Vickie Champion

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The Disadvantages of Having a Twin Flame

When most of us think about having a twin flame, what comes to mind is having the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible with a connection that is out-of-this-world. A relationship where whistles blow, bells ring, and fireworks ignite. No wonder it’s so appealing.

What usually doesn’t come to mind, are the disadvantages of having a twin flame.

The Disadvantages of Having a Twin Flame are…

1   WE CAN’T QUIT-

No matter how hard we try or what we do, we cannot get out of it. There might be times we think we have finally let our twin flame go, until we get signs from the universe or feel that magnetic force reel us back in.

2   WE BECOME REALLY OBSESSED-

We may have had an all or nothing attitude before, but this relationship takes it to the extreme. Everything else that we care about eventually takes a lower priority. Even our numbing devices and addictions, such as caffeine, food, busyness, texting, pills, alcohol, drugs, and cigarettes start losing our attention.

3   WE FIGHT OURSELVES-

We often have knock out battles between our mind and our heart. At times we are so sure we want nothing to do with our twin flame and then completely turn around the next moment and want to be with her/him so bad we can’t see straight.

4   WE HAVE TO FORGET ABOUT HAVING A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP-

There is no way our twin flame relationship will even resemble being like everyone else’s, at least until the planet evolves considerably.

5   WE WILL EXPERIENCE TERRIBLE LOWS-

Because the twin flame relationship is about getting rid of the 3rd dimension (ego) in both individuals at the same time, the lows can get extreme. One minute we can be fine and the next minute be in the deepest, darkest place we have ever felt. By the way, these spells can disappear if even one of the twin flame’s does their inner work on a consistent basis.

6   WE WILL HAVE TO BECOME SPIRITUAL-

There is no way of getting around it, we will become extremely spiritual. Between all the paranormal events, undeniable signs from the universe, telepathy, dreams, and intuitive abilities, it will make us believe there is something greater—beyond what we physical see, hear, and touch. In fact, it becomes so convincing that all our preprogrammed religious beliefs of what is right and what is wrong will become irrelevant.

7   WE WILL SPEND A LOT OF TIME ALONE-

Our desire to be social and have casual conversations will fade and at times almost vanish.  We’ll be more interested in solitude, creativity, and spiritual endeavors.  The twin flame journey drives us inward.

8   WE HAVE TO GIVE UP THE IDEA OF FREE WILL-

Most people think they have the ability to make choices as separate individuals, without these choices being predestined by fate or divine will. If we had free will in our lives and with this relationship, it would have turned out exactly the way we wanted it to a long time ago.

9   WE WILL LOSE FRIENDS-

Because our focus centers around our twin flame, we have less and less in common with others who are not experiencing the same phenomenon. We might have a couple of friends left who support our roller coaster relationship and all of our changes, but no matter how hard they try they can’t quite understand it.

10   WE FIND OURSELVES DOING THINGS WE NEVER THOUGHT WE WOULD EVER DO-

Because the magnetic pull to be with our twin flame is so strong, we’ll do practically anything to get to get her/him in our arms. We’ll change jobs or move hundreds of miles just to be physically closer to our twin flame. We’ll try all sorts of spiritual practices just to feel a deeper connection. We’ll even change every belief that is standing in the way of a happy outcome with our twin flame.

 

Huge disadvantages, huh? Or are they? These 10 disadvantages force us out of our comfort zones, stretch us beyond what we think is possible, turn our whole lives inside out, and most of all, prepare us for our twin flame union.  

 A Self-Study Course for Twin Flames

This program shows you how to take the heartache out of your relationship, and shorten your timeline for a happy outcome. For more details.

For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website. For more details on my twin flame Individual Coaching Sessions.

If you need help letting go of your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.

 

 

 

 

Why People Who Feel Unworthy Can Have a Hard Time Meditating

There are lots of us who can’t get ourselves to sit down, be quiet, and relax for more than two seconds. Sometimes it’s a symptom of not feeling deserving or good enough.

We Probably Feel Unworthy When Meditating Causes Us to…

1   FEEL GUILTY-

When we feel unworthy, we tend to keep crazy busy trying to prove our worth. So, when we take time out of our day to do nothing, we feel guilty for not being productive.

