On the surface it seems like people pleasers get so much done. Always running here, running there, doing this and doing that. They work until the wee hours of the night, often seven days a week. How do they keep up that kind of pace? What keeps them so motivated?
In fact, people pleasers waste a lot of time. Here’s why…
They tend to place being busy as their top priority and being effective as their lowest priority. And this all comes from a deep-seated belief that they need to do something to be loved.
When you’re ready to stop wasting time and learn to say no in a gentle way, check out my Painless Ways to Stop People Pleasing—How to Say NO and Still be Kind video series.
By Vickie Champion