What’s all the excitement about twin flames? Apparently, according to the spiritual community, the planet is going through an acceleration of some sorts and twin flame unions are surfacing at an alarming rate. One of my life coaching clients said she heard the label “twin flames” from different people three times this week alone.
Who wouldn’t want to find the most fulfilling relationship humanly possible? At first glance the thought of having someone to complete you and the feeling you finally found a “home” is absolutely irresistible. And who wouldn’t want to have sex that is out of this world amazing?
The problem is, most think all they need to do is go out and find their twin flame. Then whistles will blow, bells will ring, and fireworks will ignite. And a new deeply connected, wonderful life will encompass them. It doesn’t work that way.
First of all, your twin flame cannot be found. They will appear automatically, but only when you are ready mentally and spiritually.
Secondly, no one or nothing can complete you. We are already complete and whole. We can think we are incomplete, but it’s a faulty concept to begin with and not true. Let me explain it this way.
No matter how hard we try, we can never fill our imagined half empty glass, especially with a relationship. But with God’s (Higher Source’s, Spirit’s, Inner Guidance’s, whatever you want to call it) help, we become aware that we are completely full to the brim already and nothing is missing.
Then, the overflow from both parties’ full glasses is the fuel that ignites the twin flame. A twin flame union is, therefore, an expansion of what already is.
Whether you attract your twin flame in this lifetime or not, you still have a completely full glass and need nothing else to make you perfectly happy. All you have to do is to become aware of it.
For several blogs and videos, visit the Twin Flame Section on my website.
If you need help with your twin flame relationship, contact Vickie Champion for a complimentary coaching & consulting session.