2   FEEL SELFISH-

When we feel unworthy, we tend to think others are more important, which causes us to have a habit of filling our day caring for their needs. No wonder we have a hard time putting ourselves first, even for a few minutes.

3   WORRY-

When we feel unworthy, we tend to make meditating a horrible experience by worrying if we are doing it correctly. Because we have a habit of criticizing ourselves for every little thing, the last thing we want to do is spend time meditating the wrong way.

4   FEEL MORE INFERIOR-

When we feel unworthy, we tend to constantly compare ourselves with others. If we are having difficulty siting down, or slowing our thoughts, we beat ourselves up. That then causes us to not feel as good as other meditators.

Pay Attention to How You Feel!

If you feel this way when you try to meditate, it’s not surprising you want to avoid it like the plague. The act of meditating is not important! There are lots of different techniques that get the same effects. What is significant is if you want to continue to feel unworthy.

Are You Ready to Stop Feeling Unworthy?

This self-study course helps you change the mindset you have about yourself and the world around you. You will be able to finally feel worthy and be yourself, whether you end up meditating or not. For more details.

Also, check out the Quiz, How Worthy Do You Feel?

If you need more help feeling worthy, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching and consulting session.

 

When 1111 or 11:11 is NOT a Twin Flame Sign

When people contact me, they often mention that they see 1111 or 11:11 everywhere. You need to know that, just seeing four ones plastered everywhere is not necessarily a sign from the universe. Since 1111 or 11:11 have become so well known as twin flame signs, it’s easy to get fooled by thinking if we see or hear them, we have found our true love.

Here’s When 1111 or 11:11 Probably Isn’t a Twin Flame Sign…

1   THERE ARE NO OTHER SIGNS

Pay attention when there aren’t any other signs from the universe that will point us in the direction of our twin flame, such as seeing or hearing her/his name (especially if it’s an uncommon one, or if it’s first and last name together), or her/his birthdate (especially if it’s with the year too).

The key is the more uncommon and unlikely the sign is, the more the universe is sending us a private message.

2   WE ARE LOOKING FOR IT

Sometimes when we want that person to be our twin flame, we will start helping the universe by watching out for 1111 or 11:11. We might catch ourselves waiting for the clock to change, and guessing when 11:11 is.

It’s not much of a sign from the universe if we don’t trust that we’ll notice it when it does happen.

3   IT DOESN’T COME WITH A FEELING

A sign from the universe has a feeling attached to it. We feel something that is either emotional or physical. Emotionally we might get an “aha”, feel touched, or feel a little spooked out by how the sign appeared. Physically we might get chills, goose bumps, teared up, or feel our heart center expand.

The feeling that comes with the sign is almost always more important than actually seeing or hearing 1111 or 11:11.

 

Even if you do get others signs, are not looking for 1111 or 11:11, or do have a feeling when you see or hear it, it still takes inner work to have a happy outcome.

Are You Ready to Start Your Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details .

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

 

 

How Being Patient Sabotages Your Twin Flame Relationship

You would think being patient would be a loving thing to do, especially if you are in the runner/chaser pattern. But, the majority of the time it’s not.

Here’s How Patience Can Sabotage Our Twin Flame Relationship…

When we use patience to…

  • Blame our twin flame, their current partner, ourselves, anyone or anything else for the separation. A large part of the twin flame journey is learning how to forgive, even this.
  • Wait, which really means that we’re not ready for physical union yet either.
  • Keep fantasizing. That means we think our daydreams of a storybook romance just the way we want it are so much better than having an unconditionally loving relationship.
  • Stay in our comfort zone. Being with our twin flame sometimes has so many ups, downs, twists, and turns there might be a tendency to be afraid of the journey.
  • Stall doing our own inner work, which is letting go of the ego’s 3rd dimension mindset and releasing guilt, fear, and feeling unworthy.

As you can see, being patient is often used as an excuse to stay in fear of having a better a relationship than you have now.

 Are You Ready to Stop Being Patient and Do Your Inner Work?

This twin flame self-study course shows you how to shorten the timeline and navigate the relationship for a happy outcome. For more Details .

Or read my blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.

To learn more about Vickie’s Individual Coaching Sessions for twin flame relationships. For a complimentary coaching and consulting session, contact Vickie Champion.

 

 

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