remote touch, undeniable signs from the universe, telepathy, dreams, and intuitive insights, it will make us believe there is something greater—beyond what we physically see, hear, taste, smell, and touch. It can become so convincing that all our pre-programmed religious rules of what is right and what is wrong will become confusing.
7 WE WILL LOSE FRIENDS-
Because our focus is centered around our twin flame, we probably won’t have much in common with others who aren’t experiencing the same phenomenon. There might be a couple of friends left who support our emotional up and down relationship and all of our changes, but no matter how hard try they still won’t be able to get a grasp of it.
8 WE WILL SPEND A LOT OF TIME ALONE-
Our inclination to be social and enjoy casual conversations will dwindle and at times almost disappear. Instead, we’ll be more interested in quiet time, being creative, and spiritual endeavors. The twin flame journey drives us inward.
9 WE HAVE TO GIVE UP THE IDEA OF FREE WILL-
Most people think they have the ability to make choices as separate individuals, without these choices being predestined by fate or divine will. If we had free will in our lives and with this relationship, it would have turned out exactly the way we wanted it to a long time ago.
10 WE FIND OURSELVES DOING THINGS WE NEVER THOUGHT WE WOULD EVER DO-
Because the magnetic pull to be with our twin flame is so intense, we’ll do practically anything to get them by our side and in our arms. We’ll switch careers or move hundreds, even thousands, of miles just to be physically closer to our twin flame. We’ll try all types of spiritual practices just to feel a deeper connection. We’ll even change every belief that is standing in the way of a happy outcome with our twin flame.
To Sum It Up
Huge disadvantages, huh? Or are they? These disadvantages force us out of our comfort zones, turn our entire lives inside out, stretch us beyond what we think is possible, and most of all, prepare us for our twin flame union.
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