It’s so easy to think we just haven’t found the right one. Or to get wrapped up in feeling sorry for ourselves because we haven’t found our prince/princess charming.
Before you spend a lifetime stuck in the boo-hoo’s praying and waiting for a relationship to rescue you or as Jerry Maguire says to “complete you,” think about this…
The only thing that can improve the quality of our lives is our own thoughts. When we first meet someone it seems we found the perfect woman/man but soon the newness starts wearing off and our judging, and not-so-positive thoughts start creeping in to ruin it.
So the first way to prepare for an ideal relationship is to…
Realize only you can make yourself happy.
When we work within and take responsibility for our own happiness, we not only feel complete, but brimming with plenty leftover. We attract and have amazing relationships when we are already full, and have the desire to share the extras with someone special.
If you need help on how to attract and have an ideal relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a discovery coaching and consulting session.
By Vickie Champion