The 3rd dimension is all about rules and obligations. So it would make sense that making and keeping promises in a relationship, would be a good part of that mindset.
If you are one of the very few couples who are having no problems and are perfectly happy making and keeping promises, don’t read this. But, if it’s getting harder and harder for either you or your partner to follow your commitments, here’s why…
Romantic Promises tend to…
1 Give you false SECURITY about the future
2 CONTROL behaviors or at least, attempt to do so
3 Help you avoid CHANGES
4 Encourage POSSESSIVENESS
5 Push you towards taking your partner for GRANTED
6 Cause COMPROMISE and SACRIFICE
7 Lower SELF-ESTEEM when the promise has been broken
8 Foster CONDITIONAL LOVE
9 Put you on AUTO-PILOT, causing you to IGNORE your thoughts, feelings, and insights
10 Slow down PERSONAL GROWTH
11 Allow you to neglect your INNER GUIDANCE or intuition
When you look at these components broken down, no wonder the old worn out 3rd dimension consciousness, full of rules, obligation, and compromise is in the process of collapsing. I think most of us are ready to experience unconditional love, living in the present, and using our inner guidance or intuition instead.
Visit the entire 3rd, 4th and 5th dimension section.
If you need help with moving up to the 4th or 5th dimension, contact Vickie Champion for a coaching and consulting session.