When most of us think about having a twin flame, what comes to mind is having the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible with a connection that is out-of-this-world. A relationship where whistles blow, bells ring, and fireworks ignite. No wonder it’s so appealing.
What usually doesn’t come to mind, are the disadvantages of having a twin flame.
The Disadvantages of Having a Twin Flame are…
1 WE CAN’T QUIT-
No matter how hard we try or what we do, we cannot get out of it. There might be times we think we have finally let our twin flame go, until we get signs from the universe or feel that magnetic force reel us back in.
2 WE BECOME REALLY OBSESSED-
We may have had an all or nothing attitude before, but this relationship takes it to the extreme. Everything else that we care about eventually takes a lower priority. Even our numbing devices and addictions, such as caffeine, food, busyness, texting, pills, alcohol, drugs, and cigarettes start losing our attention.
3 WE FIGHT OURSELVES-
We often have knock out battles between our mind and our heart. At times we are so sure we want nothing to do with our twin flame and then completely turn around the next moment and want to be with her/him so bad we can’t see straight.
4 WE HAVE TO FORGET ABOUT HAVING A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP-
There is no way our twin flame relationship will even resemble being like everyone else’s, at least until the planet evolves considerably.
5 WE WILL EXPERIENCE TERRIBLE LOWS-
Because the twin flame relationship is about getting rid of the 3rd dimension (ego) in both individuals at the same time, the lows can get extreme. One minute we can be fine and the next minute be in the deepest, darkest place we have ever felt. By the way, these spells can disappear if even one of the twin flame’s does their inner work on a consistent basis.
6 WE WILL HAVE TO BECOME SPIRITUAL-
There is no way of getting around it, we will become extremely spiritual. Between all the paranormal events, undeniable signs from the universe, telepathy, dreams, and intuitive abilities, it will make us believe there is something greater—beyond what we physical see, hear, and touch. In fact, it becomes so convincing that all our preprogrammed religious beliefs of what is right and what is wrong will become irrelevant.
7 WE WILL SPEND A LOT OF TIME ALONE-
Our desire to be social and have casual conversations will fade and at times almost vanish. We’ll be more interested in solitude, creativity, and spiritual endeavors. The twin flame journey drives us inward.
8 WE HAVE TO GIVE UP THE IDEA OF FREE WILL-
Most people think they have the ability to make choices as separate individuals, without these choices being predestined by fate or divine will. If we had free will in our lives and with this relationship, it would have turned out exactly the way we wanted it to a long time ago.
9 WE WILL LOSE FRIENDS-
Because our focus centers around our twin flame, we have less and less in common with others who are not experiencing the same phenomenon. We might have a couple of friends left who support our roller coaster relationship and all of our changes, but no matter how hard they try they can’t quite understand it.
10 WE FIND OURSELVES DOING THINGS WE NEVER THOUGHT WE WOULD EVER DO-
Because the magnetic pull to be with our twin flame is so strong, we’ll do practically anything to get to get her/him in our arms. We’ll change jobs or move hundreds of miles just to be physically closer to our twin flame. We’ll try all sorts of spiritual practices just to feel a deeper connection. We’ll even change every belief that is standing in the way of a happy outcome with our twin flame.
Huge disadvantages, huh? Or are they? These 10 disadvantages force us out of our comfort zones, stretch us beyond what we think is possible, turn our whole lives inside out, and most of all, prepare us for our twin flame union.
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