I don’t know how anyone can get through a twin flame relationship without doubting everything they thought they knew for sure. What has helped me tremendously is the two-hundred or so pages on special relationships in A Course in Miracles. Here’s only some of what it says…
1 About a Possible Twin Flame Union…
Chapter 20 , Section IV , Paragraph 5
”To each who walks this earth in seeming solitude is a savior given, whose special function here is to release him, and so to free himself. In the world of separation each is appointed separately, though they are all the same. And each one finds his savior when he is ready to look upon the face of Christ, and see Him sinless.”
I’ve probably read this section hundreds of times in my 29 years of studying A Course of Miracles, but until I became aware of my twin, I never noticed the words in bold.
To me, this means that when each person is ready to really unconditionally love another person, one is specifically appointed to us, a twin flame.
2 Accepting it
Chapter 4, Section I, Paragraph 9
“You are not at peace because you are not fulfilling your function. God gave you a very lofty function that you are not meeting. Your ego has chosen to be afraid instead of meeting it.”
“Any attempt to increase its believableness is merely to postpone the inevitable.”
To me this means, what causes all the pain in the relationship is not accepting our function, of learning to unconditionally love this person who is completely the opposite of us, our twin. We are only wasting time when we try to make sense of the relationship.
3 Fighting the Intense Fear
Chapter 18 , Section VI , Paragraph 6
”But forget not that your relationship is one, and so it must be that whatever threatens the peace of one is an equal threat to the other. The power of joining its blessing lies in the fact that it is now impossible for you or your brother (or sister) to experience fear alone, or attempt to deal with it alone.”
To me this means, when either my twin or I are in fear, the other one experiences it also. I think this is part of the connection and why we feel so emotional at times without a logical or apparent reason.
Chapter 18 , Section VI , Paragraph 7
“Yet just as this is impossible, so it is equally impossible that the holy instant come to either of you without the other. And it will come to both at the request of either.”
“I desire this holy instant for myself, that I may share it with my brother, (or sister) whom I love.
It is not possible that I can have it without him, or he without me.
Yet it is wholly possible for us to share it now.
And so I choose this instant as the one to offer to the Holy Spirit, that His blessing may descend on us,
and keep us both in peace.”
To me this means, we don’t have to grin and bare it. We have the power to release the fear in our twin and ourselves. All I know is everytime I say these four sentences, it always releases the fear and I feel so much better.
4 The Power of the Relationship
Chapter 18 , Section II , Paragraph 13
“You have been called together with your brother, (or sister) to the most holy function this world contains. It is the only one that has no limits, and reaches out to every broken fragment of the Sonship with healing and uniting comfort.”
To me this means, as twins, we have a mission. We have been asked to participate in the highest relationship possible on earth. And with the uniting of the relationship, we will radiate so much love that everyone will somehow feel connected and at peace. Pretty lofty huh?
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