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Disadvantages of “Being Right”
We probably all catch ourselves at one time or another wanting to “be right” over choosing to be happy. The key is to be aware of it and realize we have a choice. We can either change our minds or remain adamant about “being right” and suffer the consequences.
Here are the disadvantages of “being right”…
- We waste time judging, insulting, and complaining, which depletes our energy.
- We work extremely hard trying to prove we are right.
- We feel like a failure and have a need to punish ourselves when we are wrong.
Advantages of “Being Right”
For a good portion of my life, I have put a lot of effort into my inner work. And still at times I want to “be right” far more than I want to “be happy.” I notice this, anytime I take a side, become insistent, or find myself complaining.
Here are some of the Advantages of “Being Right”…
- It keeps us striving to be perfect and building our reputation.
- We are admired by others who also want to “be right” -- until we make a mistake.
- We need not waste our time trying to understand others’ opinions.