One way to feel lighter, free, more optimistic and charged once again with purpose is to forgive yourself. Is there something that you’ve done or not done that you have been holding onto? If it’s time to let go of the past so you and your loved ones can proceed with a brighter future, consider these reasons for forgiving yourself today.
 

Overview
This short video tells a step-by-step story of the process of making payments in a good, successful, or poor way that doesn’t sabotage us. You will see how we pay bills has immediate effects.
 

Here’s what is thought about in this video…

I don’t FEEL overwhelmed when I pay each bill as it comes in…
… and it’s so nice not paying LATE fees!
I LOVE paying bills…
…ESPECIALLY to the Public Utility Company!
…I can’t imagine my life without ELECTRICITY!
In some small way, I FEEL like every bill I pay…
…HELPS the employees feed their families.       
When I change my ATTITUDE about paying bills, it seems like I save more.
HINT: Positive thoughts help us to pay on time & remember to turn the lights off.
 
 
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Overview
This short video tells a step-by-step story of the process of making payments in a bad, unsuccessful, or poor way that sabotages us. How we pay bills has immediate effects.

Here’s what is thought about in this video…

“There’s never enough money!”
“I hope they don’t hit me with another late fee.”
“I hate paying bills…”
“…especially the Public Utility Company.”
“They keep raising the rates…”
“…so that the CEO can buy one more mansion.”
“How am I ever going to make ends meet?”
“This is making me sick! I’ll finish this later.”
HINT: Negative thoughts cause us to pay late and forget to turn the lights off.
 
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The Best Way to Pay Bills

What you’ve done is not the reason you’re not forgiving yourself. It’s what you want to continue to do. Think about that. There’s a reason – one that you feel is pretty darn good – for continuing to hold onto that self scorn. We always think we have good reasons for what we do. And maybe we do, or did. Is it time to change your reason for not forgiving yourself? Consider these 12 benefits or excuses we have for not forgiving ourselves.
 

We can have an EXCUSE to…

1  Talk about ourselves with a self-condemning overtone.      

She pushed me. She cajoled me. She reassured me. Blogging would help build my credibility. It would help me reach clients. It would make me a better coach.

The commitment seemed overwhelming.

Finally I relented and wrote my first blog. Today I am celebrating two and a half years in the blogosphere. Sometimes I still don’t know where I’m going when I start, but my fingers find the way. Thank you my former assistant Robin Parker – wherever you are now – for setting me on the path.

If you are anything like me, you’re curious about what people are more curious about.  (Seems like a lot of us are interested in the things we’re afraid of.) So to celebrate my 28th month of blogging, here are my Top 10 blog posts about life in general. Watch for a future post about my post popular blog posts on business.
 

1  9 Ways to Get Out of Fear.
2  The Heaviest Movie I Have Ever Seen!
3  Do You Know What Your Dreams Are?
4  Advantages of “Being Right.”
5  Do You Have Isolation Disease?
6  Signs We Might be in Fear.
7  It Never Hurts to Start the Day Out Right!
8  The Advantages of Doing Affirmations.
9  Signs We are Feeling Unsafe.
10  38 Ways Fear Can Harm Us.

Forgiveness can be like cleaning out your closet. At first, it’s dreaded as one difficult, if not impossible, task. But once the contents have been cleared, sorted and organized, everything feels better – lighter.
Do the contents of your spirit need to be assessed? Forgiveness is one pathway toward clearing and freeing the spirit. We can say we have forgiven someone, but have we?
 
Here’s how to tell if you still need to do more forgiveness work-
 
When you…

You may think just shedding those extra pounds would be satisfying. Sure, it would be nice to fit into smaller clothes and be able to cross your legs without a great deal of effort. But the question is, “If getting rid of the excess fat was so satisfying then why do we gain it back?”
 

Here’s Some Points to Consider when Putting Losing Weight as a Higher Priority…

• We revolve our lives around things we think we “need” to do, like following the latest diet, counting fat grams, reading food labels, weighing food, exercising, taking pills or even preparing for surgery. Not only do these tasks take a lot of our energy, but they also steer us away from doing things that give us pleasure and that we thoroughly enjoy.